Connie - Ohio

2008-10-31 19:18:51

Connie this is not for everyone It is great you are asking questions if you
are not 100% sure.
If you have a campasion for food this could be difficult. Your 65 and could
have alot of life left especially if your weight and health are under
control. So think about what you want !!!! Bless You
Robin O - Calif
211-133-???
Dec 5 2002

Weekly Group Chat!!, 10/27/2003, 7:00 pm

2008-10-31 14:52:55

Reminder Reminder from the Calendar of Gastric_Bypass_Family
Weekly Group Chat!!
Monday October 27, 2003
7:00 pm - 10:00 pm
This event repeats every week.
Notes:

Re: New and WOW!

2008-10-31 05:04:43

I am not your age either, and if asked a week after my surgery I
would not have recommended this surgery to anyone, but the first week
for me was tough(mainly due to my dependance on others)...I have
never felt forced into a diet and honestly my hubby has to remind me
to eat because for a while the hunger is just not there. And when you
do eat you know it is for survival, that is key. I am four weeks out
as of today and down about 33 pounds, I already feel better and I
don't feel like I am lacking anything, because of food. It is the
opposite, I feel like my life no longer revolves around food...it is
truly amazing. I don't crave things like I used to, like sugar and
fried foods, I crave things that will nourish my body, because I
realize that is important. If asked now, if I would recommend this
surgery, ABSOLUTELY!!!!! I would do it again. Good luck in your
decision!!!
Hannah
Open RNY 9/29/03
288/255

Got my referral letter!

2008-10-31 00:31:33

I got my referral letter on Saturday from my HMO (Healthguard of
Lancaster) and I called and made my appointment for the mandatory
weight loss seminar that is required. I go on November 20th to the
seminar. After that I schedule an appointment with the Nutritionist
and we go from there. The web site for the doctor I was referred to
says it takes 6-9 months from the first visit with the Nutritionist
before you finally have your surgery so I have to say I only hope
it's quicker than that! I'm excited and scared but this is progress!!!
http://www.hmc.psu.edu/gastric-bypass/index.htm

New and WOW!

2008-10-30 20:03:36

Hi,
I am new to the group. WOW ! congratulations to all of you brave people. I say
brave, because I know I need this surgery, but am having a lot of trouble
dealing with it.
My hubby and I have both talked to our doctors about the surgery and they both
have recommended that we do it. I am 65, he is 64, and although I know it would
mean that we could probably enjoy a longer life, I just don't know if we should
do it. Are any of you close to this age? I am not afraid of having the surgery
itself, it is just that I know how weak I am at dieting, and this would force me
into it. Can I handle being forced into it?
Can I handle this? Help, Help, Help!!!!
Connie
Ohio

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] New and WOW!

2008-10-30 19:59:08

hey Connie,
well I am half your age I just wanted to let you know that I was weak at dieting
also .. but with this surgery it is not even an issue.. I just know I can't have
it and I really don't want it.. I am only 10 days out but I am doing well.. my
first couple of days was really rough I cried what have I done but now I am
starting to see some of the weight come off 19 pounds to be exact and I fell
much better.
Kerri k.

PLEASE IGNORE - TESTING

2008-10-30 04:15:51

~*~**~ Katie/Seta/Anneia/Ari ~**~*~
~ those who are different change the world those
who are the same keep it that way ~
Thank you to "Master Akane" for allowing me to use this quote in my
signature.
I am not aware of who the originating author is. But it's too true to pass
up.
It's how I feel as well. Enjoy it. :)

Throat Pain

2008-10-30 00:42:49

I had my surgery Sept. 24. Everything went fine, and I was surprised
how easy it all went. As I have said before, I have never thrown up.
I get a little pressure in my throat that tells me that I need to
stop and give myself time to burp. One week after surgery, my doctor
put me on regular "lean" meats and leafy vegetables. I haven't had
any problems with that. Now, my problem is---a lot of the time, the
pressure in my throat, when I eat (air that needs to be burped up)
causes pain. I eat small bites slowly, and chew them really well.
But, a lot of the time, pressure builds up, and I have to stop for a
few minutes (sometimes it feels like several minutes) because the
pressure causes such pain. Sometimes it feels like my throat is going
to explode! Please tell me that this eventually stops. I go to see my
surgeon in a couple weeks.
Charlotte
265/252-day of surgery/227/160

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] another product review/a plus to having deflated boobs

2008-10-29 16:49:40

Where is Norman Brothers, Lori? I am from the Keys but go to Miami for
health care and shopping. I had my surgery at Baptist on Oct. 20. JoAnne

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] hey newbee

2008-10-29 11:12:46

Hi Deanna, my doctor has had women go on to have healthy children. Thank was an
important issue for me, too, as hubby and I want kids. Is Lynch your maiden
name? I was a Lynch prior to my marriage. Everyone here is very knowledgable and
has a lot of suggestions...sherri

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Hi Everyone.

2008-10-29 04:32:09

Welcome home Jill,
Being home has got to feel great. How did they wake your sleepy or lazy bowel?
You take care, Constance
jill_h_2001 <jill_h_2001@...
I just had my open rny on monday the 20 th. This the first time I
have had a chance to post. Everthing went well overall. The
hospital and dr. took good care of me. My only problem was I
developed a lazy bowel that wouldn't wake. I actually vomited 1 time
and boy did that hurt. I ended up in the hospital for 2 extra days,
because I was so nauseated and didn't want to drink anything. So
they kept me in, put my IV back in and rehydrated me. I don't regret
the extra hospital time it is better to be safe than sorry. It was
hard to see the other 3 patient that had surgery the same day as me,
leave on thursday and I stayed til sat. I don't mean to scare any
pre-op,I just happened to be the rare person this happens to. Now I
am home I find it very hard to remember to constantly sip at
something to drink. I am trying hard though. It is good to be able
to read everyones posts again.
Jill H.
276/post-op
10/20/03

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Hello again

2008-10-29 01:50:16

Hello Rosa,
That's wonderful news about your son. It would be great to hear how you have
been.Constance
Rosa Galvan <authenticity@...
Well Folks
I know the last time you guys herd from me was back in July when I
mentioned my son was in a car accident.. Well he is better now. The
recovery for him has been hard and just wanted to thank you all for your
prayers and individual emails to me. Once again thanks.
Rosa In NJ
Surgery 2-7-02
5" 5"--BMI 46 (298-147)Lost 151 LBS
Surgeon: Dr. John H. Holup/Pascack Valley

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Hubby had surgery last Tuesday

2008-10-28 16:30:31

Leah,
I just wanted to say hello and congratulations to your husband. Our surgeon
suggested that my husband and I have our surgeries about 3 weeks apart also.
Tomorrow is a week... how is he feeling? Im glad that you feel better and am
excited for you too. We are still waiting on approval. My cardiac/stress test
results and specific letter of clearance from cardiologist holding us up. Good
news was that when we get approval, they have to schedule surgery within two
weeks, from what I understand. I wish you both the best, Constance
Leah <gonnabthin1@...
My husband had surgery last Tuesday and is doing great! The trip
home (9 hr drive) was a little rough though. I can't wait to have
mine now! Just 16 more days. I had all my pre-op testing done with
him, so that's out of the way. After meeting Dr. Hargroder and all
the nurses at the hospital, I'm not scared anymore. Everyone was
wonderful. One of his nurses had the same surgery 2 weeks ago and
was already back to work. Makes me very comfortable that one of Dr.
Hargroder's nurses trusts him to do their surgery.
Leah :)

Re: bad gas pass problem

2008-10-28 14:13:15

I had simethocone given to me in the hospital. It was also
recomened as a med.to buy post op.
Hope that helps.
Jill H.
276/post op
10/20/03

Hi Everyone.

