61 pounds gone forever!!!!!!

2007-02-28 23:17:36

Hello everyone,
It has been a long time since I have posted. I do read some of the
posts, not all of them, there are soooooo many. I just wanted to
share how things are going with me. It certainly has not been easy,
but I survive every day. The hardest things still are eating enough
food and also drinking enough water. The protein is tough getting
in. I have tried many protein shakes, they all suck, lol. I have
tried to fix them up a little here and there, but that smell and
taste still makes me naucious, and I cant handle that. I have tried
some protein bars, they are a little better, but I usually cant eat
a whole one at a time. I actually have gotten sick only one time,
because I ate too much and too fast, that felt pretty bad. A few
times I have been close to it, and that feels just about as bad as
throwing up. Sometimes I swear I will never eat again in my life,
lol. I was also very scared of getting sick from sugar before, and I
have tried little bites here and there when I want something sweet,
and I am glad to say that I have done fine so far. I know I can
never eat a whole piece of cake or anything like that, but
occasionally that little bite helps alot, with the head hunger. I
can pretty much eat anything I want, of course it is barely nothing
when I eat, but I am glad I am to that point. Bread is very hard to
eat, so I dont usually try that very often, besides, I know the
carbs are bad anyway.
Now, for the best part!!! I have lost 61 pounds!!!! I now weigh
205 pounds, it has been about 13 years since I have been that
weight!! I also am now in a size 16 jeans!!!!!!!!!!! It has finally
come to the point of people who havent seen me in a few months
saying "WOW" when they see me, so it is definitely noticeable to
others. That is such a good feeling. I know the eating part will
get easier eventually, it has gotten a little easier since the
beginning. I dont regret having this surgery at all!!!!
Beth
4/29/03
266/205/135

Kevin

2007-02-28 19:03:43

Dear Kevin,
You're right... you are cute, and so's Trisha. I also LOVE your attitude
(pertaining to the pics of the Statue of Liberty and Uncle Sam -- as a
former NYer, these feelings run very deep in me). Thanks for the links to
learn more about you. Best of luck in your quest for surgery...
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/235/160
BMI 60/34.7/24
-151
-69.5"
Angel to Bill (8/14/03), Debbie (waiting for a date) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

Too Old????????????

2007-02-28 06:25:38

I am waiting to get an appointment with another Dr. My first Dr will
not take my new Medicare Insurance. So I am in the process of
finding another surgeon. I am looking at Dr Deturis in Gainesville
because that is only 1 1/2 hours from home and he sounds pretty
good. Wish me luck..............I AM 65 YEARS OLD.........IS THERE
ANY ONE THAT WAS OR IS MY AGE THAT HAS HAD THE SURGERY??????? My
only health problems are weight related. I have already been through
all my pre-ops and passed them all with flying colors. I am just
concerned because of my age. Bless all of you. I want to be
a "looser" too.
BMI - 42
AGE - 65
247-???-135
JUDY

Louisiana - long denial info

2007-02-28 03:20:31

Where In Michigan are you from?? I am from a little town close to a big town
called Niles.
Jess in Mi
330/pre-0p

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] NO SCALES

2007-02-27 21:05:57

Carol:
It's hard to remember but worth the effort. Now, in a month if the scale still
hasn't moved, I think I might just be despondent. ~laughs~ But I'll cross that
bridge when I come to it.
Hugs,
Diana

off subject

2007-02-27 11:21:24

To all my fellow WLS family. I am sorry if I offended anyone on the post I
sent earllier
Please forgive me.
LeAnn

Re: Thank you for the welcome/Peggy

2007-02-27 06:00:24

OMG! That is so cool! I have another new friend that is 7 months
out that I chased down in Safeway a couple days ago. I had met her
once at Curves, and I was so excited to tell her I had surgery too,
so I hunted her down til I found her! We'll have to talk. Shoot me
an email sometime, okay?
Gina in CA
LAP RNY 07-17-03
324/276.5/130?

Re: Thanks for the welcome!

2007-02-26 22:18:44

Almost forgot!!!!
http://kevinandtrisha.tripod.com/kevin/index.htm

Thanks for the welcome!

2007-02-26 21:36:45

Thank you all for the welcome.
I think older women rock..but Im married..sorry. heheh
I appreciate the responses so quickly. I was curious all day today
as I sold my cell phones and pda's.
I got the answer i prayed for. Now..I just need to jump UHC a$$ and
get this done! WOOHOO!!!
KC

Re: Louisiana - long denial info

2007-02-26 16:48:13

Tanya. Just keep plugging away. I have been denied four times by
my HMO. I have met all their criteria, except I have not had three
years of medically supervised weight loss attempts. I was so mad and
frustrated the last time. I couldn't stop crying all day. I have
one last appeal I am trying. The State of Michigan has an appeal
commisioner that you can go through. They can overturn your
insurance opinon. I should hear their decision in about 2 weeks.
Wish me luck. I stated this battle with my HMO in April. I just keep
plugging away at it. I am lucky though, my husband blue cross PPO
did approve me after only 2 weeks. They ony pay 80% of costs, thats
why I keep fighting. I am going to have my surgery in October. Not
sure of the date yet. Have already postponed my surgery 2 times. But
October is it. LOL. Jill

Hello Everyone From Wisconsin!!!

2007-02-26 08:41:31

I have met a few nice people in here and had some of my questions and
concerns about my up and coming surgery; I wanted to thank those who
have responded to my plite. I would like to take the time now and
tell you alittle about me.... I am married 3yrs in Jan. and weigh
over 400lbs at 6'0 tall. I have always been a large lady but have put
on more weight after having been diagnosed with polyarterists nodosa
back in 1987 I have been doing the battle of the bulge for most of my
adult life; I have tried the pills, and lost alot of weight but then
they took it off the market and back it comes; I dont just sit around
and eat all day like most people assume us large people do; I am very
active and outgoing and love spending time with my 2 grandchildren
and my 4 daughters (all of my husbands children I had non of my own
due to illness) but I now have reached my limits of wanting more out
of my life and need to do it for me; my husband has said this is my
decision and my family have been very supportive, (all of which are
heavy people, with diabitis, heartfailure and cancer)... So my
doctors definitly know my background; I also had a sister in 1979 who
had the intestinal bypass and we lost her 1 1/2 years after surgery
to complications of it but they no longer do that type of surgery i
am told but it was a major decsion for me to even think about doing
the gastric bypass and didnt think my family would be to happy about
my decision but i was surprised because they have come to see i need
to do this I am only 38 years old and I have struggled through many
illness and I am a true fighter and believer in the lord dont give me
more than i can handle. I also deal with my husband being bipolar
manic depressive so I have a full plate you could say.. So anyways I
just wanted to thank you all for the help and hope maybe sometime I
will be able to help someone along this journey also. Please feel
free to email me also Its hard for me to get online and read each and
every posting but I do try. Thanks again and I am now in the first
steps towards my surgery. Thanks all and God Bless!

