Gastric Bypass

Hi everyone! I love all the information and support given here! What
a wonderful group of people - I am looking forward to getting to know
you all more!! I am 34, married with 3 kids & a dog :-), love to
scrapbook and Spend time with friends. I have been doing WSL
research for about a year and a half and I was most of the way thru
with my requirements under Group Health of Wa.and My husband just got
a new job and we had to move to ORegon and I just found out Group
health will not cover us under cobra as of 10/31/03, so we are
looking for other insurance. UUUGH!! We probably will end up with
Blue Crosss/shield. I am wondering if there is anyone also in oregon
with BC/BS that might have some helpful tips for me. Also if anyone
lives in or around the portland area and goes to a support group. I
live in Dayton which is about 30 miles from Portland. Feel free to
email me : shelmail1969@...

I wrote earlier in the week because I was having the surgery on the
3rd. Well, all went well and I've been home since Sunday. I'm
trying to take it easy but actually felt so good Monday that I
cleaned house....lightly of course....and went to my son's football
practice. Well, dumb move cause it hit me hard today. I was having
problems with getting dizzy. I realized that even with the surgery
only eating two popcicles a day isn't enough so I have gone back to
the basics and am forcing myself to eat. I started feeling better
about noon. The problem I'm having now is I don't have any urge to
eat. Not a low urge...NO urge. I have to constantly force it.
Also, I have a little trouble with water. It makes me burp
constantly, even taking tiny sips. But tea doesn't do that to me.
What can I change to get the water down? Plus, when does the urge
to eat come back so that you don't feel like you're forcing it
down? I am only 4 days post op and still on a liquid diet. I think
I'm most surprized at how little pain there is (gall bladder still
intact). Thanks for the words of encouragment while I was in the
hospital. Susan California

question for you, what is OT.. I don't post often in the group, read
messages everyday, and have just started the long long process toward
the acutal WLS... probably a year away... everyone has been wonderful
here and I've gotten lots of information. Janice

Congraduation Marion.Can't wait to see my one year.God Bless and
You Go Girl.I wish you a wonderful Life.a friend debkroll of
Iowa.

I wanted to thank all of you for being my support over the last 8
weeks or so. I have learned a lot from you all and made to feel so
very welcome right from the beginning. But, I need a group who
better don't mind OT's. It's obviously not welcomed here. Not that
that is bad and all it's not. Ya'll are just very focused on
supporting each other with WLS and only topics regarding WLS.
Everyone, good luck with your surgeries and recoveries. Bless you
all for what you do here to help each other out.
Chelle

I just wanted to share with a group that would understand my excitement,
sadness, humbleness, etc. that tomorrow is my one year anniversary since open
RNY. I started at 277 and am now 141. It has been a long and winding road with
many positive and well frustrating experiences. However, I would not change any
of it. I have grown into a much stronger person. I see life through a very
different lens and am so grateful that I have had this experience. I have shed
many tears today over the incredible transformation that has occurred. I know
that there will be many more obstacles and gifts that will occur. However, I
just wanted to share that I am grateful to have a group of people to share with
my excitement for what has occurred in the last year.
Marion
Colorado Springs
Open RNY Oct 8, 2002 277/141

Congraduation Kerri just 10 days and you'll start your Wonderful New
Life.God Bless and I'll be praying and keeping you in my thoughts
and wish you the best.a friend debkroll of
Iowa.

Linda I wish you the Best and can't wait to hear your day come and
you join us losers.Congraduation on your Date.a friend debkroll of
Iowa.

Jill you'll be there soon Oct.20 it far away.I know you'll do
wonderful and heal fast.Can't wait to have you join us BIG LOSER"S
soon.Hang in there Girl Your Day just a few days away.I'm losing
about 5 lbs a week now.But NO sugars are just being careful on what
I eat.Still can't tell when I'm hungry but Horray for that.Some
smells of food makes me sick but thats Great too.Take Care and Wish
you the Best.a friend debkroll of Iowa.Everyone Heres a Hero to my
eyes.Congraduation to Everyone on your dates and your
loses.

hi,
i had a dr appt today and the NP said she pretty sure it was the milk like
you said - she said start with skim or 1% and sslowly work my way up. i have
been living on mylanta gas X --- i also had 2 lap sites that had the knot on
the outside and had to be clipped - they were not healing well and starting
to look infected so they should be OK now - the rest i can hardly see. i
lost 2 1/2 lbs since the visit there a week ago - i'm almost to the 10 lb
mark and i hope that is just the beginning - everyone there seems surprised
that i'm doing so well - i'm not sure what they expected but i was 263 going
in -- i almost want to ask them why would they expect i wouldn't be doing
good.
thanks for the encouragement !!
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html
www.poncetihomes.com

Wanted to say "hello" to everyone.
I am amazed at how much great information is here!
I am in the process of waiting for insurance clearance for the RNY.
I have a Surgery Date set for Dec 2, but that all depends on the
insurance clearance.
BTW, does anyone have any experience with Anthem Blue Cross Blue
shield? I am in pins and needles not knowing if they are going to
give me the okay.
Also, how many days did everyone take off from work after the
surgery?
Cheers,
Linda

God be with you both- It is a hard decision. I wish you and your husband better
health with a problem-free recoverys!
Veronica
Christine <chris40dd@...
I would like to thank everyone for their thoughts and prayers for my
hubby while he was in critical condition. Here's an update. My hubby
had a heart attack last monday nite and congestive heart failure and
massive pneumonia. He just got out of ICU today and is doing a little
better. He still has to have a heart catherization and a lung test. I
don't know if I'll be able to have my surgery on 10/13 as planned. I
may have to postpone it, especially if hubby has to have surgery. My
hubby wants me to go ahead and plan on my surgery, but its a hard
decision. How can I when I am so worried about him? I'll update as
soon as I know more.

lori
You have had your surgery already a year ago? I saw some show on the tummy tuck
and skin removal- that is some scarey looking stuff. Almost as much as the
initial surgery, isn't it ? I wish you well with all the "staff" . My coverage
said they don't cover that--I am still fighting to get the intial
surgery......my PCP keeps jerking me around....
good luck ,
Veronica
wlslori <wlslori@...
ugh!! rrrr!!
after 7 years, i have great rapport w/ my PCP & staff. after more than
a year, ditto for my follow-up wlsurgeon.
for some patience testing reason, the patient coordinator @ the
reconstructive surgeon is less than energetic. i'm almost @ her
mercy, almost b/c there is another surgeon i'm considering. what's
the deal w/ the &#^@(* apathy??
lori h.

Co0ngratulations Kerri, thats super news.
Ann Elliot
RNY with choly July 18 2003
291/241////hoping for 150
I will not give up the fight!!!!

Shenise
My only regret is I didnt do the surgery sooner........I know just how
you feel and so does everyone else on this board. It is a life-changing
and life saving procedure and nowadays has a very low incidence of major
problems (tho of course they do happen). Your library may have books on
the subject - just march up and ask where they are, also Carnie Wilson
wrote two books about her own wls surgery which are good. The internet
is chock full of info - there are a LOT of us!!! Try ObesityHelp.com
Its a wonderresource, even has a doctor list.
Kepp us informed of your progress and I wish you best of luck and
big hugs!!
Ann Elliot
RNY with choly July 18 2003
291/241////hoping for 150
I will not give up the fight!!!!