2008-10-28 04:58:58

I just had my open rny on monday the 20 th. This the first time I
have had a chance to post. Everthing went well overall. The
hospital and dr. took good care of me. My only problem was I
developed a lazy bowel that wouldn't wake. I actually vomited 1 time
and boy did that hurt. I ended up in the hospital for 2 extra days,
because I was so nauseated and didn't want to drink anything. So
they kept me in, put my IV back in and rehydrated me. I don't regret
the extra hospital time it is better to be safe than sorry. It was
hard to see the other 3 patient that had surgery the same day as me,
leave on thursday and I stayed til sat. I don't mean to scare any
pre-op,I just happened to be the rare person this happens to. Now I
am home I find it very hard to remember to constantly sip at
something to drink. I am trying hard though. It is good to be able
to read everyones posts again.
Jill H.
276/post-op
10/20/03

bad gas pass problem

2008-10-28 01:48:04

hi anybody have this problem? I had my rny april 2003 and I am
hitting a plateau with my weight. Most whatever I eat I get terrible
flatulence.
Can we take any OTC meds for this such as simethicone?
LAP RNY 4/2003
BEFORE 265
NOW 199

Hello again

2008-10-27 16:57:31

Well Folks
I know the last time you guys herd from me was back in July when I
mentioned my son was in a car accident.. Well he is better now. The
recovery for him has been hard and just wanted to thank you all for your
prayers and individual emails to me. Once again thanks.
Rosa In NJ
Surgery 2-7-02
5" 5"--BMI 46 (298-147)Lost 151 LBS
Surgeon: Dr. John H. Holup/Pascack Valley

Re: Hello again

2008-10-27 16:05:32

Welcome back Rosa,
So glad that things are going better for you and your son.
That is also wonderful that you have maintained your weightloss.
Are you exercising and do you have trouble watching what you eat?
Best wishes,
Bridget
Pre-op for lap rny.

Re: Hubby had surgery last Tuesday

2008-10-27 10:29:07

wonderful news, leah. tgoodness you're reassured & you're @ ease.
just a little over 2 weeks & you'll be on your way. keep posting.
lori h.

Hubby had surgery last Tuesday

2008-10-26 22:53:54

My husband had surgery last Tuesday and is doing great! The trip
home (9 hr drive) was a little rough though. I can't wait to have
mine now! Just 16 more days. I had all my pre-op testing done with
him, so that's out of the way. After meeting Dr. Hargroder and all
the nurses at the hospital, I'm not scared anymore. Everyone was
wonderful. One of his nurses had the same surgery 2 weeks ago and
was already back to work. Makes me very comfortable that one of Dr.
Hargroder's nurses trusts him to do their surgery.
Leah :)

Cleveland Clinic (Weston) meeting, 10/27/2003, 5:00 pm

2008-10-26 17:56:50

Reminder Reminder from the Calendar of Gastric_Bypass_Family
Cleveland Clinic (Weston) meeting
Monday October 27, 2003
5:00 pm - 7:00 pm
This event repeats on the last Monday of every month.
Event Location: conference room
Notes:
email wlslori@... for more info/directions

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] 9 month pics

2008-10-26 15:00:59

WOW! You are doing great :) keep up the great job.
Ruth
Postop Open RNY
386/199/???
Oct 29,2002
MA
toibox_success <toibox_success@...
They're posted under ToiBox. I'd arrange them for side by sides,
only my account isn't letting me for some reason. Anyway. Its
almost time to take those 10 months pics, but you'll get the idea
from these since my size hasn't changed all that much.
Thanks for being such a wonderfully supportive and encouraging family.
XXXmmmmwwwwaaaaaXXX
**Don't dwell on past failures, dream of future
successes.**

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Just Wanted to Share

2008-10-26 11:23:51

Hi Beth, congrats on the success!!!! Keep us posted!!! sherri

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Indiana WLS...

2008-10-26 05:35:40

Thank you for the correction...If you know anyone who is from Indiana, please
send them over..Talk to you soon. karen
Cristi <cristi.n.aliester@...

Indiana WLS...

2008-10-25 18:25:05

Hello: I am from southern Indiana and I am trying to get a Hoosier
WLS support group started. If you are interested the web site

Re: 9 month pics

2008-10-25 11:52:05

Toi, you are one red hot mama!!! Thanks for sharing your success
with us---gives us new posties hope!!
Connie
open rny 9/18/03
293/258/170

9 month pics

2008-10-25 08:55:38

They're posted under ToiBox. I'd arrange them for side by sides,
only my account isn't letting me for some reason. Anyway. Its
almost time to take those 10 months pics, but you'll get the idea
from these since my size hasn't changed all that much.
Thanks for being such a wonderfully supportive and encouraging family.
XXXmmmmwwwwaaaaaXXX
**Don't dwell on past failures, dream of future
successes.**

Re: cottage cheese legs

2008-10-24 22:00:19

Hi Dawn, Not exactly loooong term here, but I am 10 months and only
25 lbs from goal. I always had cellulite, even in my thinner days.
I'm glad to say that since my weightloss I don't see the
dreaded "cottage cheese" butt and thighs anymore. Unfortunately, at
least on my inner thighs, the cottage cheese has been replaced with
melted mozerella. Ewww... appetizing, no?!?!
**Don't dwell on past failures, dream of future
successes.**

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Sharing my first shopping experience post-op

2008-10-24 18:20:26

Hi Beth,
Just want to say i am so excited for you. You should be so proud of your self.
hearing your experience makes me happy too, because we were very similar in
weight, i was 317 pre op, now 280. just think if you have lost this in 3 months
imagine where you will be in 6 months....and 9 months...you go girl.
Hugs Dawn 4 weeks post rny
bkinney624 <bk624@...
Hi everyone,
I just past 3 months post-op and needed to buy a winter coat (I live
north of Boston, MA and it's freezing up here already and it's not
even November). So off I went to search for a winter coat today and
I was SHOCKED to say the least that I was between a 16 and an 18
size. I knew I was losing quite a bit of inches, but WOW this was
the best shopping experience I've had in YEARS and it's only going
to get better. I finally look forward to shopping again. It's been
too long!
I find that I'm just so happy about myself now and I'm truly looking
forward to my future. Before the surgery I loved myself, but not
like today, it's an amazing feeling it truly is. I just feel so
confident and want to participate again in everything, it's
wonderful! I'm happy I've lost 74 pounds to date, but never did I
believe I would be a size 18 already in clothes; I started at a size
26. I bought a size X today in tops, not a 3x or even a 1x, but an
X. I never even knew this size existed.
I just had to share my experience with you all. I don't post a lot,
but I do read all the postings. This site has been a god send to me
and I really appreciate each and everyone of you. Thank you from
the bottom of my heart for being here for me and each other. This
is a great family!!
-Beth
07/18/2003 LAP RNY
339/265/150
36 years old and 5'10"
Boston, MA

Clothing Exchange

2008-10-24 14:23:46

Exactly how do clothing exchanges work? I've spent this weekend sorting
through my vast warehouse of clothing and have now sorted my clothing into
three groups: those I can wear currently, those I'll be wearing in the
coming months, and those that I will never wear again. This last group is
currently overwhelming my loveseat and will shortly be in lawn and leaf bags
The obvious place to recycle these goodies would be my support group's
clothing exchange next month but I'm lost on the how-to's! I assume they
should be laundered, but should they somehow be sorted by size or tops,
bottoms,etc? Can bras be included? Can items needing simple mending be
included if labeled as such? Help!
Mary
Open RNY 8/7/03
316/255/150

Re: Sleeping pills

2008-10-24 09:41:20

nope, have you tried "sleepytime" teas?? or reading a tedious book?
lori h.

