Gastric Bypass

welcome linda. wtg on your trail towards health, we'll support 'cha
all the way.
lori h.

hi ladies. type "complex carbs", "simple carbs", "glycemic index" in

hi joanne. i'm a huge baby & needed someone from till about day 7, &
i had lap surgery. after day 7 i was driving & @ around day 10: watch
out world!!
lori h.

hi boogie. i'm satisfied w/ my proximal RNY, i'm never tired, my labs
are great, so i'm absorbing & assimilating nutrients well. what will
make the biggest difference in weight loss & MAINTENANCE is embracing
a healthy lifestyle---2 minutes in an in-person support group plus the
opinion of the dozen bariatric surgeons i've met confirms that. best
of luck & keep us posted.
lori h.
17 grateful months out

yay!! time to celebrate, ami!!
lori h.

sheryl, if i remember right, there's a place call the Wish Center, i

awesome leslie!
lori h.

hi chris, have you tried calling the area hospitals that perform wls?
or local surgeons' offices?
lori h.

It is with some regret that I find myself needing to leave Gastric
Bypass Family group. I have found this to be a fantastic source of
information and the most willing and cooperative bunch of people I
have ever encountered. Unfortunately, it is exactly that willingness
to cooperate that is causing me to leave. Here is my situation:

Hello All,
I am new to the group. I have been reading all the information that has
been shared. I just want to say thank you. Ya'll have answered so many of my
questions. I have my first app. on Oct. 8. I had a stroke in Nov. of last year
and was told I had to weight and lower my Cholesterol. Of course I have tried
and still around the same weight as I was a year ago. I have managed to lower my
Cholesterol 20 points since then which is good.
Linda
Enjoy life's journey, but leave no tracks

--- JONY, SO GLAD TO HEAR YOUR FEELING BETTER.
JILL H.

In a message dated 9/28/2003 8:02:57 PM Central Standard Time,
boogiemomm@... writes:
boogie
Its up to you boogie, but knowing how I am I would have to insist on the
distal. From the research I did throughout the process more people had better
results with the distal.
Wolf
Keep 'Em Laughing

I am with you girlfriend!!!!! Way to go!!!!! I haven't weighed below 200 in
at least 10 years. How long since you had the surgery????
Jennifer

Hi
I have defintely noticed a difference in the way medications work on me. I
used to take Sonata for sleep occasionally and it would knock me smooth out
after about 45 minutes. Now, after surgery, all if does it make me incredibly
dizzy about 15 minutes after I take it, then I start seeing double. After about
30 minutes the effects wear off entirely and I never feel sleepy. My Sonata
is in a capsule form (like the mepergan fortes) and so I switched to Ambien
in a pill form. It works great.
~ami~
Lap RNY 5-13-03
261/199.6/130

I have read that heavier people are inclined to get a distal vs a
proximal. I am sure this is a doctors choice, I don't know if many
patients get a choice in what they get.
The only surgery they do at the hospital I will be going is a
proximal due to the malnutrition possibility. The doctor said no
protein suppliments were going to be needed, but dieting was required.
From what I have read, we are talking a difference between 2.5' and
6' of intestine. Most of the people here, that I can tell from the
info at the bottom of your names, say distal if they idetify it at
all.
I am 60 BMI. From what I have read, I should have a distal. Not
like I am going to switch doctors (not after all the time it took me
to get to THIS point), just wondering if anyone else is, or had a
proximal. Do you do anything different from a distal?
Enquiring minds and all that.
boogie

For the first time in 10 years, when I stepped on a scale (a digital one at
the hospital I work at) it said aomething below 200.....199.6 YAY!!!
~ami~
Lap RNY 5-13-03
261/199.6/130

Even better than Ambien (which requires a
prescription)... The PM in the tylenol PM is the
generic form of Benedryl (available over-the-counter).
Just take the Benedryl... That's what I use for
sleeping assistance.
Sharon in Houston
238/147.5/130
Lap-RNY 2/4/03

Hi y'all,
I am feeling soooo much better since my last scope and dilation, and now
that my temp is more normal. I am eating without pain, about 3 to 5
ounces every three to four hours. I even had a cup of shrimp gumbo for
lunch today and kept it down. I guess the third time's the charm.
Thanks for your support.
Hugs,
Jony
Lap RNY
7/21/03
302/265/?
New Orleans
aka "Lena"

First of all, I too take Elavil/Amytriptaline, totally for sleep. I was
going to sleep fine, but I would wake up around 2:00 and not be able to get
back to sleep. So now I take 1/2 of a 25 mg pill. Second, I read somewhere
that if you watch a dog, it will predominantly sleep with it's head pointing
towards the north because of the magntic field. And watching our pugs has
proven this to be true. Now Constance, I'm not calling you or your husband
dogs (and certainly not pugs), but you may be super-sensitive to the earth's
magnetic field.
Katie W.
Birmingham
Dr. Schmitt
(playing the waiting game and hoping it doesn't turn into the crying game)

Hi everyone.........my computer has been on the fritz, and I'm mostly
a lurker, plus it's been a while since I've posted. I am now 3 weeks
post-op. Had my open RNY on 9/8. Everything went fine, and I'm doing
great, I would just like some input on what everyone eats at this
stage. I'm eating soft scrambled eggs, cheese sticks, chicken noodle
soup, refried beans. Tomorrow I was going to try some tuna salad, as
I return to work and actually need to start planning my meals in
advance. I have not been give clearance to eat anything like chicken
or green salads yet, which I am dying for both at this time.
I'm trying really hard to get all of my water in, but it's so hard. I
used to be able to guzzle a ton of water, now, I'm luckey if I get in
40oz a day.
Any insight on some food items would be greatly appreciated.
Kim in Texas
399/370/160

Dear Dep,
It's me again. You will be prone to yeast infections also (we are not
talking about the internal type here). As skin lies on skin you will sweat
and have yeast infections and rashes that will dictate medical necessity.
As soon as you get your first one, see your doctor and start the
documentation process. Take digital photos if you can and store them. It
will not be a difficult process. And start thinking in terms of
reconstructive surgery (which is medically necessary) not plastic surgery
(which is usually cosmetic). Train your mind and the rest will follow.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/221/165
BMI 60/32.6/24
-165
-92.5"
Angel to Bill, Debbie (10/14/03) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

Dear Dep,
Just as another note of encouragement, a friend of mine was also in your
"range" when he had his surgery. In order to qualify for the surgery, the
surgeon first had him lose 30 lbs. He just had his surgery about 6 weeks
ago and in the first 6 weeks has lost and astonishing 70 lbs., so he's down
100 lbs. from his top weight already. It moves very, very quickly,
especially for you guys. Good luck to you.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/221/165
BMI 60/32.6/24
-165
-92.5"
Angel to Bill, Debbie (10/14/03) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

hi, i have a question -- previously i had chronic back pain that i'm sure
is due to my weight and i have been taking mepergan fortis (demerol &
phenergan) i took 2 and could definitely feel them working and they also
caused a dry mouth - well post-op i took them and it didn't stop the back
pain and no dry mouth so i have no idea where they are (LOL) i even tried
taking the powder after opening the capsule and still nothing -- has anybody
been on any medication and noticed a difference? they gave me liquid lortab
and that doesn't do much if anything and since it is much weaker than what i
m used to i figured it wouldn't work anyway - i wonder if we metabolize
differently now -- i have duragesic patches and i stuck one of those on
until i see my dr and tell him....
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html
www.poncetihomes.com