I have a date,, October 16.. that is a special day for me that is the day me
and my husband met and it is my sisters birthday.. so i hope it keeps getting
better and better....any one with this date or around this date please feel free
to email me kkelley2@... please but DATE in the subjectf
can wait to be on the losing side.. oh yeah ..
kerri k.
354 pre op but not for long..

Does anyone know if BCBS PPO will approve the cosmetic surgery (oops
reconstructive surgery-?) ??? I am planning way ahead.
Ann Elliot
RNY with choly July 18 2003
291/241////hoping for 150
I will not give up the fight!!!!

I would like to thank everyone for their thoughts and prayers for my
hubby while he was in critical condition. Here's an update. My hubby
had a heart attack last monday nite and congestive heart failure and
massive pneumonia. He just got out of ICU today and is doing a little
better. He still has to have a heart catherization and a lung test. I
don't know if I'll be able to have my surgery on 10/13 as planned. I
may have to postpone it, especially if hubby has to have surgery. My
hubby wants me to go ahead and plan on my surgery, but its a hard
decision. How can I when I am so worried about him? I'll update as
soon as I know more.

Kerri,
I also have an abnormal liver panel. I had an ultrasound and it is a fatty
liver. I guess I am fat inside too. My Dr. told me not to worry about it.
Hope this helps.
Stef

I haven't posted in a while. Tomorrow I go to see my Physician. To get
my blood work results and get a diet history. I hope he will give me
one. I never had a good update of keep going back to a Dr. when on a
diet. Also I'm not sure how he feels about wls. I have tryed so many
times to diet but nothing seems to work. I get so hungry. The next
step for me is the psychological evaluation next month. Then they will
send it to my insurance. Which is going to be a fight. They say there
is an exclusion to my policy. I'm not going to go down that easy. I
have to fight for this. Is there any body out there that had an
exclusion to there policy and won?? Thank you Char

Dear Frank,
What an awesome man you are. Your girlfriend is lucky, as are you, that you
have each other. That being said, let me tell you that recently my husband
has been giving me a hard time. He's been picking on me and making
comments. The other day I just sat down with him and asked him what the
problem was (he has difficulty expressing himself, unlike you). He finally
got to the point and told me that he thought I was losing weight so I could
leave him. He's been jealous of all the attention I've been getting. I
reassured him that I love him and that it's him I want to be with and no one
else (we're going to be married ten years in December).
What you need to do, I suggest, is talk to your girlfriend and explain how
you are feeling. Make sure she understands that you're not doubting her
faithfulness and that you trust her, but that you're having this anxiety
over the jealousy you feel when seeing other men looking at or paying
attention to her. Make sure that your feelings for her and her feelings for
you are mutual and as good as you feel they are. Once you have reassured
each other, it really shouldn't matter how other people are looking at her.
She can't do anything to control that and she doesn't need to get
confrontational about it (as in, "stop looking at me!" or anything like
that).
I get a lot of excess attention now from many strange sources (including a
brother-in-law who told me at his son's wedding, "Deb, I wouldn't throw you
outta bed!") and I just think it's a scream. Sometimes I just roar with
laughter at the whole situation. People who wouldn't give me the time of
day in the past can't wait to start a conversation with me now. I think
it's hysterical. I don't do anything at all to encourage it and I do not
play headgames with my husband, so I only work on changing the things I can
(myself) and I don't worry about the rest.
I'm sure when you speak to your girlfriend, you will have the reassurances
you need to keep this in perspective and to see it for the humorous
situation that it really is. Good luck to both of you.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/221/165
BMI 60/32.6/24
-165
-92.5"
Angel to Bill, Debbie (10/13/03) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

ugh!! rrrr!!
after 7 years, i have great rapport w/ my PCP & staff. after more than
a year, ditto for my follow-up wlsurgeon.
for some patience testing reason, the patient coordinator @ the
reconstructive surgeon is less than energetic. i'm almost @ her
mercy, almost b/c there is another surgeon i'm considering. what's
the deal w/ the &#^@(* apathy??
lori h.

linda, it's natural to have mixed feelings about such a life changing
step. is there an in-person support group you can attend? networking
w/ patients helps.
lori h.

that's beyond fantastic, stacy!! finally after such a long time!
congrats!
btw, what does the whining dance look like;-)
lori h.

Welcome Shenise---you are not alone, all of us have had some
experiences similar to yours and feelings of shame. Congratulations
to you for making the step to research this new way of life. Keep
reading this board and if you have specific questions, sing out. You
will find we are helpful and non-judgemental. Best of luck in your
quest for a better life which is possible with this surgery.
Connie
open rny 9/17/03
293/270/170

Hi everyone. My name is Shenise and I live in Atlanta. I knew I had
to do something when a guy I was seeing told me no one wanted someone
fat. I became embarrassed to be seen and nothing fit right. After
starting a walking program 3 months ago and losing 10 pounds only to
regain 22 pounds, I went to a doctor for a breast reduction at the
suggestion of my PCP. My breasts are a DDD and hurt my back. He told
me I was too fat for a breast reduction and suggested gastric bypass
surgery. I had heard of it and did a little research. I even
attempted to get an appointment with an Atlanta surgeon, but he kept
losing my paperwork. This is a different surgeon and the office
seems nice and friendly. I don't know what to epect, but I know I
don't want to be fat anymore.

Debbie R, WI
Thanks to you for replying to my post, believe me, I feel just like
your husband when it comes to the pride I feel, not only because of
her new look, but because of the person I know is inside that lovely
lady next to me.
Sometimes I feel I should talk to her about my feelings, but then I
start to worry that she might not understand my feelings, or that I
might not be able to explain them clearly. I think the next step for
me might have to be some counseling, because I really don't want this
to get out of hand and destroy the best relationship I've had in my
life.
Thanks so much for taking the time to help me,
Frank

Hi all,
I post every now and then. Well, I have my Psych eval tomorrow and
am a little nervous. I dont know what to expect are what he is going
to ask. I have to have this done before my dr will schedule my
surgury. I went Fri and got my surgury rlease letter from my PCP and
he says everything looks great.
I was told by one person that he went and saw a diff psych and all
he done was answer a 150 questionare.
Has anyone else had to do this and if so What did the dr ask?
Thanks...
Leslie

debkroll of Iowa,
Thanks for taking the time to answer my post, I do trust her, and I
am proud that she is with me, plus I have no doubt that she will stay
with me even after she reaches her goals, but what is bothering me is
what I don't want to become.
We have not had any fights about it, and I have not made her aware of
my feelings, but I have noticed that my reactions to the obvious
admiration of other men have been getting stronger, and it scares me
because I don't want to reach a point where we might have fights
about it, because it's not her fault, and it's not something that she
is doing differently, or intentionally. Like that country song says,
she don't know she is beautiful, but I do.
Thanks again for your reply.
Frank

Hello everyone,
I wanted to give everyone an update. I had my 1 year appointment on
2nd of October. We talked about skin removal. I have to work on a
few things first. After talking with everyone I have learned that I
am not eating enough. I have to get my protiens up more, drink, and
eat, eat, eat. That is really difficult. I have promised that I
will do that. I have been really working hard at that. I know it
has only been a few days but I can do this. I go back on the 6th of
Novemeber. At that time we are going to take pictures and submit to
the insurance for the tummy tuck. I also have a hernia that will
have to be repaired. I have complete confidence in Dr Cooney. He
has been my life saver. He has given me this tool and helped me
become a healthier person. I think I am anyway.
My question to everyone is: If I want more skin removal than just a
tummy tuck, do I go to a plastic surgeon from the beginning or does
it not matter? I am sure not looking to be a model or anything like
that. I just want to be able to wear shorts in the summer without
the extra skin flapping and slapping. I want to have a stomache that
doesn't stick out. What advice do you have for me?
I did make my first goal. I am very excited. I know after the skin
removal that will take me down a little more.
Any help is greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Loretta
389/149.5/125