Re: Sharing my first shopping experience post-op

2008-10-23 23:56:42

awesome job, beth. congrats on all your progress!
lori h.

Re: Just Wanted to Share

2008-10-23 23:39:04

that's incredible, less than 6 months out! keep it up!!!
lori h.

Re: i am a loser

2008-10-23 18:02:29

you go, kerri!!
lori h.

Re: almost 4 weeks post-op

2008-10-23 13:30:20

Wow, I wish I could walk that much...I walk a total of a mile every
day...1/2 mile at a time and I am exhausted...but that helps me with
my problem...just need more energy now...hehehehehe, by the time I am
done with my half mile, I am ready for a nap...thank you so much for
the tip....
~Hannah~

Re: Insurance "stuff"

2008-10-23 00:54:02

Thanks a lot for your help. I was thinking it would be a good idea
about the OB too. Just in case. Did they approve you with just the
six months of chart notes that you had?
Again, thanks
Chris

Sleeping pills

2008-10-22 17:03:06

Does anyone on the list know if sleeping pills -- bought over the counter -- are
bad for gastric bypass patients? Does anyone who is post-op take them?
Chris
LAP 09-23-03
Southern California

Just Wanted to Share

2008-10-22 14:31:21

Hello Everyone,
It has been awhile since I have posted about my progress. Things
are going GREAT!!!! I had my surgery April 29,2003, almost 6 months
ago. I weighed 266 pounds, I now weigh 175 pounds, I went from a
size 24-26 and am now in a size 14!!!!!! I tried on my 18 year old
daughters clothes, and they ALL FIT ME!!!!!!!!!!!! My kids think I
look hot now!! I feel so good, and even though I am engaged, guys
are flirting with me now. I won't go for any of them, it just feels
good when a guy takes a second look at me now, when I was invisible
before. A huge woman was invisible, ironic, huh? But I'm sure all
of you know what I mean. The good thing about my fiancee' is that he
loved me when I was big, he met me that way, fell in love with me,
and asked me to marry him before my surgery. He is the best!! The
only problem I am having right now is that my hair is thinning a
little, but I am hoping to stop that with Biotin, thanks to all of
your help on here.
Beth
4/29/03
266/175/135

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Insurance "stuff"

2008-10-22 09:43:10

Hi Chris! It may say denial on the letter (mine did) but really they just
want more information. I would make sure that your present doctor puts
something in the paperwork that you've only been seeing him for a year and a
half and that you didn't see anyone before then because of lack of insurance
They wanted 2 years of information on me, and I just got insurance 6 months
ago. (One month at the time of my consult.) I would also get some kind of
paper from your OB since he/she DID see you three years ago. ~*~Belated
Congratulations on the birth of your son!!!!~*~ Good Luck and keep us posted
on your progress.
Shannon in Indiana

Re: Biotin/Linda

2008-10-22 01:29:14

I use Nutri-Ox by Naturelle which was recommended by the beauty supply store I
go to for thinning hair. I was told that it is the equivalent of Nioxin. For
the shampoo and conditioner I paid about $12.
Chris
<<Message: 5
Date: Thu, 23 Oct 2003 11:34:40 -0700 (PDT)
From: Linda Wales <lbwales@...
Subject: Biotin
Has anybody used any other product containing Biotin other than Nioxin?
I found Nioxin on the internet, but balked at the expense. I searched
and found Biotin shampoo and conditioners and Biotin lozenges from Mill
Creek Botanicals for $3.75 a bottle. Not a big bottle, but cheaper than
Nioxin. I am still pre-op until December 12, but will start using the
products as soon as I start getting nervous about the surgery, I figure
about a week out. So, anybody tried anything other than Nioxin?
Linda
Open RNY 12/12/03 Dr. Mary Murphy, San Diego
265/252/150

Sharing my first shopping experience post-op

2008-10-21 23:24:57

Hi everyone,
I just past 3 months post-op and needed to buy a winter coat (I live
north of Boston, MA and it's freezing up here already and it's not
even November). So off I went to search for a winter coat today and
I was SHOCKED to say the least that I was between a 16 and an 18
size. I knew I was losing quite a bit of inches, but WOW this was
the best shopping experience I've had in YEARS and it's only going
to get better. I finally look forward to shopping again. It's been
too long!
I find that I'm just so happy about myself now and I'm truly looking
forward to my future. Before the surgery I loved myself, but not
like today, it's an amazing feeling it truly is. I just feel so
confident and want to participate again in everything, it's
wonderful! I'm happy I've lost 74 pounds to date, but never did I
believe I would be a size 18 already in clothes; I started at a size
26. I bought a size X today in tops, not a 3x or even a 1x, but an
X. I never even knew this size existed.
I just had to share my experience with you all. I don't post a lot,
but I do read all the postings. This site has been a god send to me
and I really appreciate each and everyone of you. Thank you from
the bottom of my heart for being here for me and each other. This
is a great family!!
-Beth
07/18/2003 LAP RNY
339/265/150
36 years old and 5'10"
Boston, MA

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] almost 4 weeks post-op

2008-10-21 17:02:37

Hi Hannah,
Im new to the group. What you are experiencing is EXACTLY what happened to
me. I hate when people ask if I have lost more weight and Im at a stand
still. People think it should be falling off and so do we when we first
start out. What I did was to break up my 3 meals into smaller meals and
tried eating small portions 6 or so times a day- this helps with your
metabolism. Also, walking is all I do for exercise and it does wonders for
me. My surgeon told me if I wanted to loose weight faster to walk more, so I
try to walk 3 miles every day.
Hope this helps.
Hugs~Vrai
LAP RYN 8-13-03
280/229/130

almost 4 weeks post-op

2008-10-21 13:27:57

I am almost 4 weeks post-op and seem to already be at a stand still,
I have lost 30 pounds total, but for the last 5 days I am
consistantly waivering between 28 and 30 pounds...have not lost
anymore...I am eating the same as I have been, so I don't know why I
have stopped losing...it is very discouraging and I want to throw my
scale out the window...and of course, everyone wants to know, how
much weight I have lost and I have to keep saying 30 pounds...any
tips, the most exercise I have been permitted to do at this point is
walking, and I can't wait to get back into yoga again...but until then
(2 more weeks)...i would appreciate any pointers...thanks so much...
Hannah
9/29/03
open RNY
288/258

Re: 3 days left

2008-10-20 22:35:15

I just had surgery on the 29th of September and I was so nervous the
days before, but the day of my surgery a calming peace was all around
me and I knew I was going to be ok...it was amazing and I knew it was
God and all my friends and family praying for me...I am still just
new to this site, but felt like I should share...

Re: hey newbee...Baby

2008-10-20 17:31:22

Deanna, WLS has been one of the greatest things that has happened to me. In
just three short months, it has already made a tremendous impact on my life. I
am more confident, happier, and for the first time in years, I feel more like a
"normal" sized person. One of the main reasons I had RNY surgery in the first
place, was so that one day I could have a baby. Plenty of women have healthy
babies post-op, and one day I'm going to be one of them. (Keep in mind though
that as you lose weight, it will very likely become easier for you to conceive,
so you'll want to be on reliable birth control. No more birth control pills,
and you should be under 198 lbs. for the patch to be most effective. I just
started the NuvaRing, and so far, so good.) I do not have one single bit of
regret for having this surgery. Sure it was a lot of work getting ready for it,
and it continues to be a lot of work getting the most from it that I can, but
it's been worth every bit of effort. I thank God
every day for giving me the opportunity to improve my life, and the courage to
get through it. It truly is a blessing.
Gina in CA
LAP RNY 07-17-03
324/248.5/130?