I had my open RNY 8/7/03. I did have someone home with me right after surgery.
Although, that was my 19 yr old son and 21 yr old daughter. My son would bring
me my breakfast, pain med and fresh water before he left for work. My daughter
got my snacks and lunch (she worked evenings) and my husband handled supper.
This allowed me to stay in my bedroom, where I had a recliner and tv, for about
the first week. I probably could have handled some of this myself earlier, but
not the first 2 days or so. I was lucky they were around. and so helpful. If
you have someone who can help for a few days, I would recommend it, especially
if you are having an open RNY.
Debbie R., WI
RNY 8/7/03
286/248/150

i was pretty much by myself at the hospital and i did fine with nurses there
if i needed help - i guess it depends but i bought a wipe called shields
from walgreens - it by the old folk section near the depends - its a wip
that is a cleanser and has a moisturizer too - i love them and i used that
to clean up - for some reason i was to modest to have them give me a bath
and unless i'm gone for a long time i like to wait to get home and bathe.
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html
www.poncetihomes.com

I am having surgery on Oct. 20. What is the group's experience with needing
someone to stay with them at home after surgery? I'll be in the hospital 3
nights. Will I be able to take care of myself at that point, or should I
arrange for someone to come to help me?
...

Funny ya'll bring this up. My dh and I talked about this also. I
would allow him to carry me over the threshold for the first time.
I think he was disappointed that he couldn't, he turned out to be a
real traditional kind of guy. LOL
Chelle
282/pre-op

OMG - don't take that much tylenol - you will ruin your liver -- get a
sleeping pill - ambien 10 mg works good for me.
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html
www.poncetihomes.com

hi, i was on cloud 9 when my dh was able to carry me over the
threshold, finally. he almost got a hernia almost 2 years ago on our
wedding night, hehehe! almost called 911.
lori h.
17 months out

HI!
My name is Sheryl. I have heard that there are foundations that will
pay for this surgery. Does anybody know of any? I took a grant
writing course and I'm ready to start writing grants for this if I
just knew which foundations were doing it!
Sheryl

Hi Cheryl,
First of all, if you would like to email me privately you are more than welcome.
I swear you sound so much like me it's not funny! About a month ago I was
prescribed Elavil. I too was taking Tylenol PM. I'm chicken though, I was afraid
to take more than three. And then I did something by accident one night. Forgot
I took the Elavil and took tylenol too. I slept but I'm sure that it's not safe
so will never do that again. I also average about 4 hours of sleep a night. I
don't see a shrink though. I do have alot in my past that I have come to deal
with somehow and it has been dealt with. I could say that I have one though if
you count my sister-in-law.=)
I have several suggestions and some may sound simplistic and silly, but when you
get as desperate for rest as we have been, just about everything is worth a try.
Have you ever taken melatonin? GNC has a sublingual 1mg(I think, it's a very low
dose) sometimes that works. Most of the time I just try to empy my mind about an
hour before bed go thru my nightly routine-bathe,etc. and try to be in bed at
the same time everynight. During the week I get up the same time everyday. If
I'm lucky I get to sleep in on weekends.When push comes to shove, I just need to
be outside. We have a very small acreage, so I like to walk out in the uncut
pasture and look for wild herbs. Sage is my favorite. This is kookiest one of
all, our bed has to be in line with the north and south.Once moved the bed to a
diagonal in the corner spot, we could not sleep at all. I've heard it said the
polarity of the bed makes a difference. It sure does with my husband and me.Hey
you can send a novel to me anytime, I don't
mind. You take care and keep in touch, Constance
Cheryl T <cheryl196736@...
Constance,
Thank you for your email. My shrink recently prescribed Trazone (sp?) to
help me sleep. I told her that I was taking Tylenol PM (5 at once - I started
w/1, but it didn't help) and they started not to work at all. I didn't want to
take anymore - 5 is really pushing it.
Yeah, ok! This Trazone is not working. Still averaging 4 hours per day.
(I need, like, 8 hours). It's almost midnite, & I am wide awake. I usually
crawl into bed around 3 am. Sometimes, earlier. I am just WAY to wand-up. I
worry too much. I worry for people who don't worry (I am not kidding). What do
you do to relax? I've tried breathing, reading, computer games, writing,
listening to calming music. It seems that when I do get to sleep, I have
nightmares. Sometimes about the surgery. Mostly, it's about the tests before
the surgery and the long process in order to become ..... (uh oh - mind fart).
You know what I mean. Approved, that's it, rmlol ! (I swear sometimes I am
loosing my mind.) Actually, it's mostly my past.
Any advice? I would greatly appreciate it. I am going to try to see if

Reminder Reminder from the Calendar of Gastric_Bypass_Family
Cleveland Clinic (Weston) meeting
Monday September 29, 2003
5:00 pm - 7:00 pm
This event repeats on the last Monday of every month.
Event Location: conference room
Notes:
email wlslori@... for more info/directions

Well as most of you know I went to the Dr. Fri. and I am finnaly pre-
op. I go this Fri and have all my pr-op blood work to be released
for surgry somy pcp can give the OK to my surgeon.
I am so happy that this is finally comeing together for me. HURRAY!!
Will Keep you posted...........Leslie

Congrats Leslie!!!!!!! Do you have an actual date yet? We are all soooo happy
for you!!!! Keep us posted!! sherri

Hi Chris,
Everyones tastes are different but, I like 100% Whey Protein from GNC
and I make a smoothie. I use...
1 scoop vanilla protein powder
2oz of crystal light (whatever flavor I have mixed in the fridge)
1 banana
5 strawberries,or grapes or blueberries, rasberries (whatever fruit
you want)
10 ice cubes
and blend till smooth!
I also make a snickers smoothie (tastes like a snickers bar!)
1 scoop chocolate protein powder
2oz of crystal light (whatever flavor I have mixed in the fridge)
2 bananas
2 Tbs peanut butter
10 ice cubes
and blend till smooth!
Hope this helps! With the fruit it takes away any protein flavor
Pamela
11/19/02
140 lbs gone!!
Miami

Holy smokes! You've lost 75 pounds in a little over 2 MONTHS?? I
understand that losing the weight does not cure depression. Can you
give us more info as to what you are feeling? How long have you been
feeling like this? Are you taking medicines for this and have you
spoken to your doctor about this?