The only thing missing is the tequila! <grin
Katie W.
Birmingham, AL
Dr. Schmitt
(waiting for insurance approval)

Frank,
It's great that you are so honest and aware with your feelings. My husband
stated that the thought crossed his mind that after I had surgery and lost
weight, I might find another man. The fact is that we've been married 21 years
and he's loved me through thin and fat. I feel that if any man who's interested
after I loose weight, but wasn't before, isn't really interested in me. Anyway,
When my husband came with me to my 2 week check up, he swore the other man in
the elevator was "checking me out' (Yeah right, I was still over 250 lbs.) He
said he was proud to have me on his arm, and felt like saying, "Too bad, she's
mine" He used to feel this way when we were younger as well. So. I guess my
advice is to be confident in your realtionship and instead of jealousy, feel
Pride that she is with you!!!
Debbie R, WI
RNY 8/7/03
286/243/150

I think it's wonderful for you too ask questions.Your a Great man to
number one Ask for help.You said she loves you and you love her.That
such say it all.She did the surgery I'm sure to make her feel better
& healthier and make you proud of her.I would sit down and talk to
her and ask her true feeling for you.I'm Know if you both are in
Love with each other NO man would get in your way.I know its hard
becuz the men turn their heads and look but that should make you
feel Wonderful that your the lucky one to be holding her hand as you
walk not them.So if you feel like your losing her ask and talk
things over and it will easy the mind.Also if your really in Love
ask her to marry you.Maybe she wanting that too.I wish you both the
best and God Bless ya both too.a friend debkroll of Iowa.

Reminder Reminder from the Calendar of Gastric_Bypass_Family
Homestead Hospital wls meeting
Wednesday October 8, 2003
7:00 pm - 8:00 pm
This event repeats on the second Wednesday of every month.
The next reminder for this event will be sent in 1 day, 3 minutes.
Event Location: downtown Homestead, off 11 St
Notes:
email wlslori@...

are you talking about the WLS surgery?
Linda
Preop LapRNY
10-21-03
Dr. K. Borhanian

Hello to all,
I'm a lurker. I joined this group a while back, when my girlfriend
started thinking about having the surgery so I could learn more about
it, and help her in the process, some of the posts have been very
helpful to me in understanding what she is going through, but at this
moment, I need more support that she does. She had her surgery in
April and since then has lost a total of 75 lbs, and is only about 30
lbs away from her goal, and she looks great! Which brings me to my
problem.
I have always found her to be a beautiful woman, inside and out, I
never minded the layers of fat, as she called them, and I loved and
love her no matter what, I always thought she was very attractive.
The problem is that now I'm not the only one who finds her attractive
and that is killing me.
She is a very sexy girl always was, and I hope always will be, I love
that about her, only problem is that now when we walk down the street
the men who did not take a second look at her before, now do, and
totally stare. Lately I feel as if she is getting younger because of
her extra energy and new look, and I feel old next to her. I don't
want to loose this woman, she is the love of my life, and I know I
will not find anyone like her no matter how hard I look.
It's not that I feel that she will leave me, because I know she loves
me just as much as I love her, but I'm afraid my jealousy will take
the best of me and turn our relationship into a mutual nightmare, I
don't want to turn into a possessive, jealous and paranoid boyfriend,
but all this attention on her is driving me crazy!
I'll take help from either men or women, all I want is for somebody
to tell me if they have gone through this, and how they have handled
it.
Thank you,
Frank

Congraduation Hester Wonderful to hear your doing so Great Way To Go
on your New Life.a friend debkroll of Iowa down 59
lbs.

Keith thanks for the update on Dawn it is always nice to know that
everything went well.
Robin O- Calif

Hi sweet sorry to hear your having trouble but the frist weeks can
be the worse.Slow down and it gets better.I felt like that what did
I do and did I make a big mistake.But now I'm all most 2 months out
and lost 59 lbs and feel like a million dollars and walk with out
losing my air.off all the High blood and other pills now.God Bless
and keep your in my prayers and thoughts you feel better and able to
say I'm feeling wonderful and glad I did it.and I Lost ?? Lbs now.a
friend debkroll of Iowa surgery daate 08-18-2003.down 59
lbs.379/320/180 or
better.

Hey Beth, it'll be fun tracking our progress, us losers. Went to the
Dr. today just to use his scale - down 5 more lbs! Yippee! I walk
every day and today I took the longest walk so far (25mins) and I'm
pooped but a good kind of tired. Dr. wants me to work up to
3miles/day or more - I can't imagine doing that but then again, I
never thought I could lose 33 lbs in 26 days!
Angie H.
9/10/3
300/267/150

Leah good luck to the both of you I think this is just great a new start for
the entire family !!!!
Leah moderation will be a big key in your new life there will be somethings
you can not tolerate and others you will but use moderation to stay in
control. Good Luck
Robin O - Calif
211-133-?????
Dec 5 2002

OK IT IS ME AGAIN BUT THIS TIME I AM DOING THE ALMOST HAPPY DANCE NOT THE
WHINING DANCE..
I talked to a guy who is a big wig of our ins. and he told me some REALLY good
news I think anyways. He told me that blue cross blue shield of Organ was
looking at my appeal and denials as a medical claim not a contract exclusion and
he said it looked good so far and he said he would get a email from BCBS(OUR
INS,)but their email was down but he would get back with me tormmow or when he
gets news..I can not wait until my husband he is gone right now on the train
so he do not know the news yeti all started a week ago or so .he was talking to
a couple of guys at work and they had this same surgery and if they paid theirs
they should pay for mine to .oh here I go again on and on .......OH MY I JUST
TALKED TO THE INC GUY HE TOLD ME I JUST GOT THE BALL ROLLING FOR EVERYONE. THEY
ARE CHANGING THE CONTRACT SO THIS SURGERY WILL BE PAID BY THEM NOW... OK HAPPY
DANCE GOING ON.....
Stacy Lynn Beck
Petra Fashions
myhumingbird@...

hi guys just a quick question.. they found out that my liver panel came back
high said it may be something to do with my meds i am on.. haven't talked to the
surgeon yet just the nurse.. i am so nervous i don't know what to do has anyone
else had this problem?
thanks ,
kerri k.
354 pre op

Reminder Reminder from the Calendar of Gastric_Bypass_Family
Weekly Group Chat!!
Monday October 6, 2003
7:00 pm - 10:00 pm
This event repeats every week.
Notes:

Wow! Sounds like a great time...and definitely something to look
forward to! Can't wait for you to wear that swanky little dress!
Gina in CA
LAP RNY 07-17-03
324/257.5/130?