Louisiana - long denial info

2007-02-26 02:08:53

well, unfortunately when i called the insurance co to get the results of
the 2nd time they are reviewing my info and it said denied b/c of no
physician assisted exercize program so i got my copy and told her it was
there plain as day - so then she says hold on and comes back - i'm thinking
she is going to go show somebody and them say it was an oversight and
approve it - wrong - she comes on and says the next step is write an appeal
letter which goes to a "different" group of ppl who denied and she says and
we started filing the appeals over the phone so i can do it right here -
then she says excuse me and i can hear wispering and she comes back on and
says they just changed the policy - they have to be hand written and mailed
in - i said great - we got in just in time (sarcastically - i told her that
i was not being mean or angry with her and tried to explain i pay 1000.00 a
month for this insurance - the weight loss clause states WLS is covered if
deemed medically necessary. i told her that i asked what criteria i didn't
meet to deny me the first time and she said she couldn't say that every case
is judged individually - i said BS !!!!! - i said my next letter won't be
from me it will be from my attourney. i also asked her nicely since she does
this all day long to tell me what needs to go in that appeal letter to
better my chances - a pic or anything - she said no. i explained to her how
medically necessary for my kids. then i asked how long are we looking at now
and there was a pause where i guess the other person was doing the wispering
and i said just put that person on the phone and she wouldn't and said there
is no way to speak to any of the medical ppl that make the decisions - she
says it can take up to 6 months but it could be 2 weeks - she said i could
ask for her and she would check regularly. i said you see how quick right
there that person wispered i had to do it on paper and how convenient it was
for them to overlook the exercize parts - i told her to tell them or write
it on this note that i am not going away - my first packet i sent was 52
pages and i said i'm adding to that daily and can bombard them with
paperwork - and i said i don't get it - I'M COVERED - AND MEET CRITERIA - so
i can't be denied if i provide them what they want - if they try then i'll
get my lawyer to do something. what a waste of time and paper on their part.
i'm on COBRA so i'm hoping they aren't stalling for that reason - if so i'll
have my lawyer send letters and bombard them with a fax everyday and call
them everyday - just to be a PIA - i would think they would approve me just
for being aggravating. so has anyone gone this far and how did it go?
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] New member & Weight gaining issues

2007-02-25 21:37:07

I would suggest reading the pouch rules for dummies
and going back to the original diet program for a
while.

Hi bill: congrats on your choice to be on the loosing side.

2007-02-25 16:25:46

Hi Bill: I am now 1 year and 1 months out and 100 lbs and 11 cloathing sizes
down. I am walking about 15 to 20 min almost every day and am starting to go to
college classes next week. I have been going to college for about 31/2 years now
and will finish about may next year. I weighed 453 at surgery and now weigh 353
and love the feeling it gives me.I still have a long way to go but i am willing
to work it as long as I need too. Congrats on your 21 lb weight loss. I hope you
the best of every thing.Please feel free to e-mail me any time.
Sheryl 516/453/453/ 160

Re: New member & Weight gaining issues

2007-02-25 14:46:39

Hi Ali! I love your email addy! That is too cute!
Gaining that weight back must have been absolutely devastating for
you. The only thing that came to mind as I was reading your post is
that your exercise level is different. If you were training when
you first got the weight off, that meant a lot of calories/fat being
burned compared to when you're not training. I know that even
though we've had surgery, we still have to find that happy medium
between diet and exercise to keep the weight off. I hope that
getting back into training mode helps you out. Other than that, I
know (from personal experience) that we don't always realize what
we're eating, especially if we make a habit of it. You know, it's
like locking the door as you leave the house- so routine, you never
sure if you did it or not. Maybe you could try keeping track of
everything you put in your mouth. Fitday.com has a pretty decent
program...and it's free! Good luck to you, and keep us posted on
your progress. Even though I'm fat, I'll still be your
cheerleader! ;-)
Gina in CA
LAP RNY 07-17-03
324/276.5/130?

Re: Thank you for the welcome

2007-02-25 08:44:33

Hi Wendi! Kaiser, Vallejo...that means you're not too far from
me...I live in Livermore. You are very blessed to have such a
wonderful relationship with your sister. I wish I had that with
mine. Glad you joined us.
Gina in CA
LAP RNY 07-17-03
324/276.5/130?

New member & Weight gaining issues

2007-02-24 23:24:36

Hi all - my name is Alison - I am 30 and had my surgery 3.5 years
ago. It was the best thing that I ever did and lost 135 pounds
within 10 months and kept it off for 3 years. For the last 6 months
I've been gaining weight like a maniac and haven't changed my eating
habits at all. It seems that anything I eat just sticks to me. I am
very upset about it and have gained 40lbs. Does anyone have any
suggestions or help for me? I started running once I got my weight
off and am starting my training this week for the Houston Marathon
that will be Jan. 18th. I've gone from a size 6 to a 14/16 and it
all seems to be in my butt/hips/thighs and upper arms. HELP!
Ali

Re: New guy in Pensacola/KC

2007-02-24 14:23:36

KC, do you by chance work for Best Buy?
My husband works for them, and we just picked up United Healthcare
(UHC) in April. I was very concerned because I had started this
journey with Aetna, last September, prior to being laid off. I was
so worried that it was going to be a huge hassle, especially since
we were new to UHC. I met my pre-op requirements in June. The
surgeon submitted the paperwork, and within 2 weeks I was approved
and had a date. It was so easy! We have the Premier level of
coverage (No deductible; plan pays 90% until annual out-of-pocket
max is met, then plan pays 100%). I don't know if that makes a
difference or not. My BMI was about 57, I am "insulin resistant",
back and feet pain, GERD, blah, blah, blah. I wonder why they're
playing games with you. Hmmmm? Well, good luck to you. Glad you
found this group.
Gina in CA
LAP RNY 07-17-03
324/276.5/130?
PS...I'm still cute too! It's good to be cute, isn't it? :-)

Carolyn P

2007-02-24 12:15:03

Dear Carolyn,
I'm 49 and had the surgery last September. At that time I was on 27
different meds for various problems, as well as insulin (100 units per day).
Immediately following surgery, I was pulled off all my diabetic meds. I
only had to take half my dose on 3 occasions in the first month following
surgery. I've had no diabetic meds AT ALL in the past 10.5 months. I was
on medications for kidney problems, hypertension, heart meds, GERD and on
and on. In the months immediately after my surgery I was removed from all
but six of my meds, so now I'm on six meds (but expect to be coming off two
more of them soon) and I take my vitamins and mineral supplements to stay
healthy. I hope it happens for you too. Best of luck to you. If you don't
get support at home, you'll get plenty of it here.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/235/160
BMI 60/34.7/24
-151
-69.5"
Angel to Bill (8/14/03), Debbie (waiting for a date) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