Insurance "stuff"

2008-10-20 16:49:25

Hi everyone. Just got my first letter back from the insurance
company. Don't know if it really is a denial or not, but just a
letter stating that they need more information like three years worth
of chart notes from my primary doctor. I haven't even been seeing
that doctor for that long, only a year and a half. Didn't really go
to the doctor much before that, because I didn't have insurance. I
hope that what he has will be enough. Anybody else in this
predicament? I called the doctors office and they are sending a
letter again and whatever notes he has so we'll see what happens.
My son is three years old, do you think they would want notes from my
OB doctor?
Thanks for being there
Chris
Lap RNY 11/12/03

i am a loser

2008-10-20 06:01:05

i am an loooooosssseeeeeeeerrrr as of today there is 19 pounds gone.. YEAH
BABY !!!! i am happy
kerri k.

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] 3 days left

2008-10-20 05:17:51

Hi there,
I was also calm about the surgery i had no worries i knew God
was watching over me and lots of friends were praying for me. Everyone kept
asking if i was nervous and i said nooo the day of my surgery even the droctor
and the nurses were asking me i kept telling them i was fine they wanted to give
me something for my nervers and i said what for i am not nervouse let`s just do
the surgery already lol. My surgery was 06-05-03 and i am doing good. I will
keep you in my prayers i know you will just do fine Please let me know how
things go for u when you get home..
patmarlow17@...
nora <williams2614@...
hi everyone! i am down to 2 days before my surgery (its 10-28-03)
everyone at my job asked me was i nervous and its amazing but i am
not or at least i wan't until the by the end of the day when all i
kept hearing from my co workers were i'm gonna miss you, and you make
sure that you come back, and it won't be the same without you. now if
iwasn't worried or scared i told them they would make me that way. i
don't know should i be worried or scared. i know that i have angels
watching over me, an i also believe that GOD would not take me away
from my children right now. so i wam just wondering was anyone else
clam about the surgery or am i the only one that is this way.
nora
pre-op
10-28-03
michigan
williams2614@...

3 days left

2008-10-19 15:45:46

hi everyone! i am down to 2 days before my surgery (its 10-28-03)
everyone at my job asked me was i nervous and its amazing but i am
not or at least i wan't until the by the end of the day when all i
kept hearing from my co workers were i'm gonna miss you, and you make
sure that you come back, and it won't be the same without you. now if
iwasn't worried or scared i told them they would make me that way. i
don't know should i be worried or scared. i know that i have angels
watching over me, an i also believe that GOD would not take me away
from my children right now. so i wam just wondering was anyone else
clam about the surgery or am i the only one that is this way.
nora
pre-op
10-28-03
michigan
williams2614@...

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Digest Number 1509

2008-10-19 12:50:51

Kerri congrats on your surgery. Here's wishing you a speedy recovery. My
emotions have been pretty wild and crazy but have gotten a little more tamed
down finally the closer it gets. Still scared and nervous but gettin a grip
take care keep us posted on how you are doing

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] hey newbee...Baby

2008-10-19 10:36:17

Hey Deanna I had the same fears wondering if I could have more babies after. I
went to my OB-GYN and talked to her....She said that is not best to get pregnant
until a year or more after WLS. And then all you really have to do is add an
extra Prenat.vit. My husband and plan on adding another baby to the tribe next
summer. Thats one of the main reasons I wanted this WLS sooooooo bad. My son
needs a sister!!!!
Love and Happiness,
Zelandra

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Digest Number 1512

2008-10-19 04:05:44

Hi everyone Ya for Shannon your new birthday is almost here!!!!
did anyone have trouble with abnormal blood work. Mine just came back and
something is out of whack hopefully it is from all the meds I have taken for
years. Its the PTT the one that has to do with clotting mine is elevated.
scarey thought!! Now I have to wait til Monday to find out ho hum.
Wolfeyes your are so cool you always know just the right thing to say to get us
through a crisis. Love ya
I think I am starting to get a grip on this surgery thing. Someone told me
today to think of how rotten I have felt and it can only get better from here.
That kinda helped. Boy did that open my eyes. Still nervous but ok.
You people who are playing the waiting game I wish you the best of luck. don't
let insurance push you around. Mine tried but it didn't work and I am so
thrilled to finally have gotten this far. Have a great weekend Love you all
group, Huggs

Re: hey newbee

2008-10-18 21:21:39

Deanna,
You will have to decide for yourself if it is right for you, but I'm
so thrilled to have had the opportunity to hugely improve my health
and life. Maybe the first few days, most of us might have the
fleeting thought, what have I done to myself? But as you feel better
and get results, those feelings pass quickly.
Pregnancy is not an issue with me, but what I hear is that most docs
don't want you to get pregnant until you're a year out or more,
otherwise it's fine.
Connie
open rny
293/268/170

RE: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Salad

2008-10-18 12:56:06

I am only 4 months post op and started having salad at about 3 months. I
usually don't pile the lettuce on but rather eat only a tiny bit of
lettuce, lots of cheese and egg, a little bit of bacos and nothing else
except Fat Free salad dressing.
Hope this helps!!
Tanya T.
Lap RNY 6/20/03
432/326/170
Houston, Dr. Adam Naaman

Re: Salad

2008-10-18 09:29:59

Hi Mary,
I had to wait one month before having a salad. I did have one on my
month anniversary and I continue to have a lot of salads, but mainly
greens/spinach and always have cubes of grilled chicken on it to get
my protein in. I have a balsamic dressing and I pretty much this
salad M-F for lunch at work.
Maybe you or someone else could answer this; why can we post-ops not
have salads or have to wait awhile to have them? I remember asking
my nutritionist but I can't remember what she told me. All I know
is I wanted a salad once I could start eating solids and counted the
days until I could have one.
Good luck!
Beth
07/18/2003 LAP RNY
339/266/150
Boston, MA

Salad

2008-10-17 23:11:50

Hey all. I am almost 8 months post op. When did any
of you start eating salad? I'm going to try it
tomorrow, but am afraid. I was just wondering what
some of your experiences with it were post op. Thanks
to anyone who answers me!
Mary
March 11th, 2003
319/198/135
=====
"My wish isnt to be everything to everyone, but something to someone..."

Re: Wolfie

2008-10-17 16:59:51

Marla,
(That's my sister's name!) I live in the Los Angeles area. Actually
I'm in Valencia. I guess I am lucky that my friends loved me fat and
they love me on my way to thin-ness. But I always have room for new
friends! You keep on writing here and feel free to email me directly
if you like.
Keep your chin up!
Michelle
LAP RNY 8/12/03
219/182/125?
Dr. Wes Powell
Huntington Memorial
Pasadena, CA

cottage cheese legs

2008-10-17 16:54:20

Hi people, well i have a question for all those longer post ops...as
a heavely person i have a lot of celulite, cottage cheese look on
legs. does that change after weightloss if one exercises often....and
is there a chance if one exersises that their breasts won't turn all
droopy.
Hugs Dawn
sept 29th rny 2003
Dr.Knor
317/281/145

hey newbee

2008-10-17 12:15:31

Hi
I have a question for everyone. I am a little nervous the doctor's office
called me today to start the whole big process, and i just wanted to ask all of
you guys if you have ever regretted your decision to have this surgery. and
please be brutally honest. I really do not want to make a bad decision or not
make a good one. also i just want to make sure you can get pregnant after
this surgery, it is very important to me that i will be able to have children
because i am only 21.
thanks deanna

Kris - Scars

2008-10-17 00:35:58

Hello Kris I had lap on Dec 5th 2002 my lap scars are already almost gone.
As for the size thing you are right Juniors run 5 7 9 and women are even
sizes 6 8 10
because we are built a little differnt. Soon you will be one of these
lovely # 's
Best to You !
Robin O- Calif
211-133-?????