A Shrinking Party....I love it! That is so cool! And I bet it was a lot of fun
too! You are truly blessed to have such supportive friends.
Gina in CA
LAP RNY 07-17-03
324/257.5/130?

yes, a food analogy.
anyway, the test was just a few minutes in duration, the tech stayed
in the room the entire time. when i interrogated her re the radiation
involved, she stated that the test uses LESS radiation than a dental
x-ray. not bad!! the machine measured the density of my spinal
column & hip bones. didn't even have to undress, just unbuckled my
jeans & relaxed, there was a nice scenic ceiling tile to look at.
the results will be used as a baseline, & no, i'm not menopausal nor
do i have any risk factors other than post-operative malabsoption.
in the graduate group, i've read about bone loss by long term posties,
though many many other variables may be involved, i suspect.
lori h.

Hi all,
Here's my understanding of eating and drinking. Think of
what happens when you put a hot dog bun in a glass of
water. The bun pretty much dissolves. (I learned this
yesterday when I burned toast and had to throw it in the
sink to stop the fire alarm. :-) )That's what happens if
you eat a hot dog and wash it down w/ a soda or any other
liquid. So a few minutes after you drink, you could
probably handle another dog. That's the part where
drinking makes you consume more calories.
The other part is that the liquid does fast-forward the
digestion process by pushing the food through your system
faster (I think). So it's a combo of increased calories
and rushed digestion. It's just better to let your natural
digestion process take over after you eat something. Food
is meant for fuel, liquid is meant to cleanse and hydrate.
I have been trying to mentally prepare myself for the
lifestyle change and part of it is trying to look at food
and drink as purely a necessary part of the day. But I am
not a professional medical or dietary expert so take it
with a grain of salt-substitute. Ha ha
I hope this helped. Have a wonderful week everyone!! I
have my upper GI and ultrasound Friday. Had my blood tests
Saturday. Its all happening!
Yippee!
Kris
*********************
Beth, I do not think it will add calories unless you got
hungrier and ate
more. I think the whole reason not to drink during meals
and certain times before
and after is so that the necessary nutrients from the
intake of food is
absorbed as it should be without being flushed out with the
drinking. This is what
I have been told anyway. Anyone else have a different
opinion?

hi! for some odd reason, i now crave limes & lemons w/ salt, never
happened as a pre-op. (a response to having less gastric acid?)
as an early postie, i had an aversion to processed foods, esp canned
crap. still prefer stuff made from scratch (who doesn't), though my
previous MO palate was less discriminating. weird!
lori h.
17 grateful & empowering months out

Choly is medicalese for cholycystectomy or gall bladder removal. Sorry!
Ann Elliot
RNY with choly July 18 2003
291/244/hoping for 150
I will not give up the fight!!!!

Mindy - HI! I had my surgery done with Dr Maremas ex partner, Samuel Cox
in Ft Lauderdale (North Ridge hospital-). Are you local? I live in Port
St Lucie.
I guess they both share the same diet philosophy. I know Dr Cox is
very "hip" on nutrition things and he sure is convinced about it.
Ann
Ann Elliot
RNY with choly July 18 2003
291/244/hoping for 150
I will not give up the fight!!!!

Hey Everybody!
I just wanted to tell everyone about the great time I had on Saturday
night. My surgeon, Dr Bryan Freeman, puts on a ball every year for
his patients. This year it was held at the Winfrey Hotel
(translation la de da hotel, lol) in Birmingham, Alabama and my
husband and I went. It was absolutely the most beautiful and most
wonderful thing I have ever been to. Everyone was dressed to the T
in formals and tux's, they had a marvelous band and enough food to
feed an army! He even had the food sectioned out in stations with
signs on them stating how many months out this particular dish was
suitable for. They had things such as shrimp kaboobs, salmon cakes,
roasted turkey with oyster dressing, roast chicken with fried rice
and soy sauce, cheeses, fruit, spinach dip, three bean dip, etc. My
doctor even drew a name out and gave away a trip to Hawaii!!
Unfortunately I wasn't the winner but there is always next year! I
can't wait till the ball next year! By then I can wear a swanky
little dress and intend to do just that! I am going to post a
picture of me and my doctor that I took Saturday night if that is ok
with everyone. Just wanted to share the great time I had with
everyone. I feel so good after just the few pounds I have lost since
surgery! I can't imagine how good I will feel when I lose as much
some of you have!
Love to all,
Sandi C.
Sylacauga,Alabama
Lap RNY 8-26-03
370/333?/150

It means they also take your gall bladder out.
Jill H.
10/20/03
276/pre-op

Ann,
Where did you have your surgery done? I too am on protein only until I lose
75%. I had mine done in Ft. Lauderdale with Dr. Marema
Mindi
277/206.5/115??
Lap RNY 6/26/03

Hi, I was told that the food stays in your stomach longer if you
don't drink and eat. I suppose if you are eating like soup, it
probably doesn't matter. I usually wait about 1/2 to one hour then I
eat unless I am thirsty.

Sometimes, when you feel hunger, its actually a sign of dehydration. When I
think I am starting to feel hungry, I drink water and it usually gets rid of
the hunger. It is so important to make sure you keep yourself hydrated. Best
of luck
Mindi
277/206.5/115??
Lap RNY 06/26/03

Not sure about the exact date but it should be end of october or the first of
November. BTW...I am originally from Baton Rouge, but live in Houston now. I do
come to BR approximately 5 to 6 times a year.
Hope to talk with ya more and maybe compare notes and maybe even meet you guys
when I come to BR for Christmas!
Carol Matar
Pre-op
Carol Matar

I had trouble mixing up all those protein shakes so I came up with
this recipe that I thought I share. I bought large containers of
yogurt. Then I mixed up my protein powders with it. I added some
fiber such as wheat germ and instant oatmeal. I then mixed up all the
ingredients and placed them in my dehydrator. What I came up with is
sort of like a cross between a protein bar and taffy. It tastes good
and hopefully the protein is still there. Any thoughts/comments are
welcomed. The dehydrator I use it called the excalibur. The website
to purchase this dehydrator is http://www.excaliburdehydrator.com/
there are different models but I think it's a great product. I also
dry my beef jerky on this machine as well. I dry ground beef (chopped
and formed) jerky with this caulking type gun which forms the ground
beef in strips. You can find this item at http://www.nesco.com In
drying the ground beef, you need to use the leanest possible I
personally use ground sirloin with 10% fat or leaner. Any questions I
would be glad to help just email me.

In a message dated 10/6/2003 2:13:25 AM Central Standard Time,
glssblwrlady@... writes:
Can
someone enlighten me please? Thanks!!
Beth
Beth, I do not think it will add calories unless you got hungrier and ate
more. I think the whole reason not to drink during meals and certain times
before
and after is so that the necessary nutrients from the intake of food is
absorbed as it should be without being flushed out with the drinking. This is
what
I have been told anyway. Anyone else have a different opinion?
Wolfie
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336
"Keep Em Laughing!"

In a message dated 10/5/2003 10:58:18 PM Central Standard Time,
red75074@... writes:
but remember, if
you chew something long enough, it becomes pureed.
Connie
open rny 9/17/03
I have never eaten pureed food. It just seems that the look of it would make
me hurl. I do have problems eating chicken but I can eat the Tyson chicken
nuggets with no problem as long as I chew them well. I eat the cottage cheese,
sugar free popsicles, gelatin, beans, spinach, salad,ground pork, soups. And
like it was mentioned earlier. If you chew long enough all the food becomes
pureed. Down 33 pounds so far since August 27,2003. Skinny Wishes Everyone!
Wolfie
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336
"Keep Em Laughing!"