Re: Thin me....or Mini me...lol

2007-02-24 02:28:00

Thin people sometimes do look older, but they feel younger. The fat
puffs out those wrinkles, but when you lose weight, they become more
noticable. So, dye your hair blonde, put a little make-up, and
smile. The mini you will be beautiful!!!
Lizanne
pre-op(tomistic)

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family]Cindy

2007-02-23 23:51:45

Hi Cindy! I have been to the Radisson in Corning for a couple of state
nursing association conventions......it was very nice. I am glad you are doing
well.
Take care.
Danielle M
Peace Out :o)

RE: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Thin me....or Mini me...lol

2007-02-23 19:18:24

It would be hard for me to say since I am pre-op; however, I have a distorted
body image, so now my body will finally catch up with what my mind has had in it
all along....LOL! In looking at hundreds of before and after pictures, I
believe that in most cases the person has looked younger, definitely.
Thanks,
Carol C
Pre-op
Houston, TX

Thin me....or Mini me...lol

2007-02-23 13:50:00

Hey All,
I have a question for all of ya... I am 42 and I am really scared of what I
might look like as a thin or mini me. I have never been a thin person. I am
still pre-op but soon hope to have another date. I have seen some pictures of
people that have lost a lot of weight and they look older. Did anyone else feel
this way?
Thanks
Pam C
New Orleans
pre-op
post-op wannabe...LOL

RE: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Thank you for the welcome

2007-02-22 21:36:16

Wendi,
Welcome, and I can say I am in your shoes as well... I have three children,
17, 15 and 12 the youngest being my only girl. I have been camping and
doing the same thing as you going up the hills on the trails in fact I
thought for sure I was going to have a major heart attack just trying to
climb the hill. It's really bad when your kids are pushing from behind and
pulling from the front to get you up that hill. It is a wonderful thing to
have that closeness that you have with your sister and to be honest I wish I
had that. I am fortunate though to have my mother she is the wind beneath
my wings. I wouldn't be able to go through with this surgery if it wasn't
for her. She is my support and my life line to make it through... As for
me to get on those wild rides at the amusement parks... Right now I do the
"bench ride" It seems to be the only thing I fit into... I tell the kids
to have a great time while I sit reading a book on the bench..
Don't give up hope.. All things come to those that wait....
Denise R.
Sept. 5th

Seta

2007-02-22 21:27:57

Dear Seta,
Welcome back (in your new incarnation)! I remember you from before and am
glad you're back. As for the eating issues, it's good you're getting the
help you need. Go to the files section of the website. There's good
information there on plateau busting.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/235/160
BMI 60/34.7/24
-151
-69.5"
Angel to Bill (8/14/03), Debbie (waiting for a date) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

the Reconstructive Surgery Saga continues

2007-02-22 14:57:35

TBA: how it went with doc #3.
doc #2's nurse is too busy to return my call, left a message 2 weeks
ago & earlier today...
what if i need to get some medical feedback as an early post-op?
bizarre, p s is really competitive, & there's billions of choices in
south fl. so i'm dumbfounded perplexed & perturbed, though i like
doc #2.
i'm requesting that doc #1 send me a written proposal detailing his
surgical technique, length of incisions, etc just like doc #2 did.
need some patience &/or a crystal ball right about now.
lori h.

Welcome Brig

2007-02-22 07:30:26

Hello to you Brig so you start your journey Sept 3rd with your first appt.
Good Luck ask any questions you may have go on line and read about lap
procedure I had lap on Dec 5 th I had know problems and have lost just over
75 #'s I am now on 1 blood pressure medication use to be on 3 although I was
not diabetic yet it was knocking at my door with my family history. I just
did not have any problems still dont ! You have alot of life ahead of you
and your girls you are going to feel wonderful !
Robin O- Calif
211-135???
Dec 5 2002

Thank you for the welcome

2007-02-22 02:26:17

After reading my intro I realized that I did a terrible job of
introducing myself to the group. My name is Wendi and I'm 40 yrs old
and the proud sister of Tami (Tamara) who is so close to getting her
date! I have to say that my sister has given me the strength to try
and see if this can happen for me and to give it another shot. I
admire her strenght and even though I am the oldest I look up to
her! I have 3 children ages 20, 16 and 10 (two boys and the youngest
a girl). I weigh 285 and stand 5'8" and have pretty much been over
weight all my life. I too like the others would love to be albe to
get into a ride and just be able to enjoy the thrill of the ride
instead of the embarresment of not being able to fit in it. I did
ride the New York New York in Las Vegas with my 16 yr old totally
surprised that I fit and didn't fall out due to all the pressure on
the harrness. I had visions of myself falling out of the ride
because not to long before I rode the ride I remember hearing about a
full figured woman who rode a ride such as this and fell out due to
the fact of her weight and the harness counldn't handle it adn
support her. I would also love not having to ask for a exstender
when flying...I guess you can say that I would love to do what all
the "normal" people do and not have to worry and think "will I fit"
or "how will it look if I do". I went camping with my daughter over
teh weekend and we went for a little hick...0.03 miles to the
swimming hole. The walk down was ok..down hill and I felt as if I
was going to tummble down the hill, while my daughter just hopped
down. After spending a couple of hours down at the swimmin hole we
decided it was time to head back to camp. I did not do very good at
climing back up the trail. I had to stop 5 times and catch my
breath!! I sweated like a stuck pig and my vision was blurred and my
heart was pounding in my throat. I honsetly didn't feel as if I was
going to make it up the hill and how terrible I felt that my daughter
had to witness this. I even tried to take my time very slowly up the
hill but that only gave me cramps in the calfs. We finally made it
up the trial and thank goodness there was a stump calling out my name
for me to sit and rest on it. This was a real blow to the head that
I really need to do something about my weight. I know that my weight
has lead/given me fears about certain things..like going down the
trail...I feel as if I can just go over head first from the weight of
my stomach. It is so amazing to me what "skinny" people take for
granted in their day to day lives that we cherish the thought of
doing someday! I just want to be able to ride a ride with my
children and fear the ride and not my size. So, Thank you Tami for
your courage to do this which has inspired me to try again. As I
have said before you are "the winde beneath my wings"!!! And I
admire you so much and which I had half of the courage and strength
that you have!!! Thank you for taken the time to read my post and
letting me take the time to tell my sister and everyone here just how
wonderful she really is!
Wendi

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Protein Powder Recipes--Soon, I Promise....

2007-02-22 01:04:34

I have BCBS PPO and was approved in 3 days.
Mel
Open RNY May2,2003
289/207/150

for Nioxin users

2007-02-21 13:10:11

is it my imagination, or does it weigh your hair down? it's working-
--less hair is falling out, but it's a little greasy, gross:-(
lori h.

welcome first time poster

2007-02-21 10:00:09

nice to have ya onboard sue!
lori h.