Angela,
Are you walking, taking your vitamins, iron, eating enough protien? I know for
me, if i am not active and not getting enough protien then I start to drag. It
takes a while to feel 100%for me during the first few months, I took a nap
everyday before going back to work.
Have you called your Dr and asked? Take care and you are doing great :)
Keep up the great work!
Ruth
Postop Open RNY
386/202/???
Oct 29,2002
MA
angela <kiarasmama@...
i had a rny on 7-7-03 and ive lost 75 pds and i still have no energy
and im deppressed how long before i feel better

one p*ssed off cheryl
What started this? It has to be one hell of a story.
Been there, done that, got a divorce. Well, okay so neither of us
went so far as to delete accounts, but my ex and I sure hacked out
way into each others files, email, anyting we could find. What
promted us to start on our path, ex brought me home a diskette from
his work with some games for our new computer. I went surfing
through the games, but there was also a .doc, so I opened it.
Webpage setup..."This is deticated to the woman I love, her name is
Dawn..." hmmm. Interesting. I emailed that .doc to everyone, I
thought it was so cute. Oh, BTW, my name IS NOT Dawn....lol
Funny thing is, it took a long time, but we are now the best of
friends.
boogie

Connie,
Since I am pre op, I am guessing, but could this be why some doctors
opt for drains? I hope you are feeling better for the draining, or
best yet, felt good before it drained and staying that way!
boogie

i had a rny on 7-7-03 and ive lost 75 pds and i still have no energy
and im deppressed how long before i feel better

Hi everyone ~
You all know me as cheryl196736. I have had to change my account and
not because I wanted to!
You know, these past couple days have not been good. Last nite, I
was feeling great. I went to sign on this afternoon and guess what?
My f*ing boyfriend deleted my account! So, I lost over 200 email
messages that I had saved in my files and all my group account info.
I am realing! He even mocked me this morning saying, "Aren't you
gonna get on-line? Like you always are!??" I didn't answer him, but
thought it was strange.
So, anyway, please give me a couple of days until I am up and
running, ok?
Thanx ~
one p*ssed off cheryl

Hi all, I had an experience last night that I had not read about on
this site, so thought I would share it. I was 10 days post-op and
had noticed that my tummy was swollen a little. I was playing with
my cats when I noticed something liquid on the floor. My wound was
leaking from my navel, it was dripping everywhere! It scared me to
death. Called my doc, found out that it was a fluid buildup in my
wound area that needed to come out. He said let it drain out
completely so I sat on the side of the tub and let it go. The fluid
was part blood, part clear liquid. I asked if I needed to get the
wound resewn, and he said no, it would heal itself from the inside.
After it finished I put a bandage on it and it hasn't leaked again so
far. I'm sharing this so if it happens to others you won't be
alarmed. If it happens to you you still need to contact your doctor,
though. But it apparently is not uncommon with our surgery.
Connie
post-op 9/17/03 open rny

Hi Cheryl :)
Not sure if you know about it, but you might want to check

I think you might want to consult a new obgyn-protein/blood in urine
can mean several things. Infection only being one. Have your hormone
levels checked. As for the ear, I have always slightly warmed some
baby oil -dip a part of a cotton ball into it removing all excess and
place it in my ear overnight. Sounds crazy , but my grandmother
taught me that and it worked for my family growing up and my kids
never have ear issues.Once a doctor said my baby had an ear infection
then I told him about this old wives secret. He said I was foolish- I
did it and took her back the next day-he had to admit her ear was
much better- good luck

hi cheryl,
EMLA is basically topical lidocaine - recently i heard the mfg was stopping
production so i found a local pharmacy and they made a tube of it -- to me
its the best thing in the world.....typically i have good veins but i think
clear liquids b4 and the mag citrate prep to clean me out also dehydrated me
- not a good thing for getting an IV -- 1st tell them b4 hand that you are a
difficult stick and you want the anesthesiologist to do it a good nurse - i
ve seen a good nurse get one better than an anesthesiologist b/c they do
them more and know the tricks - KWIM - like you said - drop your hand, put a
warm towel on - put EMLA on both hands - iv's can only be given in an upward
direction - thats why they start with the hand -- its is prescription and if
you can get it ask for the 30 gm tube - they did have a tiny tube for one
application but i use this for everything - it was origionally created for
childrens immunizations and i think it never caught on - i use it for IV's,
hemorrhoids, epidural, breast biopsy, jelly fish bite --- i never leave home
without it (LOL).
i'm not an easy patient either b/c i'm a nurse......for example i had an
order for iv dilaudid and the nurse i had was scared to use it so he gave me
trouble the whole shift - any advice i could give is ask what your orders
say so you will know or have your dr write an order for you to be able to
see your chart -- also, believe your body - if you have something going on
don't let anybody tell you different and ask for the charge nurse if you
need to.
sorry i got off topic - there really isn't anything you can do about your
veins is drink water like crazy until midnight b4 surgery - EMLA for no pain
.....
i also had one site that bled and formed a hematoma - fancy name for a
bruise except when you are at risk for clots as is the case with surgery it
isn't good - they did not do it with me but they should - or you - make a
circle around the area with a pen so you can make sure it isn't enlarging -
that means you are bleeding inside and they need to stop it. any way i can
help just ask....
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html
www.poncetihomes.com

Constance,
Thank you for your email. My shrink recently prescribed Trazone (sp?) to
help me sleep. I told her that I was taking Tylenol PM (5 at once - I started
w/1, but it didn't help) and they started not to work at all. I didn't want to
take anymore - 5 is really pushing it.
Yeah, ok! This Trazone is not working. Still averaging 4 hours per day.
(I need, like, 8 hours). It's almost midnite, & I am wide awake. I usually
crawl into bed around 3 am. Sometimes, earlier. I am just WAY to wand-up. I
worry too much. I worry for people who don't worry (I am not kidding). What do
you do to relax? I've tried breathing, reading, computer games, writing,
listening to calming music. It seems that when I do get to sleep, I have
nightmares. Sometimes about the surgery. Mostly, it's about the tests before
the surgery and the long process in order to become ..... (uh oh - mind fart).
You know what I mean. Approved, that's it, rmlol ! (I swear sometimes I am
loosing my mind.) Actually, it's mostly my past.
Any advice? I would greatly appreciate it. I am going to try to see if

Tanya,
Hi! I am glad your surgery went so well!
I have a question for you, or anyone else, k?
You had EMLA creme on both hands? What is that?
Do you have any recommendations for me regarding veins that do not like to be
poked? I have "disappearing" veins and when they find a vein, it moves on them.
I usually have to have a specialist do it (after several tries !). I know that
IV's are needed, but I am dreading the poking and prodding until they find a
"good" vein.
When I was in the hospital having my son, they literally had to drape both
arms with hot, wet towels to try to raise the veins up. That didn't even help!
They finally landed a vein (just barely because the next day when they took it
out, it came out way too easy the nurse told me). And, when the epidural was
put in, it took the analestologist (sp???) 6x before she landed it right. So, I
am not an "easy" patient, lol !!! Oh, boy, is that the truth!
Thanx~
Cheryl
Tanya <coprhed@...
hi,
just wanted to give everybody an update - i had surgery at 700 monday
morning sept 22nd - i had to get there for 530 to get ready - i'm scared to
death of needles so i had EMLA creme on both hands and didn't feel a thing

Hi Everyone!
I decided instead of emailing everyone separately, I was gonna try to say
"thank you" in one email. If I forgot to list someone, I apologize. I just got
on my computer tonite and found 233 emails. So, I am trying to catch up on
things.
Kris A, Michelle, Vickie, Mary S., Constance, Deb in NJ, and Boogie ~ I
want to thank all of you for your support, a shoulder to cry on, & sometimes a
kick in the ass! I was in a panic when I wrote that email. I realize that I
must tell my Doctors everything. And, that my journey is actually beginning
this Monday. (I see my PCP.) (I think I need to learn the art of "breathing",
lol !!)
I started to read some of your emails on Friday nite, but I just couldn't
see the screen - I was crying too hard!! I am better tonite, tho, and the
"stubborn bitch" is coming out in me again.
Again, thank all of you for your support & for being my friend ~
Cheryl