I have been told not to drink when I eat. I was assuming that the
reason was because if I drink, the food will flush right down. But
then I was reading someones post, and it was stated that if you drink
when you eat, that will add more calories. I am very confused by
this. There have been a few times that I had a few sips during my
meal, I don't know if I am going down the wrong path with this or
not. It hasn't happened often, as I know I'm not supposed to. Can
someone enlighten me please? Thanks!!
Beth
4/29/03
266/185/135

Butterfly Foundation is here:
http://www.wlsconvention.com/

I would like to connect with anyone having surgery about the same
time I'm having mine...Nov 11th.
Leah

Hi everyone,
I'm having my pre-op testing done the same time as my husband on Oct
20th. His surgery is Oct 21st, mine Nov 11th. Will someone please
tell me how that went for them. We're both having the RNY Lap by Dr
Hargroder in Baton Rouge, LA.
Leah

Well I only have 37 more days left of this ugly person on the out side. Watch
world I am coming out. I have to tell you I went to my surgeon and everything
went great. I loved being there with them that day. We talked had a good time.
I went to see my folks last month and my brother gave me a English Bulldog for a
pillow. I called him Huggers. His paws wrap around my belly so I will be able to
cough when I have surgery.
I have one thing to say to the newbes on here READ all you can on this surgery
before you have it. I don't know if that is why I am not scare of this surgery
or if it's just that I am busy doing things all the time. I can't wait to bring
in the new year with Huggers at my side. I am so excited about being a Big L
next month.
Joyce
11/12/03

You have some cool friends Jamie can I borrow them. See you on the Big L.
Joyce
11/12/03
Jamie <jncaples@...
My best friend threw a "shrinking" party for me yesterday. She made
a ton of goodies that I shouldn't be able to eat once I'm post op and
everyone brought me gift certificates for "skinny" clothes. I'm so
lucky to have such a good support system! I can't wait to be a loser!
Jamie
pre op 10/13

My best friend threw a "shrinking" party for me yesterday. She made
a ton of goodies that I shouldn't be able to eat once I'm post op and
everyone brought me gift certificates for "skinny" clothes. I'm so
lucky to have such a good support system! I can't wait to be a loser!
Jamie
pre op 10/13

Hey Beth,
I'm only about 25 days out from surgery and I'm hungry too. I'm
psychologically mourning the loss of food also - is that weird? I
started getting hungry about 2wks out but I am so terrified to
disrupt my pouch/staples, etc. that I stick to my program to a "T".
I'm still on pudding/soup/yogurt/instant breakfast for 1 more week
then I start the pureed food - I can't wait! I never thought I'd
look so forward to mushy food. I may not have the answer but hang in
there - yummier food is coming!
Angie H.
9/10/03
300/272/150

what does RNY with choly mean?

Heeeyyy everybody!!! As most of U know I did have the Open RNY---it was a
revision from the VBG to the RNY---& Other than being sore still & getting
hungry---I'm doing goood---hehehe!! But serriously---did anyone have trouble
with starting to get hungry at about a month after surgery?? If so---What in the
worrrld did you do??? Ya'll--Please don't think I'm crazy--I mean I Did have
this surgery to help myself & all--but gggeezz---I'm getting hungry---LOL!! I'm
still on s-f popsicles, jello, broth, protein shakes stained potato
soup---etc...., but I do go see my Dr. this week & I think he will start letting
me have things like cottage cheese & purreed food--Is Purreed meats good?? I
don't remember getting hungry on my other surgery. But 1 goood thing is I have
lost 25 pounds & am slowllly starting to walk more. I live in Mississippi--& the
fair is here I Miiiiight go to the fair next weekend---not sure yet..
Anyway--I need to go to church, but Would someone mind to e-mail me just
some type of menu---like a daily list of things You might eat & drink in a
day???Please? I'm just curious to what I have to look fwd to. U can private mail
me at Ladiebugg_105@... May God bless each & eeevery One of you!!
Lori PS I hope it is easier to keep the weight OFF with the
RNY????

Another super source for vitamins is
BariatricAdvantage.com - theyu sell a terrific calcium tab (calcium
citrate of course) that tastes great (minty).
Ann
Ann Elliot
RNY with choly July 18 2003
291/244/hoping for 150
I will not give up the fight!!!!

Hi
I am also covered under a plan that has any form of weight loss, surgical or
non, as an exclusion. I went ahead and did the surgery (paid out of pocket
for it), and have a lawyer trying to get the money back. It doesn't look very
promising though. Even though the surgery was very expensive, it was worth
every penny and just think of the tax write off I will have for this year. Best
of luck to you
Mindi
277/206.5/115??
WLS 6/26/03

LOL... and here I sit pouting, wondering if my weightloss will
continue. The closer I get to goal the slower and slower my
weightloss gets and at this point it is completely stalled.
To answer your question... Yes, your weightloss will likely slow down
significantly in the coming months and you will find that you need to
work harder to keep the weight from reappearing.
There are occassions where people's bodies become super efficient and
continue to lose even after they have reached their goal. The key is
to reintroduce carbs into the diet and begin drinking with meals in
order to take in more calories.
You are doing wonderfully on your weightloss so far. Congratulations.
**Don't dwell on past failures, dream of future successes.**

HELLO,
I HAD THE GASTRIC BYPASS 4 MONTHS AGO. I HAVE LOST 56 LBS.
I CAN NOT GET OVER THIS FEAR THAT THE WEIGHT LOSS IS GOING TO STOP.
DO I SHARE THE SAME FEAR AS OTHERS? WILL MY WEIGHT LOSS CONTINUE?

HI,
A friend told me about this great company for vitamins for people
who had the operation. I got to share this info because I saved big
money .The product is liquid and very good and inexpensive. The link
is http://www.bariatricvitamins.com/
good luck to all and you are in my prayers
thanks Mike now AKA Slimnow

Hi this Hester in Cali and I had my surgery September twenty fourth. Seven
days later I lost fifteen pounds.Today is Saturday October fifth and had the
opportunnity to weigh
myself and I have lost an additional eight pounds. I just can't believe it. I
have
not lost weight since highschool. My surgery went well.I had a bad
reaction from waking up with the ng tube still in me, but rather then that I
had no drain and no staples.I was happy to not have staples just steri strips.
I did have trouble going to the bathroom when they took out the cathedar.
Finally everything started working. I was terrified and even had a chaplain
pray for me and bless me before surgery. God was their and I felt peace.