Re: checking in

2007-02-21 00:45:03

way to go!!!
lori h.

RE: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Protein Powder Recipes--Soon, I Promi se....

2007-02-20 22:46:21

I have BCBS PPO and it was a breeze to get approval. When I went to my
support group they told me if you have this insurance you will have no
problems getting the approval and they were right. It only took two weeks
to get approval but yet there were other people there that had the same
insurance that only took 2 - 3 days to get it.
Denise R.
Sept 5th

Re: New guy in Pensacola

2007-02-20 16:36:15

welcome aboard kevin. get all your docs together & give united plenty
of documentation, you can do it!
lori h.

Re: Hubby is getting started, I hope....

2007-02-20 12:46:09

it varies, some people get MMPI test, i had a thorough interview where
i had to explain aspects of wls, re-count my (diet) life story...
lori h.

Re: How Do You Doodoo? dumping

2007-02-20 04:07:24

I've been having dark diarrhea most of the time - just this morning
realized that I'm undoubtedly having "dumping syndrome" from the
sugary Tylenol liquid my doctor told me to take for pain!!! I am
diabetic, and probably extra sensitive to the carbs.
Soooo.... I'm going to start taking gelcap Tylenol, and hope that
will improve my unfortunate cramping, weakness and discomfort.
This is definitely a "your-mileage-may-vary" surgery, isn't it?
Nothing seems to be consistent from patient to patient, it is pretty
confusing, at least to me.
B*B,
Ysabeau

Protein Powder Recipes--Soon, I Promise....

2007-02-19 19:30:35

I know I said I would get those recipes out yesterday, but I had a minor
catastrophe at home last night. The drain for our AC unit got stopped up and
leaked all in the hallway and storage closet. Hubby is out of town, and that
left me to get it taken care of and cleaned up. Why do things like that
always happen when hubby is gone? Anyway, I promise I will have them out by
the end of the weekend. I'm sorry I wasn't able to get them out last night.
Thanks for your patience!
Cindi
Pre-op
PS- Also, here is a question. For those of you out there who have BCBS PPO,
how difficult was it to get approved for surgery?

Re:Danielle

2007-02-19 14:27:00

Danielle,
I am in upstate NY a small town called Corning. Don't know if you have ever
heard of us we are popular for the glass and the corelle dinner plates. Was
reading your posts and am glad I didn't until I became a post op sounds like you
had quite an ordeal I cant imagine it sounds awful.Yoru are a brave person to
have to put up with all of that. I didn't think things went too bad for me
they Surgeon and hospital staff were all wonderful to me they treated me great.
I had a time with the pain medication myself. They took my epideral away and
it was like stealing candy from a baby...lol Then they put me on Demerol every
hour which to me was like taking tylenol...lol They put me on the vicodine and
I have been fine with those ever since they wanted to give me the percocet
but they make me so sick to my stomach. I am with you though I would do it again
in a minute this is the best thing I could have done for myself and my
family. I have a hard time fixing meals for the kids in the evening and not
wanting
to just take a little taste to sample it to make sure it tastes all right but
I refrain I say forget it Cindy you have had it before and someday will again
just think how much more you will enjoy it once you get to taste it again.I
have been on clear liquids from August 13 and its looking like I wont get off of
them until Sept. 4th I have such a hard time with it I cannot stand the sugar
free Jell-O so I wont eat that I mainly just drink water crystal light some
sugar free popsicle and a small amount of coffee in the morning. I cant believe
how some people already get to have the protein drinks and cream
soups...Guess it depends on the Doctor...All right enough rambling from
me.......lol Take
care of yourself.
Cindy

RE: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Re:Danielle

2007-02-19 11:08:46

Cindy,
How was the epidural? I have been thinking about asking my doctor is this
would be better for me since I have asthma... Trying not to be personal but
why did you have an epidural?
Denise R.
Sept 5th

Re: Vicki

2007-02-19 01:48:20

I can't thank you all enough for your help!! It's nice to know you
are here and know what I am going through!! Love you all!
Vicki

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] checking in

2007-02-18 16:27:32

Bill
You sound wonderfull congradulations and keep up the work .. It is nice to read
your sucess..
Good Luck in the journey you are on the right road..
Have you had any sick times at all i keep reading about them
Again you got me excited when i was having second thoughts.
Good luck
Peggy
Pre op 322 waiting a date
Smile and Count your blessings life is to short

For Tanya

2007-02-18 10:18:06

Tanya,
Yes the surgery is very much like a c-section with the pain and so on I
don't know if you have had sections in the past but when I had mine my incision
was down by my bikini like but of course this open rny incision is totally
different but very much similar in pain. Hope this helps. Good luck.
Cindy

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] intro and plea for input

2007-02-18 10:11:54

are you near indianapolis...there is a bariatric center at Winona
Memorial Hosp in indianapolis. The program called Win Life. They also
follow you with support for 5 years
after...counciling...diatician...dr...psch...all areas for 5
yrs...support groups 2x a month also...1-800-344-4604 you can call for a
consultation and even go to a support group or two before you make up
your mind.

Re: New to Group Intro

2007-02-18 01:15:51

Sherry, I just had to write to you! First of all, at work I sat in a
top-level meeting with people from all over the country and the
woman across from me told me that my zipper was open. I closed it
and thanked her and within a minute, the zipper opened again. It
was broken from the pressure of my stomach. I could have just
died. I left the meeting, holding my notepad in front of me, and
thought that i fixed the problem, only to find that when I sat back
down in the meeting, it happened again. I used the lunch portion of
the meeting to race home and put on other pants. My heart sank and
I felt so humiliated. I hope to keep that memory when my willpower
is weak...
Regarding insurance approval, I met all requirements except proof of
participation in diet organizations. I just couldn't believe I was
so close and they were challenging my claim. They didn't deny me,
they just asked for proof. I was really uptight about it because,
while I could prove more than 6 months' membership in Weight
Watchers, I couldn't truly prove participation in Overeaters
Anonymous because they don't give receipts for meeting donations and
there is no paperwork stating that you belong. I did have nearly 20
books that I had purchased while attending OA and brought the
shopping bag of books to my PCP as proof. He wrote a letter to the
insurance company stating that he knew me for years and was aware of
my participation in diet organizations. I got the approval and had
the surgery on 8/7/03.
So, don't think all is lost in case the insurance company challenges
your claim. Keep going toward your goal. This is not to say that I
didn't cry my eyes out in my husband's chest when I first got the
letter, but I kept pursuing the claim and I'm very glad I did!
Sue
Lap RNY 8/7/03
274/256/130

info for families

2007-02-18 00:00:32

hi all, i found a site at one time that had information for the
family members of WLS patients... can anyone help me find such a
creature again...
thanks,
lesa
272/ waiting

RE: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Re Introduction

2007-02-17 11:30:16

It is nice to have you back Katie (Seta).