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] milk

2008-10-16 23:45:15

I was 1 week post-op when I started drinking milk and I am tolerating it well
so far, thank goodness, because I love milk.
Chris
post-op
10/13/03
In a message dated 10/24/03 1:56:05 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
kkelley2@... writes:
how long were you guys post-op before you started drinking milk?
thanks
kerri k.
334/?/175

Question! I can't look at Photos

2008-10-16 20:38:17

I have tried to look in the photo file and keep getting an error. Do
I need special clearance to look at photos or ????
Stephanie

Re: milk

2008-10-16 08:54:23

I started drinking milk almost immediately. In fact I seem to
remember that when I had my first "food" at the hospital after the
leak test, skim milk was one of the things on my tray. Milk has
protein, calcium and vitamin D which we really need a lot of!!!
LoriB
Post-Op October 3
BMI 40/?
228/215 (Probly less now!!! Get weighed in next Wed)

milk

2008-10-16 02:40:11

how long were you guys post-op before you started drinking milk?
thanks
kerri k.
334/?/175

yay shannon!!!!

2008-10-15 23:26:31

finally!! so happy for you. just wait till you start signing
"post-op". you're gonna do great!
lori h.

another product review/a plus to having deflated boobs

2008-10-15 19:11:53

yesterday i picked up some very low carb "cracker bread" @ my local
overpriced health food place (Norman Brothers for we Miamians). the
brand name is "Andre's Carbo Save". they're made w/ soy, almond &
hazelnut flour etc. delectable, spectacular!!!
well, hanging on the outside of the store like christmas lights were
hundreds upon hundreds of bras, yes, dangling bras everywhere--the
trees,etc. could not contain my curiousity & found out that the store
donates $ for every bra donated b/c of breast awareness month. by
some bizarre magical coincidence i was about to throw away a bra that
doesn't fit. wow! (actually, i wear band-aids now, i should donate
all my bras, haha). serendipidity is divine.
lori h.

Re: What goes down keeps coming back up

2008-10-15 12:20:22

welcome nicole. what's helped me was choosing foods with "easier"
consistencies. like canned chicken, not regular chicken. careful
with the fiber, veggie burgers gave me trouble a while back. there's
plenty of smooth prot choices like yogurt, cheese, hummus, etc.
lori h.
17 grateful months out

Re: PLAYING THE WAITING GAME

2008-10-15 00:34:23

The Best Of Luck To you Bobi !!!Many Prayers going your way !
Maria Arroliga

Linda...

2008-10-14 20:58:17

Wolfie,
I found my packing slip. I paid $6.17 for 100 (1000 mcg.) biotin lozenges.
The 8 oz. bottles of shampoo and conditioner were each $3.75. It came to
about $20.00 with shipping and taxes.
I just couldn't see paying a salon for something I could get less expensively.
Linda
Your right!!!!! I think my shampoo is only 10.5 ounces for 13.75. So the deal
you got is alot better. I know where I will go next time. There is a girl at
our support group that uses one called Thera-Pro I believe it is called and I
am curious to find out what the cost of that is also. Thanks Linda for letting
me know. What website did you find that on again?
Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336
Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336

Biotin cost

2008-10-14 11:52:08

Wolfie,
I found my packing slip. I paid $6.17 for 100 (1000 mcg.) biotin lozenges.
The 8 oz. bottles of shampoo and conditioner were each $3.75. It came to about
$20.00 with shipping and taxes.
I just couldn't see paying a salon for something I could get less expensively.
Linda
Open RNY 12/12/03
Mercy Hospital, San Diego
Dr. Mary Murphy
265/252/150

PLAYING THE WAITING GAME

2008-10-14 09:38:41

In a message dated 10/23/2003 5:34:34 PM Central Standard Time,
MotBobi@... writes:
Well we just got home from the doctor and now it is just the waiting game.
He is going to dictate the letter and send us a copy and then hurry up and
wait. wish us luck and say a prayer.
Bobi in Wisconsin
You got it Bobi! Stay positive! Skinny Wishes!
Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336

Gallbladder attacks...

2008-10-14 02:54:25

In a message dated 10/23/2003 7:47:52 PM Central Standard Time, Leeds@...
writes:
I do have a question about the attacks though. Does it hurt, then go
away ....??Yesterday it wasn't so bad and today it is just a dull
pain...kind of like a phantom pain. I go in tomorrow for a CAT scan so
I'm not too worried but just curious.
Tanya T.
Lap RNY 6/20/03
432/328/170
Tanya,
My attacks would come and go. Even now I can never forget what they were
like.
Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] HELLO!! Not a lurker anymore!

2008-10-13 23:57:09

In a message dated 10/23/2003 8:02:12 PM Central Standard Time,
kjsdcarter@... writes:
I look forward to participating with this group and sharing
my "losing" experience, as well as sharing everyone elses.
Stephanie in MI
Post-Op
236/231/?
Welcome Stephanie,
Glad to have you aboard! Your right this is absolutely the best group.
So much caring and compassion and help is found here. I wish you well and you
will do fine. Just remember that although there is a small percentage of
tragedy with this surgery there is a higher percentage of success. Just remember
why
you are doing this and to put it all in God's hands. He will see you through.
Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336

Re: HELLO!! Not a lurker anymore!

2008-10-13 11:47:40

Welcome, Stephanie!! You are so smart to do the extensive research.
And, yes, this board is a fabulous resource. Keep us posted on your
upcoming surgery and progress.
Connie
open rny 9/17/03
293/258/170

What goes down keeps coming back up

2008-10-13 11:45:48

Hi
This is my first post ever, I've been looking for a nice group of
people to chat with who have an understanding of this stuff. I had my
gastric-Bypass on 5/1/03 I'm doing great except I have a tendency to
vomit about every other day. I have slowed down my eating and make
sure I chew my food at least 20 to 30 times befor I swallow but I
still have this problem. any suggestions?
Thanks
Nicole

HELLO!! Not a lurker anymore!