Toi,
178, you've gotta feel great! Just so you know, You lost a whole person; that's
exactly how much my daughter weighs.(-130)She's almost 10 and she is as tall as
me 4'10.5" That's fantastic Toi! I can't help with the cravings, not post op yet
but I can give you a great big (((((HUG))))) Constance
toibox_success <toibox_success@...
Gosh I miss all of you during the week. I stay pretty busy, and try
to keep up on the digests but rarely get the opportunity to post
except on the weekends.
Sooo... welcome newcomers, I continue to pray and hope for the best
for all of you seeking approvals, and hugs to all you old losers, you
know I luv ya!!!!
Ok, so here's a question about addictions. Do any of you find that
since surgery, you tend toward finding a certain food you like then
stick with it for a while? Early post op I remember being addicted
to Taco Bell pintos & cheese (sans red sauce), then around three
months post op I found a new love for Hormel Turkey Chili and ate it
for AT LEAST one meal a day, sometimes two. During the summer months
I couldn't cook dinner without making a side dish (ALWAYS made sure I
had a high protein course) out of some kind of summer squash. Now,
my latest cravings are things cooked with green chiles/jalapenos (so
I was all over Robyn's Chile/egg recipe), and *shhhhh....* Lemons.
Now, if it weren't for the fact that I go through the gammut of blood
tests every 3 months and all my levels are peachy (mmmm... peaches),
I might think that deficiencies were causing my cravings, but I don't
think this is it.
Huggers...
BTW, I'm stuck at 178 and can't move :o(
**Don't dwell on past failures, dream of future successes.**

Wooo Hooo... you're doing well girl, keep it up.
**Don't dwell on past failures, dream of future successes.**

Congrats! You will continue with your success...it's a given...you had your
surgery on my birthday!
Carol Matar

Dear Joyce:
I have been in this wheelchair since 1998. The doctor says I will still have
to use it even after losing weight. I Have a real bad back and the spinal
fluid is blocked from going all the way to the bottom of the spinal canal. Every
level of my spine is deteriorating and spurring. Since I have lost weight I
can stand up longer at a time but still can't walk but a few feet. I am going
to make a liar out of him and get out of it at least in the house. I will
probably still need it for shopping and other outing out side the house. I too
have a bad heart. I have an aorta aneurysm, Irregular heart beat. I had
diabetes, and high blood pressure before surgery but have not had to take any
medicines in over 6 months. My doctor says my diabetes is cured. I also no
longer
need acid reflux medicine.
Did I tell you that I weighed almost 400 pounds and that My doctor was able
to do a lap and I was only in hospital 2 days? I have not been sick at all and
even without my medical problems I came through with flying colors. Six days
after surgery I drove to Walmart which is about 20 miles from here and a week
and half after surgery I could not even tell I had surgery.
I have faith that you will do well also. Remember to stay positive and do
not let negative thoughts take over, just push the negative thoughts out of your
mind and DO NOT dwell on them. God will take care of you. Good luck!!!!!
Mary A. B.
LAP RNY 3/22/03
Dr. Steve Weinstein, MD.
Mobile, Alabama
BMI 65/54
386/303 - 83 LBS.

In a message dated 10/3/2003 11:38:26 PM Central Standard Time,
ALOHA1969@... writes:
I'll be checking in every day with "my people"! =}
Angie H.
Surgery 9/10/03
300/272/150
Hi Angie,
And welcome back. I know I would have gone nuts if I had not been able
to stay in touch with this group. It is an excellent group. Glad your back and
I hope your recovery gets better and better.
Wolfie
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336
"Keep Em Laughing!"

In a message dated 10/4/2003 12:54:55 AM Central Standard Time,
pie@... writes:
Did
anyone else handle their pureed stage like this?
Thanks...
Val
9/18/03 open rny
270/250/150
I havent pureed anything either. I just chew as best as I can and try to eat
soft foods.
Wolfie
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336
"Keep Em Laughing!"

Well hello group! I got on the scales this morning and lost another two
pounds. I would have written earlier but I have been turning cartwheels over and
over here. You should see the house. Total disaster now, lol. Makes a grand
total of 33 pounds now. Yippppppeeeeeee!
Wolfie
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336
"Keep Em Laughing!"

Yep Val. If I had to rely on pureeing my food in a blender, I
wouldn't have gotten any food in. Each time I tried to eat something
that had previously been "chewed" by my blender it made me heave. I
just made sure I took teeny bites (using baby utensils) and chewed
super well.
Some times swaying from the book is necessary as long as we don't
lose sight of what it takes to reach the final chapter. The early
phases of WLS are a challenge, but the lifestyle gets much easier and
the rewards are sooooo sweet.
**Don't dwell on past failures, dream of future successes.**

Although I never tried it, I understand that flax seed oil can help
and know a couple of people that started the supplement before their
surgery. I found Nioxin hair care products (from your beauty
supplier) stalled my hairloss (at appx 6 months) once it had already
started.
My honest opinion is that some people will be prone to losing hair
and others wont and there isn't a lot that can be done about it. I
have had numerous surgeries and found that a few months after each
one I would lose a lot of hair... understanding it was from a
combination of anesthesia and body energy going to repair the
surgical owie. As WLS patients we also have the added difficulty of
vitamin deficiency.
I know I wasn't much help, hon, but I do want to wish you luck on
your upcoming surgery and hope you get some helpful answers to your
questions.
**Don't dwell on past failures, dream of future successes.**

Hi Everyone!
Awhile back there was talk about supplements and/or things we could do to
prevent hair loss after surgery. Shame on me, I wasn't paying attention. Is
there things we can do before surgery that would help? I am getting close to my
surgery date, and want to be as prepared as I can. Any help would be awesome.
Thanks ya'll
Linda
267/pre-op/140
Sweet Dreams, Happy Thoughts, Many Blessings

I'm two weeks post op and I'm not puree-ing. I keep it chopped up
and mushey and chew well. I haven't had any problems, but I'm a
little annoyed with myself for not doing it 'by the book'. Did
anyone else handle their pureed stage like this?
Thanks...
Val
9/18/03 open rny
270/250/150

Angie, where abouts in Northern California are you? I'm just
beginning the process, have the referral from my doctor and received
the forms to fill out last week, will send them off next week. It
will take about a year to actually have the surgery. I'll be having
in Sacramento at UCD Med Center. Janice

Hi everyone,
I have been without a phone line (and therefore no pc access) for
over a month and it's good to be back...I know you regulars don't
know me too well - I only posted a few times. I need to tell you all
that as I was waiting for my surgery in July, August and beginning of
September I watched your posts all the time. They gave me strength,
hope and made me laugh! I had my surgery on 9/10 and it's been tough
but day by day I'm getting better. I want to thank you for being
here. I'll be checking in every day with "my people"! =}
Angie H.
Surgery 9/10/03
300/272/150

I think the first thing anyone would want to know is if you have any co-morbity
issues
such as Diabetes , High Blood Pressure, sleep apniea.....Have you tried or does
your state have any local programs that are state run? In California, we have
lots of programs , but don't know if they would do anything at all if it weren't
life threatening.
I myself , have Kaiser , but still am having difficulties getting approved. I
have other health
issues like those listed above. Good luck my friend- I really hope you find what
you are looking for.
V
kristie_melvin <kristie_melvin@...
I am wondering if anyone knows how I can obtain the surgery for
weight loss?? I do not have health insurance and can't even get
insurance because of my weight. I am 34 and 5'4 weighing 325#
currently. I need somebody to help give me a break, I am needy...lol
I know we all are. I am not rich either. I could make small monthly
payments and hand over my income tax refunds every year until I paid
my debt off. I just need somebody to give me a chance. Does anyone
know how I could make this happen for me. I have 3 family members
who have had the surgery and done well. They all have good medical
insurance though. Please somebody write me and lemme know what I can
do. I live in Oklahoma but I would travel wherever someone could
help me. Thanks,...kristie_melvin@...

Check Surgeon Credentials - Make sure your surgeon does not have
disciplinary actions.
http://www.choicetrust.com
Check Surgeon Quality - Access critical background and performance data on
surgeons.
http://www.physicianreports.com
Found this and I thought maybe it might serve useful to people considering a
surgeon for their surgery.
Wolfie
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336
"Keep Em Laughing!"