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] New guy in Pensacola

2007-02-17 08:37:05

Hey Kevin; we use to live in Dothan, Alabama and we would go to Pensacola
often to the beach and the quilt shop. Welcome aboard and keep after your
insurance! Dawn B. in Kansas and pre-op Oct. 13th

Re: intro and plea for input

2007-02-17 05:36:20

welcome aboard. here's a couple of "personal experience" answers, in
~~~ ~~~~:

NO SCALES

2007-02-16 17:58:55

Diana, I will certainly remember that once I have my surgery as I
know I will be hitting times when I just can't lose the weight. I
once went on a diet (haven't we all!) that only did those types of
measurements, no scales....great idea. Thanks..Carol

Re: Re Introduction

2007-02-16 12:37:36

welcome back!!! & way to go on the w l! i would say the vast
majority of us have needed to refocus @ one point or another. TG for
second winds!
lori h.

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] How Do You Doodoo?

2007-02-16 05:54:04

I still go everyday. And I am glad too because I want to go everyday. It worries
me if I don't go one day because I get those hemmroids so darn bad when I get
backed up. Mine are "healthy" also. Okay enough said about my BM's. LOL
chris B.
7/23/03\
301/270/150

checking in

2007-02-16 05:47:33

Hi just wanted to check in and I know its late here I have been on
such a rush, ever since I got home today from my 7th day post op
visit and I am very proud to sayu I have lost 21 ponuds thats 3
pounds a day and today was the best day as far as feeling 100%, I
haven't felt this good in a long long time, my blood pressure was
almost normal and the Dr said I am on my way =)so honey pls keep the
water flowing the popcycles cold and cream soups hot,and the protein
drinks mixed, this boy is doing it 1 oz at a time,,,,lol....till
next time take care all,
bill miller jr
377/356/180
post-op/pre-op/goal weight
mrpogo@...

Re: What does 263.2 lbs. look like?

2007-02-15 23:50:52

Congratulations. What a great way to measure your success! Keep up
the good work. You are an inspiration to us!
Michelle
Lap RNY 8/12/03
215-202-tbd

Lori C.

2007-02-15 21:01:20

You are so welcome. I love to tell stories about my dad. Not to say
that we didnt have our share of difficult days!
Have you heard anything from Kimberly yet? I've been thinking about
her all day. I imagine that finally someone listened to her and
maybe admitted her to correct some things? Gee, I hope I'm right.
She sounds so sweet. Well, today was a good day. The kids went back
to school. They are now officially in 6th grade. I was really
heartbroken when we showed up and the boys were separated into two
different classes. I know it's good for twins to be separate, I was
just hoping for one more year. I know it's just me. They are really
O.K. with it! I just can't get my teacher hat back on, everytime I
think about it, I think with my mommy hat. Jeez, what a job we have!
Well, its late now, and I think my husband has something in store
for me. I hope I can find the mood! lol. Talk to you all tomorrow.
Michelle
Stevenson Ranch, CA
Lap RNY 8/12/03
215/202/TBD!

New to Group Intro

2007-02-15 08:47:47

Hi everyone I am 32 F and live in Milwaukee Wisconsin. I am married
with 3 very active boys, 14,7, and 8. I am 5'1" and weight 270lbs. I
finally came to the definite decision for WLS (I have been
contemplating in for months) when I went to Six Flags Theme park and
I wanted to ride the rollercoasters and found with much embarassment
that the harness was to small for me. Here I am all excited with my
family, go on sit in the seat and low and behold they couldn't buckle
it. I was so embarassed.I had to leave the ride in front of everyone.
There I laughed it off and cracked jokes however it ruined the rest
of the day and I spent the quiet drive home and the rest of the
evening crying. I knew then and there it was time for a drastic step.
I have tried weight watchers slimfast diet pills (over the counter).
There were even times I have tried bulemia or anorexia. It of course
didn't work. I called the surgens office that following Monday. I was
hoping to get in by the first of the year. They have called back and
the first available oriantation meeting isnt till January 5. That was
disappointing. The waiting for the actual surgery is not the worst it
is actually having to wait that long go through the whole process and
then being denied by the insurance company that scares me. I most
certainly will go off the deep end if that happens. I look forward to
hearing of all your successes and hope to chat sometime. If anyone
wants to email me please do. I would appreciate the friendship and
the helpful hints and would love to share in your stories. Well thats
enough rambling for now.
Have a great day,
Sherry

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] New to Group Intro

2007-02-15 06:28:33

Wow, I was there. I'll never forget the embarrassment of walking off the ride
platform, my self-esteem around my ankles. The awesome part is three weeks
ago I took my 11 and 12 year olds to six flags New England and rode everything
with room to spare! You will be there and the joy over these little/big things
will make your heart soar, too! Keep your chin up and think positive.
Danielle M
Lap RNY 3/31/03
BMI 57
361/255/135
Dr S Merola
Queens NY
Peace Out :o)

New guy in Pensacola

2007-02-14 18:26:29

Hi everyone. I am new to the message board and thought I would
introduce myself. I am Kevin. I am 29 years old and trying to get
approved for gastric bypass.
I work for a major retailer of electronics in sales. We are insured
by United Healthcare who seem to be schizophrenic about whether or
not I am covered. I am very frusrated and seeking help.
My bmi is 52, i have diabetes and high blood pressure.
But..I am still cute...good thing too..phew.
Anyway..hello everyone...nice to meet you!
KC

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] What does 263.2 lbs. look like?

2007-02-14 13:29:43

Yea Steve!!! Great idea and a great way to measure your accomplishments.
Keep up the good work.
Take Care,
Julie
Open RYN 4-7-03
351/281/???

Re: How Do You Doodoo?

2007-02-14 12:54:03

I'm still a once-a-day man, myself! :-)
Steve G.
open RNY 5/6/02 Dr. Mark Gibbs
605/341.8/???

How Do You Doodoo?

2007-02-14 05:27:50

LOL! Only with my friends could I ever act like such an idiot!
Seriously, now...who all has a bowel movement on a daily basis after
surgery? I could swear I remember from a pre-op nutrition class
that we talked about this, and were told it would be a lot less
frequently. If you go only once every 3-4 days, no big deal unless
you're feeling constipated. So I ask because I've been going
everyday. And I'm even surprised at how...ahem, "healthy" (as my
father would say) they are. Just curious.
Gina in CA
LAP RNY 07-17-03
324/276.75/130?

What does 263.2 lbs. look like?

2007-02-13 16:34:45

Hi,all
I still wear the same belt I wore pre-op...I like to keep it as a daily,
concrete reminder of where I've been. I've had to add new holes to it several
times. Last night I added six new holes (and today I'm wearing it on the sixth
hole...looks like I need more holes!). Measuring from the very first hole on
the belt (where I wore it pre-op) to the very last one I added (where I wear it
today), I can see just what 263.2 lbs. looks like: for me, it's 20.5 inches
gone from my waist alone!
Steve G.
open RNY 5/6/02 Dr. Mark Gibbs
605/341.8/???

RE: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Why I refuse to buy a scale! ~grins~

2007-02-13 13:25:15

Way to go WLS Twinnie!! I'm so proud of you!
Tanya

Hubby is getting started, I hope....

2007-02-13 11:33:31

My hubby is having a hard time finding funding to help him get
this surgery. It has to be done though, or he might not be around
much longer. He has an appt for the psyc. evaluation. Could you all
let me know what is involved in this, so that I can tell him what to
expect???
Thanks
~~~Bawana~~~