Steve,
Hi! Thank you. Yeah, I realize how stupid I was! lol I just was in a
panic state. I am still depressed, but I am better tonite. Thank you!
Take care,
Cheryl
arkwally <arkwally@...
Cheryl, please Tell the Dr all of your health problems, from what I
have read, This causes lots of problems
good luck, Steve

Lori,
I am going to have my surgery done in TC too. November 12, 2003. Dr.
Featherstone. I live in Mancelona. I was at the second meeting Mary Kay had in
June 24 I think. I can't wait to be a loser. Have you been to any of the
meetings yet for WLS? I wish there was one close to me. I have ask everyone I
could think of.
Joyce
11/12/03
loric_smith <loric_smith@...
Sorry it took me so long to respond, but no i had my surgery in
Traverse City. I have MESSA BC/BS and Bariatric wont take bc/bs
anymore. I found a new dr in TC and i was one of the first three
they performed on August 1st at Munson in TC. They do a great job
and participate with BC/BS. I would love to know more about the BTC
diet and program. They are new, so they are not as experienced.
How are things going for you? You are having a great weight loss!!
Share please your success! Are we the same heights...lol I am 5'4"
and dont know what to have as a final goal. Any suggestions?
Lori- MI
Open RnY
August 1, 2003
289/248/145

Kim,
Thanx~ I am just back on here tonite. Haven't even felt like getting on
computer. Really bumming. Doing better tonite, tho. I am trying to email
everyone separately that gave me advice; everyone has been so kind to me on
here, so it's the least I can do!
Take care,
Cheryl
Kimmie Nease <moongarden1971@...
Hi Cheryl,

Wolf,
Thank you for your advice. I was really down & out that day. Little better
today. Still worried (hell, I worry about everything, lol )
Thanx~
Cheryl
wolfeyes1958@... wrote:
In a message dated 9/25/2003 10:39:36 PM Central Standard Time,
msteele2@... writes:
I to was told years ago that I had IBS. I controlled it alot with the foods I
ate.

Does anyone have a website I can go to or an address for a good support group in
the Los Angeles or Orange County area? I live in Norwalk, California if that
gives you a clear picture of where I'm located. Thanks so much for the
information.
Hugs,
Chris
LAP 09-23-03
284-???-???

Oops, I said I walked down to "Respiratory" for my swallow test when I should
have said "Radiology." lol. Sorry about that!
Hugs,
Chris
LAP 09-23-03
284-???-???

hi, i have another question -- i had my surgery on the 22nd - monday will
be a week -- even though i'm still just on clear liquid and my protein
drinks shouldn't i feel different -- do any of you get a full feeling? so
far i haven't had that -- the only thing different is i get the indigestion
pain when i have to burp - i'm scared to over do it --- and no BM yet......i
don't want to happen to me like with my c-section -- although i was eating
reg meals but it took about 2 weeks to have a BM even though i was taking
stool softener & laxative -- i had what they call an impaction - basically a
very large hard as a rock poo-poo stuck -- i thought i would die on the
toilet and almost called 911 and would have if it hadn't been so
embarrassing - i finally was able to get done with that to have diarrhea
after - so the meds were working and just blocked. i'm thinking with only
liquids it shouldn't be that difficult - so i want to hear BM stories (LOL)
and sorry if that was TMI -- as a nurse there is no topic i won't talk about
Tanya
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As I'm a preop, waiting for insurance approval and going through my
rounds of testing, I can't answer your questions. But I can say that
if I can have this done, I, too, will be very focused on poo poo
issues right after the surgery (to me having a normal BM, can often
be the primary determination of whether the day is going to be good
or not). So bring on the stories!
Katie W.
Birmingham
Dr. Schmitt
(playing the waiting game and hoping it doesn't turn into the crying
game)

Dear Mariah,
On obesityhelp.com I found the following surgeons listed to accept medicaid:
Merlin Otteman in Ft. Collins, C. Edward Hardford in Denver, Thomas Brown in
Denver and James Dickinson in Ft. Collins. Michael A. Snyder in Denver
takes tons of insurances including Medicare. Perhaps if you call his office
you can find out if he takes medicaid as well. Hope this helps you (from
one former Brooklynite to another... hahahaha).
Good luck.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/221/165
BMI 60/32.6/24
-165
-92.5"
Angel to Bill, Debbie (10/14/03) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

I have gone to alot of Doctors. One tells me I have infection and gave me
medicine for it. Well I took the medicine. I have blood in my pee for years now.
I went to 3 doctor and they said nothing is wrong. Well I went for the blood
work with a new doctor and he said something is wrong they have to stop the
bleeding. Now I had this for over 10 yrs and not a single doctor could find
anything wrong. They put scopes down me up me. I am really tired of doctors but
I don't know what to do. This doctor gave me medicine for it. Now I have a ear
ache and I really don't want to take medicine again. Besides my surgery is 46
days away. I can't take asprin I am allergy to it. Don't tell me to pee in my
ear.

In a message dated 9/25/2003 10:39:36 PM Central Standard Time,
msteele2@... writes:
cheryl
I to was told years ago that I had IBS. I controlled it alot with the foods I
ate. Alot of things, like salads, spicy foods, etc, would irritate it. But I
still was able to have the surgery. I also suffer from depression and take
medication for it. I have heard that alot of people were able to use their own
psyche doctors report. My sister was one of them. Just ask the questions you
need to ask and be honest about them when you give your answers.
Wolf
Keep 'Em Laughing

I know this is off the subject but isn't Seymour where John Mellencamp is
from??
Jessica

What a good idea about the straws and the cig box! The oral and what
to do with my hands is worse than the nic cravings themselves.
I figure that the worst is over today or tomorrow (4th day today),
and no problems. I take Wellbutrin, which is the same thing as
Zyban, just in a higher dose, so probably got some big help there.
Thanks for the support. It has been the extra needed to make this
easier.
boogie

Charlotte,
Congratulations and welcome home! You are too funny, I may have to remember that
dust cloth or dish towel thing when I come homeLOL! Take good care of yourself
and let us know how you are doing. Constance
chandy5us <chandy@...
Hello everyone. I'm home!!! I had my surgery in Houston Sept 24
(Wed.). Everything went good and I was released from the hospital
this morning. I'm on broth and jello for another week and then my
doctor says that I will start directly on solid food. I just have
to "puree" everything in my mouth. The hospital stay wasn't that
bad. I had terrific nurses. Although they do love to come into your
room at all hours of the night. But I know that they are just taking
good care of their patients and want to make sure that we have our
medications and that everything is all right. I've had a lot of
burping, and passing gas. Ooops! But it is the silent type, thank
goodness. The ride home over those Houston freeways was a little
bumpy, and it made my stomach jiggle. So I put a folded up fleece
blanket against my tummy to give it support. And I made it home
fine. I'm already tired of broth and jello, but I figure I can
endure it for a while longer. When my dear husband asked what the
doctor said that I could do and what not to do, I'm afraid that I
stretched the truth just a "little". I told my husband that the
doctor said that I could not even pick up a dish cloth or dust rag
for 6-8 weeks. And you know what?!! My husband said that was just
fine with him. I feel so good this afternoon, I hope that I don't
get over confident and do something stupid, like eating too fast, or
eating something that I really shouldn't. I really dread "dumping".
But anyway, just wanted to say hello, because everyone on this list
has given me terrific tips and inspiration.
Charlotte
POST-op (finally!)
265/?/160
9-24-03