I am wondering if anyone knows how I can obtain the surgery for
weight loss?? I do not have health insurance and can't even get
insurance because of my weight. I am 34 and 5'4 weighing 325#
currently. I need somebody to help give me a break, I am needy...lol
I know we all are. I am not rich either. I could make small monthly
payments and hand over my income tax refunds every year until I paid
my debt off. I just need somebody to give me a chance. Does anyone
know how I could make this happen for me. I have 3 family members
who have had the surgery and done well. They all have good medical
insurance though. Please somebody write me and lemme know what I can
do. I live in Oklahoma but I would travel wherever someone could
help me. Thanks,...kristie_melvin@...

In a message dated 10/3/2003 6:24:09 PM Central Standard Time,
Frankie319@... writes:
now I always feel so darn cold!! The idea of getting ihn the pool if
the temp is under 90 makes me shiver. Well, whine whine whine.......I
wish I had advice for you but maybe someone out there will give us some
ideas or verbally kick us in the butts!!
Ann Elliot
RNY with choly July 18 2003
291/244/hoping for 150
Hi Ann,
I know what you mean. I freeze all the time. I have had to wear a jacket
already and where I used to sleep on top of the covers I sleep covered up.
But I have to admit, its better than when I burned up all the time.
Wolfie
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336
"Keep Em Laughing!"

Hi Girls boy I use to sleep with no covers and a fan blowing on me
and Now after surgery and losing just a few pounds I'm always
cold.My hubby laughs at me.I sit around with a blanket around all
the time.I see I'm not going crazy and others are going through the
same things.I been sleeping with a heating pad to help me out at
night.Well Thanks for bring up the subject I know now I'm not going
nuts about the cold.a friend debkroll of
Iowa.

Gosh I miss all of you during the week. I stay pretty busy, and try
to keep up on the digests but rarely get the opportunity to post
except on the weekends.
Sooo... welcome newcomers, I continue to pray and hope for the best
for all of you seeking approvals, and hugs to all you old losers, you
know I luv ya!!!!
Ok, so here's a question about addictions. Do any of you find that
since surgery, you tend toward finding a certain food you like then
stick with it for a while? Early post op I remember being addicted
to Taco Bell pintos & cheese (sans red sauce), then around three
months post op I found a new love for Hormel Turkey Chili and ate it
for AT LEAST one meal a day, sometimes two. During the summer months
I couldn't cook dinner without making a side dish (ALWAYS made sure I
had a high protein course) out of some kind of summer squash. Now,
my latest cravings are things cooked with green chiles/jalapenos (so
I was all over Robyn's Chile/egg recipe), and *shhhhh....* Lemons.
Now, if it weren't for the fact that I go through the gammut of blood
tests every 3 months and all my levels are peachy (mmmm... peaches),
I might think that deficiencies were causing my cravings, but I don't
think this is it.
Huggers...
BTW, I'm stuck at 178 and can't move :o(
**Don't dwell on past failures, dream of future successes.**

Way to go Joyce, I'm so happy for you. I'm glad it all worked out.
Janice

I had my consult on Tuesday and today the doc's ofc called
to tell me I'm approved!!!! That's service! Yippee!! As
soon as my prescreening is done they'll schedule surgery!
I have all my appts made except for the EKG.
Yay me!
Kristen :-)
=====
Mrs. Kris :-)
*Don't worry; it only seems kinky the first time.*
Everyday I beat my own previous record for number of consecutive days I've
stayed alive.

I have to tell you all my insurance came thru. Bc/Bs said they didn't want to
take to me cause I didn't have insurance anymore. So I got on the phone and
called Cobra and I mean I yelled at them. I have paid them for the pass two
months and all the test I had done and Bc/Bs are saying I don't have insurance.
Boy they got right on the phone to Bc/Bs while I was at my surgeons office Cobra
called me and told me everything was up to date with Bc/Bs I had insurance and
they were sorry for the mix up. OH YEA the office visit went great. My surgery
is on Nov. 12, 2003. I am finally going to be a BIG L.
Joyce
11/12/03

Connie how wonderful!!!!!!!!!!!!! All that weight gone forever.
Jill H. 10/20/02

astrid
I am delighted you guys got the Cobra thing straightened out. It IS
retroactive, but until you get that letter from them and fire yours
back, it "looks" like you dont have insurance.
My surgeon had me showering on the second day! And I had an open
rny. Man it was hard to do but felt soooo good.
Ann Elliot
RNY with choly July 18 2003
291/244/hoping for 150
I will not give up the fight!!!!

Tanya
Hey thats great about the cover dressings!! I have found that Duragesic
patches do take a day or two to "catch up" in the bloodstream, so hang
in there and I will keep you in my thoughts.....
Ann Elliot
RNY with choly July 18 2003
291/244/hoping for 150
I will not give up the fight!!!!

Hi everyone! I'm currently covered under a health plan that I'm told
doesn't cover WLS (Healthguard of Lancaster)I'm in PA and I was
wondering if I should hold out any hope that I can get approved if my
doctor deems this medically necessary?! Have any of you fought your
insurance companies to have this done?
I've talked with Member Services at the insurance company and they
tell me this is directly excluded under my employers plan BUT no one
will show me written documentation to prove it.
Any ideas or suggestions???
Thanks!

---Amy, You could go out and buy some zinc lozenges at your
pharmacy. They sell them over the counter. I know many people who
swear, they sorten the length of your cold. My surgery is 10/20/03.
MY 14 year old daughter came up to me today and said I think I'm
getting a cold. All I wanted to say was stay away from me I don't
need it now. But I gave her a hug instead. Get yourself some good
rest. I know I'm not sleeping as well since surgery is getting
close.
Jill H.

Gin
Please take heart - most of us felt pretty much the exact same way right
after surgery. Your body has been thru a major shock - they make lap rny
sound so minor but they are totsally rearranging your insides.....your
mind and body suffered trauma!!!! And the anesthesia is still fogging
your mind and will for a while. Please hang in there and have faith -
You researched the surgery and ytou must have had good reasons for doing
it. You should be proud you went thru with it!!!
I felt just like you. I had a really tough beginning, and my hospital
stay wasnt good either. I had developed a huge urinary infection that
went to my kidneys but didnt know until 4 weeks post op when I finally
got a high temp and had the shakes. I just thought I was recovering!!
But truly, I didnt feel like myself again until 6 weeks,,,,,,,,and a lot
of people are like that. Some get it together earilier.....please hang
in there and have faith in YOURSELF for making such a wonderful - and
tough - decision.
Ann
Ann Elliot
RNY with choly July 18 2003
291/244/hoping for 150
I will not give up the fight!!!!