Vicki

2007-02-13 01:56:20

Dear Vicki,
I am so outraged by surgeons that are just in this for the money. They do
the surgery and leave you hanging with little or no information and that is
tragic.
Anyway, as far as food goes, Brian gave you excellent advice. You have to
tread lightly though if you don't know what will or won't work for you.
There are many rules to follow, but they are easy to do. These are my
surgeon's recommendations, and they work for me, so I'm offering them to you
and assuming you know nothing about any of this. If you do, I apologize for
my assumption.
First of all, vitamins are critical. You need to take a good multivitamin
(equivalent to centrum or whatever, but something that has many vitamins and
minerals in it); you need to get vitamin b-12 (I find the 2500 mcg.
sublingual one from puritanspride.com to be excellent. B-12 is ESSENTIAL to
your health and if you become deficient in it, you can cause irreversible
neurological problems for yourself (I'm not saying this to scare you, it's
true); if you are still mentruating, you will need iron. Feosol (over the
counter) is a good one because it's easily tolerated and absorbed. You can
take the iron with a little orange juice or a vitamin c because the orange
helps the iron absorb quicker. You also need to take 1000 to 1500 mg of
calcium citrate (make sure it's citrate and not carbonate. We don't absorbe
carbonate); I don't see many people posting this, but my surgeon also
recommends Vitamins E, D, A and K.
You should have blood tests run (by your pcp, since you can't trust your
surgeon) every three months the first year of surgery and every six months
thereafter. Be sure to ask your doctor for a copy of your lab results and
save them so that you can compare your trends. This way you will see how
you need to "tweak" your vitamins, etc. Once a year you can have (if you
wish) a dexasan to see how well you are absorbing the calcium and to keep
osteoporosis at bay. When you have your blood drawn, have your doctor write
a prescription which covers all the items listed here:
It is recommended that for the first year post-op that you have your blood
tested every three (3) months. After the first year then it is every six (6)
months. Just to let you know, this testing requires about 6 or 7 tubes of
blood so don't freak out when they line them all up !!! Also make sure the
lab knows the proper handling of the specimens, one test requires that the
blood be kept from light and several require special tubes....just politely
ask the lab to look up all the requirements for each test. You should
always get a copy of your blood tests and compare the results for trends.
For instance if your lab values are in the "normal" range but they are
consistantly getting lower each time you get them done, you want to do
something about it before they fall into the "abnormal" range.
Here is the list: Comprehensive Metabolic Profile Lipid Profile ALT
(SPGT)GGTLDH Phosphorous - inorganic Uric acid Hemogram with platlets B-12 &
Folate Iron, TIBC, % Sat Vitamin A & D (25-hydroxy) Thyroid panel (T3U, T4,
FTI, TSH)Zinc Magnesium Ferritin. These are the ICD-9 Diagnosis Codes
needed for insurance reimbursement 579.3 - post-surgical malabsorbption;
269.2 - hypovitaminosis; 244.9 hypothryoidism.
For drinking fluids, you should drink as much as you can daily, but the
minimum should be 64 fluid ounces. This can be from water, crystal light,
sugar free decaf beverages, sugar free popsicles, flavored waters like fruit
2-0 or propel, juices if you cut them at least 50/50 with water to reduce
the sugar content, protein shakes, etc. It is recommended that you stop
drinking 1/2 hour prior to meals, don't drink during your meal and don't
drink for 1/2 hour following the meal. At all other times, drink as much as
you can handle. I set myself up in the morning by making myself a 16 oz.
protein shake (I prefer the Champion Pure Stack Whey protein powder which I
buy from supplementcentral.com -- they have great flavors and are
reasonable. Each shake is 30 grams of protein -- 23 grams from 1 scoop of
the powder and another 7 grams from the lactaid I use to mix it in). The
most we can absorb every few hours is 30 grams, so there's no percentage in
eating or drinking more than that at one setting. After the shake, I set up
3
24 oz. water bottles of propel. I drink them from morning to night and, if
that's all I drink (I usually drink more), I've gotten in 88 oz. of fluids.
As for food, you are in the solid stage and should eat anything you want,
bearing in mind that, if you are like me, the amount you can hold is very
limited, so you want to make protein your priority and you want the biggest
bang for your buck. I eat protein first every meal (and most times I'm so
full I don't get to anything else) but if I have room following my protein,
I'll have a green veggie or salad and if I still have room (which is
laughable), I'll have some type of fruit. The only thing I can't tolerate
since surgery is pork (and you saw for Brian it's beef), but you may react
differently. Some of my main staples are cheese (approx. 7 grams per
slice); tuna (28 grams per 2 oz. portion); sardines (skinless and boneless
in oil are 23 grams per 3 oz.); eggs (2 extra large are 14 grams); turkey
pepperoni (17 tiny slices are 15 grams); pintos and cheese from taco bell
(about 20 grams); chili with cheese from wendy's (about 20 grams); shrimp
(about 14 grams to 4 small shrimp) and the list goes on. If I have carbs,
it's usually from my veggies or fruit. If I MUST have bread (which is rare
for me) it has to be toasted. Otherwise it comes back at me for some
reason. You have to read labels so you can find your comfort level with
food and what's going to be the best thing for you. I try very hard not to
snack on my old favorites (I was a chocoholic) but every now and then the
craving gets to be too great so I have a TINY (and I do mean tiny) amount of
something. I used to "snack" on a 1/2 lb. bag of M&Ms. Now, (in the 11
months since my surgery) if I have M&Ms it's only been twice in 11 months,
and each time it was 3 of them, not the whole bag. I'm not perfect and I
don't know anyone who is.
You need to pace yourself. Try to spread your meal out over 1/2 hour if you
can. Eat very slowly so your mind can catch up to your stomach and signal
you when you're full. If you eat too fast or don't chew well enough,
guaranteed you'll be puking.
Another thing (which I rarely do, but was hoping I would do more of) is
dump. This is the reaction you get if you ingest too much sugar. You will
feel like you're having a heart attack. You will feel as if you're going to
pass out. You can sweat and get the shakes. It can last for minutes or it
can last for hours and you never know what will throw you into it, except
it's pretty much a given that if you're eating too many sweet things or (for
me) pasta which breaks down to sugar in your system. When it hits you,
you're gonna regret having eaten what you've eaten.
I can't think of anything else at the moment, but if you've got any other
questions, feel free to post them to the board. You'll get an extraordinary
amount of support here. Best of luck to you.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/235/160
BMI 60/34.7/24
-151
-69.5"
Angel to Bill (8/14/03), Debbie (waiting for a date) Ilene, Roy, and Ro