Hey there,
Just thought I would say hello and I have missed you. I hope you have
been well. I'm sure you have been very busy. Do you have an update
for us? New pictures? When I find out when my date is I will do
the "befores". Will check back in later, duty calls =0 Constance

"When my dear husband asked what the doctor said that I could do and
what not to do, I'm afraid that I stretched the truth just
a "little". I told my husband that the doctor said that I could not
even pick up a dish cloth or dust rag for 6-8 weeks. And you know
what?!! My husband said that was just fine with him."
LOL... Milk that recovery excuse as long as you can honey. Too
Funny!!!
Glad you made it to the losing side and hoping for an easy rag-free
recovery.
**Don't dwell on past failures, dream of future successes.**

Hello everyone. I'm home!!! I had my surgery in Houston Sept 24
(Wed.). Everything went good and I was released from the hospital
this morning. I'm on broth and jello for another week and then my
doctor says that I will start directly on solid food. I just have
to "puree" everything in my mouth. The hospital stay wasn't that
bad. I had terrific nurses. Although they do love to come into your
room at all hours of the night. But I know that they are just taking
good care of their patients and want to make sure that we have our
medications and that everything is all right. I've had a lot of
burping, and passing gas. Ooops! But it is the silent type, thank
goodness. The ride home over those Houston freeways was a little
bumpy, and it made my stomach jiggle. So I put a folded up fleece
blanket against my tummy to give it support. And I made it home
fine. I'm already tired of broth and jello, but I figure I can
endure it for a while longer. When my dear husband asked what the
doctor said that I could do and what not to do, I'm afraid that I
stretched the truth just a "little". I told my husband that the
doctor said that I could not even pick up a dish cloth or dust rag
for 6-8 weeks. And you know what?!! My husband said that was just
fine with him. I feel so good this afternoon, I hope that I don't
get over confident and do something stupid, like eating too fast, or
eating something that I really shouldn't. I really dread "dumping".
But anyway, just wanted to say hello, because everyone on this list
has given me terrific tips and inspiration.
Charlotte
POST-op (finally!)
265/?/160
9-24-03

Hi Mariah, where in Colorado do you live?
**Don't dwell on past failures, dream of future successes.**

Ok sweets, I've been smoke free for a blessed 1 year & 2 months.
Here's a tip that helped me. I took a bunch of straws (since they
are the same circumfrance as cigs) and cut them to cigarette length.
I put them in an empty pack and carried this around with me. When I
would get the urge to smoke, I would go out to the smoking tent, on
the patio, in the car, etc. and pop a straw "cig" out of the pack and
inhale clean air, holding my straw and exhaling as if it were a real
cigarette.
I didn't feel strong enough to quit cold turkey and new I needed to
continue the oral fixation while my body was cleansing itself of
nicotine. Once the nic fits stopped, I was able to wean myself off
the physical part and get rid of that pack of straw cigs for good.
Good luck, and I applaude your reach for a healthier life.
**Don't dwell on past failures, dream of future successes.**

In a message dated 9/26/03 7:31:59 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

Hi all....
I went to the dr. today and my next step is to have pre-op blood
work and a psych. eval. I have to do this before he will perform
the surgury.
WOW!! I cant beleive it...all Im waiting on now is a DATE!!!!
Just thought I would share.........Leslie

Wow. Thanks Deb. I am really working at this. I exercise daily. I am trying
hard.
Loretta
"zoes.mom" <zoes.mom@...
Dear Loretta,
You have done an astonishing job with your weightloss. When you started,
your bmi (64) put you in the super obese category; your current bmi (26)
has you in the overweight category, but just barely -- 25 is the cut-off --
and your goal weight bmi (20) will have you well into the normal range. All
of this is based on your weight and height as you've provided them. Great
and awesome job girl!
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/221/165
BMI 60/32.6/24
-165
-92.5"
Angel to Bill, Debbie (10/14/03) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

Hi Robin,
I do feel good. I can move, breath, and I no longer get chest pains. I am
5'5".
I don't want to stop. I want to end up at 125. I know I will slow down and
that is ok, but not stop yet. I know it will pick up again. I just have to be
patient.
Thanks for the words of encouragement.
Loretta
Robin Orwoll <robinandgreg@...
Hello Loretta WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 389-158 - your body may just need to slow
down a little now look what you have accomplished. How tall are you ? You
must feel wonderful !!!! Bless You
Robino- Calif
211-133-??? 5 '4
Dec 5 2002

In a message dated 9/26/03 12:04:00 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

check on obesityhelp.com You will find much
information there as well as information on surgeons
and what type of insurance they take in your state.

Hi all, my name is Mariah. I weigh 279 pounds, I have high blood
pressure, diabetes, sleep apena, and restless leg syndrome.
I have been pretty sick for a few years now. I am looking for a
doctor In Colorado who will accept Medicaid. so that I can have
Gastric bypass surgery. I feel this is my last hope. I have been on
so many diets, that I have lost count. I would lose then gain back
the same pounds with a few extras. I feel so tired all the time, I
feel that my days are counted. I feel like I am going to die. I need
help. I don't know anyone who can help me with finding this
information. Please someone help me live.
sincerely Mariah

Tanya, Glad to hear that you are doing so well. You sound like you
are having a good recovery. Best of luck.
Jill H.

hi lori, i'm not even a week post-op yet but my dr gave me a pack of info
and it said that the first few BM's could have blood in it but should be
darker not red - said its blood from the surgery that got into the bowel and
is working its way out but it said if it continues for 3 times and is bright
red to call the dr. hope this helps -- actually i called them b/c when i pee
and wipe i have dark blood - like my period is about to start or stop and
they said the surgery affects the hormones and causes your period to start -
they said the hormones are similar to being pregnant. -- i kept reading on
the group too of how many ppl were complaining that of all times to start
their period it was while in the hospital so now i know why.
surgery: monday 22nd
263/255/?
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html
www.poncetihomes.com

Dear Lori,
Hi honey. Have you been checked for an ulcer? I had those symptoms pre-op
and it turned out to be an ulcer. I was thrown on protonix for a short
while (tiny pills) and it cleared right up. I would say that while you're
waiting to find out, you might want to try colace (stool softener) to "ease
things" up a bit. But definitely get it checked. Could be it's just from
straining. Let us know how you're doing, okay?
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/221/165
BMI 60/32.6/24
-165
-92.5"
Angel to Bill, Debbie (10/14/03) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

There is a new support group for pre and post ops that has started in
Seymour, IN. I went to it last month. It is really good. If any of you are
interested, please email me at MoonGarden1971@... and I will give
you all the info.
Kim
Lap RNY 12.19.02
343/179/135

hi nancy, dumping is as individual as all of us. sometimes it's
nausea, the sweats, diarrhea. & the trigger could be high fat, high
sugar foods, or dairy. i get stomach cramps & the runs, i call it
"sour stomach" b/c believe me, it's a sour experience.
lori h.
17 months out

MI lori, get to the doc. if you have pain, get to the ER. period. i
know a 18 month postie who had to be operated for a bowel obstruction,
it's within the realm of possibility for all of us.
keep us posted, hunny!
lori h.
miami

wtg, vickie!!
lori h.