Connie
You are doing great!!!!!! I too am over 50- glad to hear of another
AARP'er on board<G
Ann Elliot
RNY with choly July 18 2003
291/244/hoping for 150
I will not give up the fight!!!!

have faith sweetie. I am struggling hard to get it done , but like you - worry
if I will regret it later. I have had a lot of support here - I have a few
friends that have had this done and they are doing great now- I have a few
co-morbidities, if you do too =perhaps the weight lose will eleviate them all
together. I will pray for you.
Veronica
kittypudge <kittypudge@...
Hello,
I had lap rny on tues. and i'm home now. I dont know what to
think about all this. I had a bad hospital experience with the
nurses, but my surgeon fixed it. I'm having a lot more pain than i
thought and I'm just really wondering if this was for the best.
I did 2 1/2 years of research and attending groups and now I
think, Was this really the best for me? I wish there was a way i
could back to tues. morning and say no not now. I'm beginning to
think that i really screwed up my life. If anybody has anything
pleaase let me know.
gin
323/297/150

Hello,
I had lap rny on tues. and i'm home now. I dont know what to
think about all this. I had a bad hospital experience with the
nurses, but my surgeon fixed it. I'm having a lot more pain than i
thought and I'm just really wondering if this was for the best.
I did 2 1/2 years of research and attending groups and now I
think, Was this really the best for me? I wish there was a way i
could back to tues. morning and say no not now. I'm beginning to
think that i really screwed up my life. If anybody has anything
pleaase let me know.
gin
323/297/150

You have my sympathies on having Kaiser. So do I . I was told I was approved
then not approved, just met criteria. Really, look at this website closer. There
is tons of information here. I have handouts at my last 2 hr consult. I don't
mind forwarding them. There is also a FREE Gastic Bypass book from Kaiser. Go to
the Health Education center and ask for it . Pretty informative too. No
appointment or questions asked to get.
I am very frustrated , I so want a date - I wish you the very best and write if
there is anything I can pass along ..I am pre-op and still waiting for a date- I
yelled at my doctor
for mismanaging my case so poorly. We will see if I even get in now
take care
veronica
cathysthecook <cathysthecook@...
Hi,
I'm Cathy and I am scheduled for WLS in January 2004. I live in
Northern VA (Springfield) and have Kaiser insurance. They do all the
pre op evaluations and only send you to a George Washington
University Hospital surgeon for the actual surgery. I went to a
nutritionist with Kaiser for 6 months before the approval. She was
nice, but from what I am seeing in these posts, I did not get near
enough information about what to do about diet and vitamins. I went
to a Staple Club meeting last night in Woodbridge, VA, but that
seemed to be a free-for-all with 60 some folks there and no real
direction to the meeting. I realize I am not prepared for what to do
and that Kaiser doesn't know how to educate folks for this new WOL.
I wonder if anyone knows of a small support group or someone in my
area who would mentor me?
Cathy
Lap RY Jan 04

In a message dated 10/3/2003 2:28:11 PM Central Standard Time,
gonnabthin1@... writes:
Oh, and then there's "the tube" I hear everyone talking
about. I think it's a drainage tube. Anyway, I hear it's painful
to have it removed after surgery. Anyone who can elaborate on that,
please do!
Hi Leah, I also thought it would hurt like he** to have the tube took out but
it had been so uncomfortable to keep it in it felt wonderful to have it
removed. That goes for the staples also. Once they were all out and the drain
tube
also I felt like a new person. It was great!!!!!
Wolfie
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
Beginning Weight: 336
"Keep Em Laughing!"

TO Subscribe:

I'm so excited, just went back to my surgeon, had my open rny on
9/17/03, and I've already lost 23 pounds!! When I left the hospital
I had already dropped my diabetes medication, now I get to stop my
high blood pressure med! Yippee!! I feel really good and am walking
every day at least a mile.
I told my surgeon that I've done it my way for 50 years and look
where it got me (293 pounds)---so I'm doing what he says and am
getting great results. Just wanted to share my good news.
Connie
open rny 9/17/03
293/270/170

Hi Constance!
Thank you for writing to me! No, you don't hear of couples having
the surgery very often. My husband is going first because he has
high blood pressure & diabetes. We want to get that under control
asap. Me, I just have your everyday problems with being overweight;
shortness of breath, pain in legs, tired all the time and no energy
what so ever. My concerns about the surgery are: living without
sweets, soda, did I say soda, I love my soda, not being able to
drink a lot of water at one time after working outside in the hot
Texas sun. Oh, and then there's "the tube" I hear everyone talking
about. I think it's a drainage tube. Anyway, I hear it's painful
to have it removed after surgery. Anyone who can elaborate on that,
please do!
I'm 34 and weigh 315. (not even my husband knows that) Not sure of
my goal weight, but I think it's around 150. Got a lot to lose!
We'll have to keep in touch.
Leah

Hi, everyone,
IM still looking for a doctor in Colorado who will accept Medicaid. I really
need to have this surgery. I feel like my days are few on this earth.
I really need someone to help me with this. I am so lost!
If anyone knows of any information that I can use, please let me know. I have
been looking for a bout a month already, with no luck.
Mariah

Hello Leah,
I don't know what I could give in the way of advice I'm still waiting for a date
myself.
My husband and I are both having the lap/rny also. You don't hear of couples
very often so thought I would take the opportunity to say hello. Thought maybe
we could bounce questions of each other. We also have 4 children. They are
9,7,4,2. We are in Colorado.We have decided that I will have my surgery first.
The weight is hard on both of our bodies but seems to be taking it's toll on
mine the worst. Any how, welcome to the group and hope to hear from you.
Constance
Leah <gonnabthin1@...
Hi everyone! My husband and I are having the RNY Lap. We are from
the San Antonio area. We're having our surgery in Baton Rouge, LA
because we've been told there is a 2-4 yr waiting list for the
surgery in San Antonio. We have 4 beautiful daughters ages 16,15,13
& 12 months, to get healthy for! My husband's date is Oct 21st,
mine is Nov 12th. We are both very excited and I'm a little
nervous! I will have my pre-op testing the same day as he. I was
having second thoughts, but now I now this is right for me. Would
love to hear from anyone with any tips or advice.
Leah :)

Hi, Everyone ~
First of all, welcome all newbies! This is a great group where you will
gain lots of info. Welcome!
Second - update. I saw my PCP last Monday. I talked for 15 mins. straight,
lol ! Anyway, I approached him w/an excel spreadsheet of all the diets & gyms I
have tried, how long I was on it, how much I lost & how much I gained back. I
also typed up a listing of all meds I am on, what my co-morbidities are, and
what I needed from my Dr.
He listened to everything I had to say, just nodding his head. Then he
asked what I needed from him. I told him a letter saying the surgery is
"medically necessary". I told him I needed it by Nov. 4th. He just smiled at
me & told me that I seem to have "everything under control" & he wrote me up his
letter right then! I laughed. I apologized for me being so hyper. He laughed
& told me my meds are not working at all for me, to contact my shrink, or come
back to him & he would help me. He then asked me what I wanted to do regarding
him (the reg. dr.). I told him that I wanted to see him after Nov. 4th, so that
I can keep him updated. I will find out then if the surgeon orders the tests,
or if I have to go thru my dr.
So, I want to thank everyone that has given me advice. You girls & guys
are the greatest! If it weren't for this group, I wouldn't even know where to
start. Thank you & I will keep in touch, k?
Cheryl
Take One Day at a Time

Dear Amy,
Can't they put you on a 7 day course of antibiotics?
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/221/165
BMI 60/32.6/24
-165
-92.5"
Angel to Bill, Debbie (10/13/03) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

freudian slip? welcome to the group! congrats to you & your hubb for
your dates!
lori h.

My date is Nov 11th, not the 12th.

Hi everyone! My husband and I are having the RNY Lap. We are from
the San Antonio area. We're having our surgery in Baton Rouge, LA
because we've been told there is a 2-4 yr waiting list for the
surgery in San Antonio. We have 4 beautiful daughters ages 16,15,13
& 12 months, to get healthy for! My husband's date is Oct 21st,
mine is Nov 12th. We are both very excited and I'm a little
nervous! I