PAINS)

2007-02-12 19:58:23

i HAVE HAD 2 c-SECTIONS. iS THE PAIN SOMEwHAT CLoSE TO THAT? jUST CURIOUS.
jESS IN mi
330 pRe-oP

intro and plea for input

2007-02-12 09:17:11

Hey all,
I am just beginning to think about medical help. I live in the Ft.
Wayne Indiana area. Firstly are there any groups that anyone knows of
near me?
This is becoming a really tough decision to make. I am 32 and weigh
over 400 lbs. I don't know exactly because my internists scale
wouldn't go high enough. We guessed at 420 but I secretly think
higher. I have high blood pressure, pedal edema, angina, shortness of
breath, dizziness, depression, and mucho musculoskeletal problems. My
Doc says he recommends a procedure? Roux en Y specifically. I'm
finding lots of pro info on the web but little con. I don't believe
for an instant there aren't cons. Can y'all help me.
How will I if any be limited physically after surgery?
Anyone who is out of the surgery a year or longer?
If so what do you eat? How much(not grams of carbs,protein,fat but
portions and intervals)?
How much pain has any of you dealt with and for how long?
How rapidly did you loose weight at first as oppossed to long term?
Any of you not loose all you wanted yet and having trouble?
Has any of you known anyone who had this specific procedure and it
failed? Why?
I keep hearing about pouches maturing, is this true? How big will it
end up if I follow the program to the letter?
Don't get me wrong I am willing to do anything at this point. I am
just trying to sort out the info. I am also thinking about meds like
Xenical but am having trouble finding info not desciminated by the
Pharmecutical company that manufactures it.
Oh yeah, any of you have any advice on eating when you are a full
time employee and work in a retail environment.
I AM QUESTION MAN!!!!!!!
Signed,
Confused in the Fort.

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] New Member having lap band I hope

2007-02-12 08:49:58

Brig,
This is a group who has had gastric bypass...There is a group called

Re Introduction

2007-02-11 23:06:51

Hello everyone!
I hope this letter finds you all in good health.
I am Katie Bidwell, but I prefer to be called Seta (a change since
the last time I was here.)
Yes, you heard right, I was once a member of this organization when
there was a problem that arose and I was not made welcome by some due
to my actions of sticking up for a fellow person who was having
trouble. I was invited back by Lori, and Lori I thank you very much -
even though I declined at first - I have decided to take you on your
offer (if it still stands).
I had bariatric surgery on March 27th of 2003.
I am not sure what I weigh now but the last time I was weighed I lost
about 64.5 lbs I believe, and that was back in May.
Unfortunately due to stressful situations I also ran back to some of
my old "stress beating habits of wrong foods and too much of wrong
foods. In this I only sabotaged my progress. I haven't gained, but
I've been at another plateau for a while. So I am working on getting
back on my plan and loosing weight and eating right NOW. I am not
blaming anyone but myself, though I do have problems with handling my
emotions.
Which I am in help for.
Hmmmm...some interests of mine are collecting "fantasy" objects of
pretty much any sort, reading, writing, traveling, art, museums,
chatting on the phone, AIM (PrincessandHope), and/or in person
(anyone in the Philadelphia, Pennsylvania region?). I also love
horses and caring and riding them. :)
I guess that's it.
Take care!
Be well!
Much love!
~ Seta (who is still Katie)

New Member having lap band I hope

2007-02-11 20:13:29

Hello everyone, I'm 34 years old and am at 300 lbs right now. I have
3 daughters 9, 6, and 3 that I need to live longer for. I'm
scheduled to see the doctor on September 3rd. I am interested in the
lap band surgery. Anyone out there have the surgery? I'm diabetic
on insulin and want to get healthy! Any information would be
wonderful to help me decide what I'm going to do. My insurance says
they will cover the surgery with a letter to explain why I need the
surgery. I hope it will be as easy as they make it sound. They are
paying out a fortune for all my meds right now. Brig

Good Luck Ross

2007-02-11 14:41:23

Hey, Ross
Good Luck and your in my thoughts and prayers. Keep us posted.
Pam C
New Orleans
per-op
Debbie C <kitamaiden@...
Going in for WLS tomorrow at 1:30pm! Unless they find something
else at the last minute. Wish me well y'all!
Thank you,
Ross Karpelman
New Orleans, La
440/????

sample menu's

2007-02-11 11:34:50

Hi everyone,
Does anyone know of a site for WLS patients that shows sample menu's
or any other resources?
Vicki

Ready for Round 2!

2007-02-11 07:27:39

Going in for WLS tomorrow at 1:30pm! Unless they find something
else at the last minute. Wish me well y'all!
Thank you,
Ross Karpelman
New Orleans, La
440/????
Hi Ross...My prayers and thoughts are with you and wishing you the best of luck.
Keep us posted
Big Hugz & Smiles
jill_h_2001 <jill_h_2001@...

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Danielle

2007-02-10 19:13:27

Danielle,
If one other person benefits from that email, then this group has more than done
it's job (in my most humble opinion). It's a tough lesson to remember but it's
one that made my day.
Diana

Ready for Round 2!

2007-02-10 12:48:20

Good Luck Ross! I'll be waiting to 'hear' how it goes!
Danielle M
Peace Out :o)

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Digest Number 1263

2007-02-10 11:05:48

Welcome back to the group and welcome to the losing side Deb. You are doing
great to be posting so soon. Congratulations--
Jody Lap RNY 7/4/03 217/195/?