Great job Vickie!!! Way to go!!
Tanya T.

Hello all,
I am having a problem lately. I am going to the Dr today, but they
dont seem to know why I am having this either. They are so new to
this, they just dont have the experience to answer all my questions.
I am so thankful we have a place like this for help. Here is my
problem.
Tuesday I experienced a real difficult time with my bowels. I had an
urgency and then was in there for a while. I also have cramps, and
throwing up along with it. I made it thru that aftar about 30 mins
and went home early from work and slept. I felt better after that.
I did notice there seemed to be blood in my stool. I thought it
might have been my imagination, but now it is Friday and I am still
having this and it seems to be more. Mucus with some blood in it. I
just wondered if anyone else experienced this before. I am 8 weeks
post op today. I am not having any pain at all. I feel fine other
than tired, and this is my only complaint.
The Dr said he didnt know why i would be having this. He asked if i
have been sick or anyone else in my family sick, the answer is no.
He wants to do more blood work, my thoughts are why?? I can ask more
today, but what do i ask. I keep thinking it might be a block in the
bowel. Not a full blown block, as i am still functioning.
Any suggestions or personal experiences would help ease my mind.
Thanks.
Lori - MI
Open Distal RnY
August 1, 2003
289/248/145

YEAH! I am so excited that my 2 week plateau has broke today!!!
I am now down 44 lbs. in 7.5 weeks. I am almost to my first
goal of weighing less than my husband! LOL :) Only 8 more lbs.
to go and I will weigh less than him! :) Then my next goal is
to weigh under 200! I am now at 213.
Thanks for 'listening' to my great news! :)
Blessings,
Vickie
=====
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*~*Vickie*~*
Proud Mom to Dakota, Collin, Olivia
CHECK OUT MY AUCTIONS AT EBAY, SELLER NAME: googlymom
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thank you. i was just curious about the native american population.
i work in a tribal health facility, and it seems they promote diet
and exercise. i realize that surgery is a drastic measure, but to
some native americans it doesn't seem to be an option. once again,
thanks for the info. and congratulations on your success!!!

Dear Jessica,
No, pizza is not out of the question in the future. When I was a fairly new
post-op (as soon as I was allowed back on semi-solids) I ate the cheese and
sauce off of a slice and it was pure heaven. Later on, when I was given
clearance for carbs, I was able to eat a little less than about a half a
slice (NY pizza... the full sized slice). I found I didn't like the way the
dough made me feel, but now, a year out, I'm able to eat about 3/4 of a
slice with no problem. I find though, that it's the cheese and sauce that I
really love, so I just eat that. I hardly do bread/dough anymore at all.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/221/165
BMI 60/32.6/24
-165
-92.5"
Angel to Bill, Debbie (10/14/03) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

Dear Loretta,
You have done an astonishing job with your weightloss. When you started,
your bmi (64) put you in the super obese category; your current bmi (26)
has you in the overweight category, but just barely -- 25 is the cut-off --
and your goal weight bmi (20) will have you well into the normal range. All
of this is based on your weight and height as you've provided them. Great
and awesome job girl!
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/221/165
BMI 60/32.6/24
-165
-92.5"
Angel to Bill, Debbie (10/14/03) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

Dear Valencia,
I know of two Native American women (in other groups I belong to) who have
had the surgery. Yes, you're in the minority, but you're certainly not
alone. Good luck on your journey.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/221/165
BMI 60/32.6/24
-165
-92.5"
Angel to Bill, Debbie (10/14/03) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

Jessica,
Where in MI are you from?
I am also from MI.
I live in Grand Rapids.
I had open surgery 1 year ago.
I have lost 147 pounds and went from 3-4X cloths to medium.
Good luck to you.
Tammy

Howdy Cheryl,
I think everyone has bad days, but it is worse for someone who is
depressed. I have clical depression, which is a term they put on
those if us who are chemically depressed due to????, mine they chalk
up to heredity. Any way it goes, I will be on medication for the
rest of my life. This isn't such a bad prospect knowing what life is
like without the drugs. Though it is a guessing game for the doctors
to find the right drug or combination of drugs that helps you, once
they have, take them RELIGIOUSLY, and life will be soooo much better.
As far as pre op tests, my surgeon requires everyone to have an upper
GI. Probably to see if there is anything that might obstruct or
hamper surgery. It isn't bad, just don't breathe and drink...hold
you nose helps.
The phyc test. Well I saw one doctor that wanted an MMPI, which is
35 different questions asked you 10 different ways. How this tells
something, I have no clue, but it is used for phyciatric diagnosis.
The surgeon I have now wants you to see a social worker. My guess is
to see if you really know what you are getting yourself into, and can
you change your life to fit the procedure, since your new pouch won't
fit your old life. A lot of the deaths related to this surgery are
those people who didn't listen, thought the rules didn't pertain to
them, thought that "just this small piece can't hurt", or the one I
love "I thought if I left the dorito in my mouth long enough to mush,
it could be part of my liquid diet." It is also thought that this
surgery helps with some depressions, in the long run, though the
first year or 18 months it could increase it.
Hope this helped...sorry for how long it is.
boogie

hi,
just wanted to give everybody an update - i had surgery at 700 monday
morning sept 22nd - i had to get there for 530 to get ready - i'm scared to
death of needles so i had EMLA creme on both hands and didn't feel a thing
-- they took vitals and did paperwork - being a nurse i know its much better
and saves time to already have your med list, allergies and past surgeries
all typed up so i did that. then went to the OR and they put a mask on my
face and said take some deep breathes and that was the last thing i
remembered - they put in a catheter after i was out - TG - much better that
way ---- i had a morphine pca pump so the 1st day was kind of foggy but
comfortable. the next day was much better when they took everything out - i
have 7 sites with steri-strips --- the center one gave them trouble bleeding
and they had to hold pressure and it bruised some but dr said it was a skin
bleeder and nothing was wrong inside. i have sensetive skin and the
steri-strips caused my skin to blister so they said pull them off so i just
did that - no biggie - actually the blisters are worse. i had no drain or
anything. it has been 4 days now with being on just clear liquids and i'm
not at all hungry. the hardest part now is not being able to pick up my 7
month old - can't lift greater than 5 lbs for a week at least -- that is
causing some complication with hubby having to be home more than he should
be but he'll get over it - he had to visit a few job sites so he just
brought her with him -- if it wasn't for the itching and the blisters and
being a little sore i wouldn't know i had anything done. i am wondering if i
m taking in what i should - i was scared to swallow pills but haven't had
trouble and i'm taking tiny sips but i was thinking i would get this water
balloon feeling but haven't yet - i'll let you know how the next step goes.
i brought a 8x10 pic of my family too and they hung it in the OR - dr's do
make mistakes and i wanted him to have his undivided attention on my surgery
and the 2 most important reasons that it had to be successful...i hope
everyone else that just had surgery is doing well and i would love to know
aboout stage 1 diets - are ppl on clear liquids and if so what and how much?
Tanya
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www.poncetihomes.com