2008-10-13 06:11:16

Hello Everyone,
I have been lurking on this site, as well as others for a few weeks
now. I was basically trying to get a feel for each group. This
group is so wonderful, with all the support and suggestions that are
given, without judgement.
I am scheduled to have Lap RNY on Nov. 18th, I'm hoping to move my
date up to the 13th (keeping my fingers crossed). I have done sooo
much research over the past few months, I feel like I could teach a
class. However researching and experiencing are two different
things, that is why I think it is so great to be able to come to this
wonderful group to glean info., share and receive support.
I am a little nervous about the surgery, which is natural I suppose.
My surgeon recently had a patient that died and of course that
brought things home to me real fast. I am still planning to have the
surgery, the patients death just really stood to reiterate that this
surgery is not a cakewalk and comes with some high risk. For those
people that think this surgery is "the easy way out", try talking to
those families that have lost loved ones!!
I am the mother of two young children and as of yet have not been
able to particpate much with alot of their activities such as biking,
running and playing, etc. I am looking forward to playing with my
children. I have been trying to not think about the "what if's" and
I have read some of the post on this site about writing letters to
your family members. I talked it over with my husband and we both
thought that it would be a good idea, I just have not worked up th
nerve to write them yet and just thinking about writing them brings
tears to my eyes. However, I do not want to leave here without
letting them know that I will always love them. It's something that
I will have to work out and I will look forward to the day that I can
tear them up and put them in the past!
Anyway, on to happier thoughts. I have found and tasted the Low
Carb / No Sugar Added Breyers Ice Cream and it is really good. I
found it at Meijers. They had Butter Pecan MMmmm, Vanilla and
Chocolate. I love Meijers they seem to have a little of everything.
I also found some low carb/no sugar added candy by Russell Stover
(Pecan Delights, Peppermint Patties, Chocolate Covered Toffee, etc.),
as well as other brands. I also found sugar free whole grain wheat
bread by Home Pride.
I have been changing my eating habits to fit what will become my new
lifestyle, as well as getting into the habit of taking my vitamins
and figure it would be better to begin making that new transition
now, rather than wait til after surgery.
I look forward to participating with this group and sharing
my "losing" experience, as well as sharing everyone elses.
Stephanie in MI
Post-Op
236/231/?

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] PLAYING THE WAITING GAME

2008-10-12 20:41:06

Well we just got home from the doctor and now it is just the waiting game. He
is going to dictate the letter and send us a copy and then hurry up and wait.
wish us luck and say a prayer.
Bobi in Wisconsin

RE: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] new member HELP

2008-10-12 12:26:53

I have a heart murmur. But I have had it for years. It didn't stop me from
having surgery. Is the doctor saying it is going to stop you?
Candi

RE: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Diana's four month update

2008-10-12 06:00:30

Anytime Surgery Sis!! :)
I'm so happy for you! You're doing a great job!!! I can't wait to be
where you are!!
Tanya T

new member HELP

2008-10-12 05:50:49

I just met with my surgeon had my gall bladder ultrasound have stones
saw the psych eval did good. Now the surgeon hears a heart murmur
anyone else in this boat? I am 51 have a bmi of 50 have pacific life
for insurance and right now just waiting for the insurance to do
there thing thanks for any help and info and most of all support
through this, debbie

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Biotin

2008-10-12 01:18:12

I did buy the Nioxin online. It was expensive. About
$80 for both conditioner and shampoo, but I figured I
wanted the best. I haven't had the surgery yet, but
am prepared for when I do. The bottles are huge and
will last me way over a year, so I think the $80 was
worth it.
Shannon in WA

Biotin

2008-10-11 16:16:36

Has anybody used any other product containing Biotin other than Nioxin? I found
Nioxin on the internet, but balked at the expense. I searched and found Biotin
shampoo and conditioners and Biotin lozenges from Mill Creek Botanicals for
$3.75 a bottle. Not a big bottle, but cheaper than Nioxin. I am still pre-op
until December 12, but will start using the products as soon as I start getting
nervous about the surgery, I figure about a week out. So, anybody tried anything
other than Nioxin?
Linda
Open RNY 12/12/03 Dr. Mary Murphy, San Diego
265/252/150

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] 20 days post!!!!

2008-10-11 12:00:18

Hi Lori!!!!! Glad things are going well for you!!!!! I know what you mean about
the protein!!!! It is harder than I thought to get all the protein in!!!! Isn't
it great to be on the losing side for once?! Take care, sherri

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Bonnie in Michigan...

2008-10-10 22:51:27

I have 4 days and I know what you mean. I haven't
been sleeping well, which probably adds to it as well
as the worry. Surgery on Monday.
Shannon in WA

RE: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] How Much Hair Loss

2008-10-10 21:52:30

How much hair are people actually losing? I have really thick hair so have
not been real concerned with this problem. If I just run my fingers through
my hair I get a handful of it falling out (not from surgery has been this
way all my life).
Candi

Diana's four month update

2008-10-10 15:07:22

First of all, thank you SOOOOOOOOOOO much, Tanya, for the sweet email and card
for our shared four month "birthday". I'm sorry I haven't been in touch as
much. What a glorious four months it's been. :-) I couldn't be happier.
Yesterday I stopped by my old gym where I had been training with a personal
trainer and got tons of "ohh's and ahh's" over my progress. I can't tell you
how good it feels to FEEL so good. :-) It's exciting, thrilling, and strangely
humbling. I'm so thankful for the chance for change that's been granted to me.
Funny story ... I went shopping last week for a few new clothes and picked up
the cutest work-out pants and jacket. I didn't try them on at the store and
decided to buy an XL. Got them home, tried them on, and they didn't fit. So I
was relaying my excitement to the trainers at the gym and one of them looked at
me and said "Honey, you aren't an XL anymore!" ~laughs~ What a good feeling.
My mind still hasn't caught up with my body. I still steer to the plus size
section out of habit.
As for my stats, I weighed in last night at the gym. According to the scale
there, I'm 187 pounds now. That brings my loss to 57 pounds. I'm pleased as
punch. Thanks to everyone that's been there along the way! I value your
support, friendship, and knowledge so much.
Diana
Lap RNY - 06/20/03
Dr. Thomas Lavin
New Orleans, LA
244/187/150

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Name that Muscle!!!

2008-10-10 07:51:46

That would be your tricep!
Candi Read <candiread@...
muscle under your arm?
Candi

Name that Muscle!!!

2008-10-09 22:52:49

Can anyone tell me the name of the muscle under your arm? I have started
doing resistance exercises and I want to pay extra attention to that muscle
since my skin is already starting to hang a bit there. I have tried
searching the web but could not come up with anything.
Candi
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Re: Name that Muscle!!!

2008-10-09 21:18:54

biceps in the front, triceps in the back. oh, & great job on the 50
lbs! high five!
lori h.

SF TANG????

2008-10-09 12:48:48

Wanted to say THANK YOU to whoever posted the tip on the Sugar Free Tang. I
found it at my local grocery store and it is fabulous!!!! No more craving
Orange Juice for me!!!!!
Thanks!!!
Candi
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Re: shopping and sizes

2008-10-09 07:38:55

that's genius, vickie. but i have this aversion to tape measures:-(
know what you mean about clothing manufacturers, what's the deal w/
the conspiracy?
great job on your weight loss!!
lori h.

Yeah for me!!! -50.5 pounds!!!