What wonderful people your sister in law works with! That was a
great idea, very caring and supportive. I wish we all had such a
personal support group!
boogie

Cheryl,
I have to say that you and I suffer from many of the same things. I saw my
surgeon today for the first time. He had some of my labs and I'm not sure if he
had the psychological evaluation back or not. I have acid reflux, IBS, and also
have been treated for depression off and on for the last 6 years. He has not
ordered an upper GI. I've been told that the IBS and acid reflux will probably
go away after surgery. They are considered co-morbidities and may actually help
with the approval process. As much as I hate to have them, now they may be a
blessing in disguise. With my surgeon, if you are already seeing an annalist,
you can have your Dr. do exam, but a certain format may be required. I was also
depressed that my surgeon said it wouldn't be a good idea for me to discontinue
my meds. It was suggested that I stay on my meds 1 year post-op. My bmi is 49
and I weigh 234#. All I can say is that I understand how you feel. Are you
sleeping well? I recently was prescribed a sleep med. I
still don't think it works well. I know that I would feel better if I could get
a good nights sleep.I'm really sorry you had a bad day. I just don't want you to
think that you are alone in this. We are all right there with you. I say that
alot, but it's true, remember that you aren't alone and we care, Constance
Cheryl T <cheryl196736@...
Hi Everyone!
Today has not been a good day. I have tried to be "happy" today, but it's
just NOT happening! I could be PMS'ing, I dunno.
I feel fat. Very fat. My BMI is 45. I weigh 271. I saw a gyn yesterday
and he told me I may have irritable bowel syndrome with my chronic pelvic pain.
If I do have IBS, what does that do to the surgery? I won't be able to have it,
will I? Should I just not tell my PCP and the surgeon? And, I have heartburn.
Pretty much every nite. Does that mean that the surgeon will order an upper GI
for me? If he might, I just won't tell him or my PCP about it. And, from what
the psych. analysis is (from what some of you have posted) I really don't think
that I will pass it. Has anyone on here been diagnosed with PTSD w/ panic
attacks & flashbacks? Depression? Did you pass the psych. exam?? Can I use
the shrink that I see now for my psych. exam? I am not even sure she will "ok"
me!
I want this surgery. I have NEVER in my life "wanted" surgery! I am very
much afraid of dr.s and hospitals and tests, so for me to want this, I really
want it. I am afraid of getting my hopes up and have something stupid hold me
back from having it. Perhaps even my fear.
I am sorry - I am not angry at any of you. Please believe me! Everyone has
been so nice to me, putting up with all of my questions. I am just really
depressed. (I am on meds and I have been taking them.) Can anyone help me?
Please?
Take care,
cheryl

Nope.not out of the question at all. Just eat the toppings and not the
crust :-)!
Tanya

I know this is dumb but, my family loves pizza. I was just wondering is
pizza out of the question after surgery?
Jessica in MI
334/Pre-optomistic

Happy Anniversary :) And congratulations on such a great job!
I am looking forward to my year annivesary in a little over a month.
I am so excited and still very thrilled over this opportunity as well.
Keep up the great work ...
Ruth
post op Open RNY
386/204/???
Oct 29,2002
MA
blessed121781 <blessed121781@...
Hello, All. Hope all is well for each and every one of you. Today
is my 1-year anniversary. It's been a wild but wonderful year. I
thank God for giving me the opportunity to have wls. My life has
been changed.
One year ago I weighed 319 lbs. and was on 8 medications. I couldn't
walk more than one block without tiring. Today, I'm down to 177, and
hope to lose about 17 more lbs. I take only 3 meds. While I'm not an
exercise freak, I do (at least for the past 3 weeks) go to the gym 5
days a week. Today at lunchtime, I walked with our fitness group
about 4.5 miles around Washington, DC's Tidal Basin. I'm a little
stiff, but I feel good. I am still struggling to make the most out
of this wonderful tool we've been (or will be) given. Still haven't
mastered this carb thing don't know how many grams I'm supposed to
have, but I've been trying to keep it under 30 grams. I still have a
lot of questions, and I'm thankful to have this group to bounce them
off. I'm also still trying to deal with the emotional side of this
eating thing, and I guess I always will be. I do have the mindset
that I will have to work at keeping the weight off for the rest of my
life. My immediate plan is to weigh weekly or at least bi-weekly.
That way if I find myself 2-5 lbs. over my goal weight (once I get
there), I hope I'll be able to put myself in check before things get
out of hand.
I am so glad to have this group for support and hope I can offer you
half of what you've given me. I love you all and pray for continued
success to those of you who have had the surgery and speedy approval
(and success) for those of you still waiting.
Jan <

1 year out and down to 177 and little meds that Wonderful and
exciting.Can't wait to be one years down and under 200.I've been
heavy all my life and losing the fats make me Very Happy and
Thankful.Congraduation and you'll lose what you need soon.Way To Go
and keep up the Great work.a friend debkroll of
Iowa.

Hi Everyone!
Today has not been a good day. I have tried to be "happy" today, but it's
just NOT happening! I could be PMS'ing, I dunno.
I feel fat. Very fat. My BMI is 45. I weigh 271. I saw a gyn yesterday
and he told me I may have irritable bowel syndrome with my chronic pelvic pain.
If I do have IBS, what does that do to the surgery? I won't be able to have it,
will I? Should I just not tell my PCP and the surgeon? And, I have heartburn.
Pretty much every nite. Does that mean that the surgeon will order an upper GI
for me? If he might, I just won't tell him or my PCP about it. And, from what
the psych. analysis is (from what some of you have posted) I really don't think
that I will pass it. Has anyone on here been diagnosed with PTSD w/ panic
attacks & flashbacks? Depression? Did you pass the psych. exam?? Can I use
the shrink that I see now for my psych. exam? I am not even sure she will "ok"
me!
I want this surgery. I have NEVER in my life "wanted" surgery! I am very
much afraid of dr.s and hospitals and tests, so for me to want this, I really
want it. I am afraid of getting my hopes up and have something stupid hold me
back from having it. Perhaps even my fear.
I am sorry - I am not angry at any of you. Please believe me! Everyone has
been so nice to me, putting up with all of my questions. I am just really
depressed. (I am on meds and I have been taking them.) Can anyone help me?
Please?
Take care,
cheryl

Liza,
I have a fatty liver. The doctor told me not to worry about it. I have been
trying to lose weight since May on my own I am down 25 lbs. I was 30 lost than I
gain 5. I hate losing and gaining again. Can't wait until November for my
surgery. Good luck with your surgery. See you on the other side of the Big L.
Joyce
11/12/03
Liza Diaz <latindestiny1369@...
I just wanted to say "THANKS EVERYONE" on the congrats & support. Now I'm
actually sooooooo nervous more so for my children. I couldn't even sleep last
night. I kept having the weirdest dreams about the surgery. But I guess thats
normal. I was wondering if anyone had to do this....my doctor says that I have a
fatty liver (its at 25) so he put me on a Protein shake diet from now until
surgery . thats supposed to shrink my liver. I've hadn't heard that, well
atleast not for 3 wks.
Chris & Lisa - HEY SURGERY BUDDIES!!!. Of course we need to support each other
through this. You can also e-mail me.
Liza
PRE-OP
SURGERY DATE 10-13-03
280/ / 140
LIZA