2008-10-09 04:37:12

I could not believe it when I stepped on the scale today!!!! I had a
plateau and had not moved for over a week. But today was the day and I hit
the 50+ mark!!! At 6.5 weeks post-op!!! I am doing a happy dance today!!!!
Candi
09/08/03 LAP RNY
263/212.5/125??
Southern Illinois
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Re: BONE LOSS

2008-10-08 20:47:16

thanx for the reply. it's little grim for someone who breathes wls
day & night to be diagnosed with a nutritional deficiency. i'm always
reading, going to meetings, etc. guess it's a little like the hair
loss issue, i didn't have a major problem; but i've met "scalpies"
who've stated they done "everything right". sending bone mending
wishes!
lori h.

misery in my bellie

2008-10-08 12:16:05

well here I sit been up all nite with a misery in my belly I don't know if it is
were it is healing up or not .. . I had open rny on October 16 I have no pain
just feels like a lump of coal in my belly... anyone got any ideas or
suggestions.. other than that I feel fine.. doing great.. still on clear liquids
until I return to the doc on Tuesday..
thanks
Kerri k
open ryn
October 16 2003
334/?/175

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] misery in my bellie

2008-10-08 10:04:59

In a message dated 10/23/2003 5:49:46 AM Central Standard Time,
kkelley2@... writes:
well here I sit been up all nite with a misery in my belly I don't know if it
is were it is healing up or not .. . I had open rny on October 16 I have no
pain just feels like a lump of coal in my belly... anyone got any ideas or
suggestions.. other than that I feel fine.. doing great.. still on clear liquids
until I return to the doc on Tuesday..
thanks
Kerri k
Kerri,
I would have said that you had some food that didn't go down well but
being that it feels heavy you might should call your doctor. You could have a
stricture. And since your on liquids that wouldn't be the same kind of feeling
as food would be when it weighs heavy in your pouch. Your opening might need to
be stretched back open.
Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336

hey all sorry its been so long

2008-10-07 21:30:42

hey well grandmas puter is to slow so i couldnt get on to post i have
lost more weight but i dont know how much at the courent moment i am
on a 18 wheeler truck going across the usa i dont know why but its
pretty cool ill prob be back in cali in a week or so then on dec 7 i
will be home i cant wait toodles sarah
ps hope every one is well and doing good

Re: amounts and questions

2008-10-07 18:43:07

Hi Natasha,
I guess we are all suppose to be prepared for our hungry to come
back eventually. Do you have a one year checkup soon where you can
ask your doctor? I'm sure that they want your surgery to be as
successful as you do so you might want to phone and check with them
on recommended portions. Has it only been recently that you've been
hungry? Have you increased your exercise or activities? Have you
regained any weight?
Take care,
Bridget

Bonnie in Michigan...

2008-10-07 18:18:18

In a message dated 10/22/2003 11:51:58 PM Central Standard Time,
huggnbugg@... writes:
I just figured it out tonight I have 9 more working days before I have open
Rny I am so excited!!! did anyone get excessively grouchy before surgery? I
hope this goes away soon!!!!
Bonnie if your grouchy it is most likely that your nerves are just on edge.
It is understandable. This is a big step for you. A wonderful big step!
Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Digest Number 1505

2008-10-07 03:47:51

Hi Losers!!!! and about to be loser! I have a question seems like most people
in this sight are lap Rny's did you all just get lucky or am I just the one that
is unlucky just kidding.
I just figured it out tonight I have 9 more working days before I have open Rny
I am so excited!!! did anyone get excessively grouchy before surgery? I hope
this goes away soon!!!!
Sorry I haven't been back in the room for awhile but am back til November 10th
now.
Huggs, Bonnie, Michigan

Back

2008-10-06 23:20:14

I am back. I went to a mirro today and ask am I looking for trouble.
LOL. At first the airlines wouldn't let me get on the plane cause I
had drugs on my shoes. LOL. My high blood pressure medicine. I get
to California forget my hubby and my winter coats. They are in
CAlifornia. We get home and no suitcase. LOL. My C-pap part is in
the suitcase. So is my camera with lots of pics on it. I can't
replace. So now they think the suitcase is in Canada somewhere. LOL.
So if someone fines a suitcase with dirty undies in it, well could
you please wash them for me before returning my suitcase.
Joyce
11/12/03

Hi Beth...

2008-10-06 21:46:39

In a message dated 10/22/2003 2:46:39 PM Central Standard Time,
texasblueyes@... writes:
I am very nervous and excited all at once. I have a few reservations
about surgery in general and am dealing with that. I am thankful
that I have the support of my wonderful husband and children. My Mom
is even coming so that she can be here for the surgery and recovery
period. I am having this done Lap and am hoping that all goes well.
Waiting for a date is the worst part.
Beth
Just remember why you are doing this. And ask yourself this one question: "Am
I willing to live like this for the rest of my life?" I don't know about
everyone else but my answer was a resounding NO! Would I do it again? You bet
your
butt I would. The difference in the person I am and the way I feel versus the
person I was...is like night and day. Skinny Wishes!
Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336

amounts and questions

2008-10-06 16:54:27

I am back on the list after a while being off... I am almost one year out
of surgery and my hunger has come back. It makes it hard to know wh at I can
and cannot do. It is also harder to get portion sizes correct. Does anyone
know what is "normal" for a one year post op to eat? Size wise I mean?
Thanks
Natasha
lap rny 11/19/02
340/225.5/160

Family Issues/Thanks

2008-10-06 05:47:26

I would just like to thank everyone for all the suggestions about
what to do regarding who in my family to tell. I am still thinking
about and when I decide to tell them,I will tell them. I have
decided though that if I do get approved (which I have not yet) I
will definitely talk to my sister, hopefully she will be supportive
and understanding.
Thanks again.
This is a great place for information
Chris
lap RNY 11/12/03
(waiting for approval)

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Weight Loss Plateau?

2008-10-05 22:18:23

Alison, I spent every other month on a plateau. I don't think you need
to worry. At 7months out, I'm down 80+lbs and only about 25 - 30lbs
from goal.
Marina (Los Angeles, CA)
post-op 3/12/03

Article - Natural Way To Absorb Vitamins, Minerals, Nutrients

2008-10-05 21:22:28

Here's a new article on "isotonic dietary supplements", an extremely
effective way of absorbing nutrients after surgery. Because the
article is long, I didn't want to post here (I don't want you to
pay "online time" to read it...).
Instead, I have put a copy in my autoresponder, so that you can get
it e-mailed to you and read at your own convenience.
To get a copy of the article e-mailed to you within a few minutes,
send a blank e-mail to:
isotonics@...
Thanks,
Brian Gallagher

shopping and sizes

2008-10-05 13:11:42

I do most of my shopping in the thrift stores now. I can get great clothes for
just dirt cheap....so cheap that it costs more to get them cleaned than it cost
to purchase them!
The sizing is just all over the place. I think the clothing manufacturers have a
real sick sense of humor. I have given up on looking at the size tags and just
use a tape measure. I measure myself that day and add an inch to allow some
'ease' write the numbers down and go shopping. If its pants i need then i
measure the waist, inside leg length and the rise(between the legs from the
waistline in front to the waistline in back) and the hips around. Skirts take
the waist, hip and length. Blouses take the bust, waist and across the
shoulders from arm to arm. Jackets can be tried on without having to undress in
the store. I was having problems getting sleeves to fit for a while so I would
measure my upper arm at the widest part and add an inch ....if the sleeves didnt
meet or exceed that amount I knew that the article would not fit
comfortably...unless they were stretchy. You just would not believe how many
HOURS of time this has saved me in the dressing room! If the article
doesnt 'measure up' there was just no point in taking it back to have closer
look.
My waist is still big from extra skin and I have trouble finding things to fit
my butt which has like vanished. So for pants the crtical measurement is the
waist, so I measure that and if it looks okay then the length since I am very
short, then the hip, then the rise. Your problem areas may be different so you
may look at the length first if you are tall.
Vickie
11-29-01 LAP RNY
Was a 24 now a 2 or 4

20 days post!!!!

2008-10-05 04:56:17

Sorry I haven't posted in so long, I honestly forgot how to get to
this page, but something jogged my memory today and here I am.
I had my surgery LAP RNY on October 3 (finally)!!!! My original
surgery date was 7/30 and I went through half of the surgery!!!! The
surgeon got three holes in me and decided he didn't like the way my
liver looked so he STOPPED!!!! I was not a happy camper when I awoke
from the anesthesia, I can tell you that!!! The surgeon was just
being very cautious so I can't be that angry (I guess). He sent me
to a GI specialist and I was cleared. I have been followed with high
liver enzymes by my PCP for ten years. He felt I just had a fatty
liver. The numbers never changed in all those years and my PCP (who
also had laprny in January) told me to go for it. He was so mad when
the surgeon called him and told him he stopped the surgery. My dr
said he wanted to scream at him: YOU PUT HER BACK ON THAT TABLE
IMMEDIATELY!!! Well that's all in my past. I feel really good!!
WEnt back to work after one week. Could have gone back sooner, but
the surgeon had to do some extra scraping cuz it turned out I had
some scaring probly from a case of diverticulitis years ago. I had
two drains when I awoke and was really really sore for a full week.
I did great in the hospital. All went smoothly. All my concerns were
really for nothing. THe only thing I hated was having to call the
nurses a million times to unhook the leg wraps I had to wear so I
could go to the bathroom!!! The nurses kept yelling at me to "stop
throwing myself out of the bed"!!!! My intestinal and urinary tract
all started working as they should, the leak test was nothing!! I
went to the x-ray machine and simply stood there drinking a small
amount of rather tastey barium and the xray machine did all
themoving. Couldn't believe it! I was out of the hospital in less
than 50 hours total!!!! All is going very well. I recognize the
feeling of fullness and stop. Have had no vomiting or nausea. I am
having some emotional problems regarding getting over looking forward
to my next big meal, but I'm dealing with it. The one mistake I did
make was on day post 13 when I felt really good and went dancing!!!
BIG MISTAKE!!! I was okay for 24 hours and then last Friday night I
was walking around downtown Ft. Laud and wound up doubled over in
pain several times. It was shooting up to a "9"!!! My DH suggested
I take it very easy for the weekend and am feeling better today.
There is a reason why drs don't want us exercising for six weeks and
I learned it the hard way. Talked to my surgeon at support group and
he told me that I didn't hurt the surgery, I just hurt muscles.
Thank Goodness!!! Now I'm just trying to get used to getting all the
food and protein into me. It's a balancing act. Protein is
EXTREMELY important for us. I understand that comes first. Well,
that's it for now, THE JOURNEY CONTINUES!!!
LoriB
LAP RNY 10/3/03
228/213/135

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] light headedness...

2008-10-04 21:45:26

lighthead could be because you need nourishment try some orange juice maybe
???????? I am preop is OJ allowed???

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] BONE LOSS

2008-10-04 20:36:45

I was dx with osteopenia took my calcium. April 2002 hurt my back at
work am now on Social Security Disabilty due to overall bone mass loss main
reason my PCP oked this WLS for me may be looking at hip replacement. back
and shoulders Shot to hell!!!!!!! So do watch it esp. since postie When my
PCP saw results on my bone denesty(SP)(to lazy to get dictionary out lol
anyway he was suprised I could even walk and more suprised left hip had not
fractured. I was (am) a LPN so part of job( loose the back lol)

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] another two pounds...

2008-10-04 13:54:13

YOU GO FELLA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

3 months

2008-10-04 06:48:06

Well it been 3 months now and I have lost 102lbs. i can't beleive it
i have gone from 600lbs to 498lbs as of today.... To everyone just
starting stick with it . It's worth I am getting my life back.

RE: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] 3 months

2008-10-04 06:17:14

WAY TO GO BART!!!! That is super great!! How do you feel?? Isn't it
wonderful knowing that you can actually do things now you couldn't
before??
Tanya T.
Lap RNY 6/20/03
432/328/170
Houston, Dr. Adam Naaman

light headedness...

2008-10-04 01:33:07

Hi everyone...has anyone experienced alot of light headedness? It could be a
sinus infection which I have plans to go to the PCP about but it seems to be
moreso than normal at these times when the sinuses are driving me crazy.
Wolfie
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336
"Keep Em Laughing!"

Re: Gallbladder pains and symptoms...

2008-10-03 10:03:16

what kept my gallbladder attacks in check was to keep away from the
triggers. personally, that was greasy food.
lori h.

Re: another two pounds...

2008-10-03 09:42:37

yay, wolfie girl!!
lori h.

Re: LOSING WEIGHT

2008-10-03 08:01:34

best of luck tomorrow on your consult, nola. have you got your list
of ?s prepared?
lori h.

BONE LOSS

2008-10-03 00:20:19

according to the bone density scan i had this month, i have below
average bone mass for a 31 yr old. even though i'm religious w/ my
calc citrate & other supplements, do weight-bearing exercise including
weights & jogging, i'm not menopausal, etc etc. i don't fit any of
the typical categories. PCP wasn't alarmed, I WAS. he increased my
calcium, ordered me to take in 15 minutes of sun a day, bleh bleh.
if any of you all, have experience w/ bone issues, let's brainstorm.
osteopenia sux!!
lori h.
17 months out, & yes, still GRATEFUL

another two pounds...

2008-10-02 20:11:12

Hi group, down another two pounds. That makes 47 pounds now.
WHOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOO!
Wolfie
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336
"Keep Em Laughing!"

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] LOSING WEIGHT

2008-10-02 14:28:08

I am a widow have been since Jan 95. someone told me the men will be crazy about
me post op(esp If I dont loose the boobs LOL) I said if they werent after me
before when fat dont need to come when I get skinny. Kinda like OHHHHHHHHH you
won a millon in the lottery lets hook up DARLIN' I would say sorry about your
luck you didnt want me poor LOL
Nola
220 postop 110 ??????????????
seeing surgeonTOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! pray for me all Please
5'2"

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Tanya...wolfie

2008-10-02 07:47:52

thanks wolfie, i'm kindof bummed i'm not losing faster though but i know
thats mostly my fault and i'm going to have to do a better job at drinking &
moving -- i'm having some depression and having that "i wish my mom was here
feeling - i have no family on my side and my husband who is/was the
greatest is not being very supportive - i also have an 8 month old that i
can't pick up until 4 more weeks so she goes with her dad to work and i'm
here alone - but when they are home i get mad at him if i have to pick her
up if he isn't quick enough - i know its a mental thing with me but i need
somebody to fix my meal and make me get up and eat - sounds stupid i know
but i swear with no hunger i could just not ever eat. this is not like me
and i'm on an anti-depressant - i just hope i can get hubby to work with me
- he cooks all meals anyway so its not that big a stretch for him - he is
stressing right now b/c he is finishing 2 houses we built so they can go to
closing so i know he is busy. tomorrow i'm going to get up and dressed and
ride along with them to get out of the house.
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html
www.poncetihomes.com

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] need help with site

2008-10-01 21:26:47

someone from this loop sent a site that had a letter that was an example to the
insurance companies of the comorbities. If someone could send me that site I
would appreciate it. thanks
My husband goes back to the doctor tomorrow and then approval waiting period
here we come.
Bobi

Re: WLSLORI

2008-10-01 14:01:31

hey marla, we're here for ya. i remember taking this assertiveness
course, it was a challenge, but worthwhile. it was all women students
& boy did we need guidance on walking the fine line.
you're doing a phenomenal job on the w l, chin up!
lori h.

Re: I am new - Pre-Op

2008-10-01 12:31:29

welcome connie! there's a world of factors that differentiate wls &
regular dieting. w/ regular dieting, the majority REGAIN the weight,
plus plus. the wls folk produce less of the hunger hormone, ghrelin.
right off the bat, i'll be the first to say that wls involves
sacrifice, dedication & committment.
keep researching, keep soul searching & keep us posted.
lori h.