Hello, All. Hope all is well for each and every one of you. Today
is my 1-year anniversary. It's been a wild but wonderful year. I
thank God for giving me the opportunity to have wls. My life has
been changed.
One year ago I weighed 319 lbs. and was on 8 medications. I couldn't
walk more than one block without tiring. Today, I'm down to 177, and
hope to lose about 17 more lbs. I take only 3 meds. While I'm not an
exercise freak, I do (at least for the past 3 weeks) go to the gym 5
days a week. Today at lunchtime, I walked with our fitness group
about 4.5 miles around Washington, DC's Tidal Basin. I'm a little
stiff, but I feel good. I am still struggling to make the most out
of this wonderful tool we've been (or will be) given. Still haven't
mastered this carb thing don't know how many grams I'm supposed to
have, but I've been trying to keep it under 30 grams. I still have a
lot of questions, and I'm thankful to have this group to bounce them
off. I'm also still trying to deal with the emotional side of this
eating thing, and I guess I always will be. I do have the mindset
that I will have to work at keeping the weight off for the rest of my
life. My immediate plan is to weigh weekly or at least bi-weekly.
That way if I find myself 2-5 lbs. over my goal weight (once I get
there), I hope I'll be able to put myself in check before things get
out of hand.
I am so glad to have this group for support and hope I can offer you
half of what you've given me. I love you all and pray for continued
success to those of you who have had the surgery and speedy approval
(and success) for those of you still waiting.
Jan <

Hi Everyone!
I just wanted to say "congratulations" to all the people who have had their
surgery recently (soooo many !). It is wonderful ! I know you will all be
loosing soon, so hang in there and keep us up-to-date, k?
Cheryl

I am still waiting for my surgery date and I read the messages for
encouragement. I just talked to my sister-in-law who had the
surgery earlier this week and she is doing great and she told me
that she was gave a wish quilt. Some of the folks at her work and
some friends got together and made this beautiful quilt. Each
person made one square and then someone put it together. They said
its full of good wishes for her new life and I guess they got the
idea for calling it a 'wish quilt' because she had her surgery done
by the Wish center and because, as we all know, the surgery is the
start of all our wishes. She's said the quilt will be a reminder of
how far she's come whenever she looks at it and that she has
wonderful friends. Isn't that great!

Hey everyone, I am almost 7 months out, i've lost 95 pounds, and I'm
almost 23 years old. My skin has not stretched back at ALL. my
breasts are so disgusting! i have so much loose skin in that area.
but other areas as well. is this a process that just takes time? or
what? I'm really hoping i won't have to have plastic surgery!

Valencia,
I'm not completely native american but I come from a long line of
native americans. I haven't had my surgery yet, waiting for my pre-
approval. It's been almost a week since it was sent in and I am
getting anxious. Someone who had the same insurance (different
employer) has her approval and it was sent the day before mine was.
Good luck through your journey!
Chelle
282/pre-op

fortunately & unfortunately, as time passes by, it's possible to eat
more. i've heard that dozens of times @ support groups. some people
are alarmed & troubled by it. we want the pouch to protect us from
the extra weight. that's when it's time to become pro-active, get
feedback, etc. you're approaching 4 months out, correct?
lori h.

I had an appointment yesterday and met my surgeon. He appears to be
very nice. His office will write a letter to my insurance company
and go from there. he said it'll take about 3-4wks to hear from
them. so now i just wait. so, are there any native american men or
women who have wls? i'm thinking i'm a statistic among the native
american. haha.

Hi Tanya, Thanks that makes me feel better. Wow yours was a lot
higher than mine. I'm just not gonna worry about it.
Welcome home. I'm glad your surgery went well and I wish you a speedy
recovery. You'll have to tell us all about it when you're feeling
better. Take care!!
Chris
Marietta, GA
10/13/03

I think I have stretched my stomach? How can you really tell? What
do I do if I did?

hi chris,
i can't say about the liver enymes but my triglycerides were 735 and
cholesterol 325 -- i can't imagine why it would affect the surgery - after
all - thats why we are getting it done --- i was on pravachol then zetia and
it lowered it pretty good.
Tanya
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Hi Boogie,
I am not a smoker, But I do have Broncual(sp?) Asthma( which means
I am proned to Bronchitis and Broncual Pneumonia) but have had this
all my life. And has gotten worse since my weight gain. I was told
by my pcp and surgeon that this is considered and co-morbity since
it has gotten worse over the yrs. I am inhaler dependent and with
this surgury it should help alot.
I dont know it this help any. But I wish you luck and congrats on
quitting. It takes one day at a time..and soon you will see how the
months fly by.
It takes a weak person to smoke but even a stronger one to QUIT!!
Leslie

tanya!! woohoo!
lori h.

I had the open RNY on August 11, 2003 and was glued back together as well.
My incision is about 10" long. They did put steri-strip tape over the incision
just to keep everything together, but the glue held quite nicely; I was
amazed.
Jeanne

calls for medical advice, what has your health care team advised you?
lori h.

wolfie, since you're not a month out yet, i wouldn't rush the
progression. i was "allowed" crunchy vegetables @ 9 months out,
though we ALL different, & every doc is different & even nutritionist
s give contradictory advice. my 1st thought is that your insides are
still healing. i remember blenderized soups & yogurts around a month
out.
lori h.

hi loretta. 1st, excellent job on the w l!!! you're just about a yr
out, wow! after lots & lots of research, feedback from the group, my
trainer, doc, etc, i've formed a "goal" weight. it is based on body
fat %age, which i have measured w/ this handheld device, where you
punch in age, weight, etc. the readout from the machine gave me x lbs
of lean body mass, & x lbs of body fat. it's very enlightening & it's
IMPOSSIBLE to play the games ppl play with the scale.
have you calculated your new BMI? unless you 4'6", you sound about
right.
& if/when you have reconstructive surgery, that subtracts a few lbs,
too.
lori h.
PS don't do popcorn here, either.

Hello Everyone:
This is my first time to post. I joined a few weeks ago.
I am 6 months out from my surgery and I hit a plateau about 3 weeks ago.
Needless to say, I'm beginning to get a little anxious.
Has anyone else plateaued and managed to get past it? I'm trying to
remember what the Doctor's have said about it. Is it the body trying to
catch up with itself? None of that quite makes sense to me.
I know I am not eating enough at this point to not be loosing weight. I
have kicked up my exercise routine and am making sure that I am consuming
the 64 ounces of water per day, but my scale is STUCK! I am 40 lbs from
my goal weight and am beginning to wonder if I will ever see it.
Just hoping someone out there can share their experience and tell me how
long this may last and what my body is going through.

hi, sounds like you have a great plan to run with - just don't forget to
ask if you hit a snag - i just came home today from surgery so i'm going to
hit the sack. BBL....
Tanya
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