Why I refuse to buy a scale! ~grins~

2007-02-10 05:06:34

This email could be titled any number of things, such as:
Plateaus ... sometimes your body is doing things undercover
The Rest of the Story
Don't be discouraged by the numbers
Weight loss ... not always by the numbers
You get the picture!
Well anyway, on with the story ...
Yesterday I had two doctor's appointments (one with my PCP and one with my
gynecologist). I was anxious to see the numbers reflected on the scale. The
moment of truth arrives and I step on the scale. ~gasps of horror ensue and
dramatic music begins to play~ 214!!! ~downtrodden look~ What? How can this
be? 1 pound since the support group meeting three weeks ago? The injustice and
inhumanity of it all. So I blew off the first results as maybe just a scale
fluke. Off to the second appointment ... 216!!! Oh my! Now I'm really beating
myself up.
So today I decide I need the "rest of the story". My surgeon's office has a
body composition scale (a scale that measures your weight, fat mass, lean mass,
water mass, etc.) and I call to ask if I can come by for an official weigh-in.
They say sure.
So I step on the scale (holding my breath I might add) and the thing beeps and I
look over and see the number. 214. ~heavy sighs~ So in my head, I'm beating
myself up for all the tiny infractions I've committed over the last three weeks.
That one M&M I ate and the time that my tummy was achy and I ate just a few
crackers (bad carbs, bad carbs).
Then my surgeon comes over and says "But wait!" He pulls my chart and looks up
the information from my one-month post-op visit. He gets this HUGE grin and
says ... "Look at THESE numbers ..."
One month post-op body composition testing - 07/16/03
Weight - 223.5 lbs
BMI - 36.1
BMR (Metabolic Rate) - 1817 kcal
Fat % - 44.7%
Fat Mass - 100.0 lbs
Lean Mass - 123.5 lbs
Water Mass - 90.5 lbs (this is included as part of the lean mass figure but also
separated out to monitor for dehydration)
Two month post-op body composition testing - 08/21/03
Weight - 214.0 lbs
BMI - 34.5
BMR (Metabolic Rate) - 1775 kcal
Fat % - 38.5%
Fat Mass - 82.5 lbs
Lean Mass - 131.5 lbs
Water Mass - 96.5 lbs
So ... in spite of the fact that I've only lost 9.5 lbs in the last month (and
only one lb in the last three weeks), I've lost 17.5 lbs of fat and gained 8 lbs
of muscle. That's pretty awesome. My body is leaner, firmer, and healthier and
that's something that the scale couldn't see. I swore to myself when I started
this journey, I wouldn't get hung up by the number reflected back on the scale
readout ... that I would judge by how I feel, the way my clothes fit, and how I
look in the mirror. It's so hard not to though. So this gentle reminder did
MUCH to improve my mood. It just goes to show that you shouldn't be discouraged
by the scale, plateaus, or slower weight loss. Not all changes are measured by
those three little numbers on that scale.
Diana

For Vicki and Lizanne

2007-02-09 17:58:03

Sorry...the "Recipes" section is on another Support Group site that I
joined. If you're interested, it's on MSN and called WLS Friends
Supporting Friends. The URL is
http://groups.msn.com/wlsfriendssupportingfriends
The recipes to which I referred are at
http://www.geocities.com/kathywls/index.html

sherri

2007-02-09 13:35:11

hi again. i did the homemade broth; boiled chicken breast or turkey &
had the juice. the canned stuff is vile. decaf tea, light soy milk,
if these are on your list. & i still have the stinky jello in the
back of the fridge, after almost 16 months, hehe. i was "allowed"
apple juice, most people dilute it.
lori h.

Re: Todd or Vicki

2007-02-09 08:21:07

Hi Deb,
This is Vicki....nice to talk to you. I am 5 months post op from an
open RNY. I have had every complication possible. I have no idea
what I am supposed to be eating. I was abandoned after the initial
cut! Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you so much!
Vicki

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] New member....

2007-02-09 04:16:21

Hi I am also a Christian and about to have the gastric bypass. my bmi
is 48...i have been praying for God to guide me through this and He has
given me such a peace about this...i cannot wait...my insurance denied
me and i am sending an appeal, but am not discouraged...God is in
control.

Re: Open or Lap?

2007-02-08 20:56:39

Hi Tanja,
Doctors usually only choose open if a person's BMI is well over 50
or if they have other health problems that make it safer. Lap is
usually preferable because with lap you should have a quicker and
easier recovery from surgery than with a long incisision. The most
important thing is to find a doctor that is skilled and comfortable
with lap because it does take more skill than with open. I
personally think its worth the effort to go lap!
Good luck and keep us posted.
P.S. I think my computer has sent off some of my msgs twice because
I bumped the enter key. Sorry guys!
Bridget

GOOD NEWS

2007-02-08 16:35:24

Thanks Lori!!!!! What sorts of clear liquids did you guys drink? I want to get
some popsicles, but I am not big on broth and DETEST jello...any hints? sherri

Re: GOOD NEWS

2007-02-08 05:19:13

wooohooo!!!! congrats, any ?s for us, your captive audience?
lori h.

Re: MARYOOCH HAS A DATE

2007-02-08 05:14:30

yay mary!!! congrats!!!
lori h.

Re: Hello, I am back

2007-02-07 18:35:08

welcome back dawn b.! less than 2 months away...
lori h.

grandma2

2007-02-07 14:33:53

best of luck with your appeal, diane! keep us posted.
lori h.

Re: Appointment

2007-02-07 12:53:58

alright tanja!! did you request they call you in the event of a
cancellation? getting closer!
lori h.

ross

2007-02-07 02:49:24

best wishes on your date with destiny; see ya on the greener side.
lori h.

Re: post op 7days

2007-02-06 23:56:37

way to go, william!! just the beginning, just wait till you start
marking milestones.
lori h.

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family]Cindy B in NY

2007-02-06 17:32:16

Where are you in NY Cindy? I am in Dutchess County, close to CT. About an
hour and a half north of the city.
Danielle M
Peace Out :o)

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] GOOD NEWS

2007-02-06 09:36:43

Hi Group!!! I just heard from the doctors office that my surgery was approved
for September 17th!!!!! Yeah!!!!! Lord, I am soooooo happy!!!...not to mention
nervous, scared, excited...........sherri

RE: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] MARYOOCH HAS A DATE

2007-02-06 04:13:59

Congrats Mary.... I can feel your excitment all the way over here.... Keep
us posted.
Denise R.
Sept 5th

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Open or Lap?

2007-02-06 02:20:21

Open vs. Lap only pertains to the incision or incisions that the doctor makes
to get to your insides. Open is one long incision usually from your breast
bone to your belly button. Lap means that they use laproscopic instruments and
therefore make several small incisions - I had 6 ranging in size from 1/2
inch to 1 and 1/2 inches. Lap is easier to recover from and usually has less
pain and a faster recovery. Either way you have it done, the surgery itself is
done exactly the same on the inside of your body and which version you have
(open or lap) will not affect how much weight you lose.
Hope that helps!
~ami~
Lap RNY 5-13-03
261/218/130

MARYOOCH HAS A DATE

2007-02-05 09:09:58

HI EVERYBODY, HAVE A DATE, I AM SO HAPPY, I CAN'T STOP CRYING.
SEPTEMBER 17. I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR MY DR. ADANIEL TO GET HIS NEW
MALPRACTICE INS. HIS COMPANY DISCONTINUED COVERING WLS ON IT'S
DR.'S I WAS STARTING TO WORRY ABOUT GETTING ANOTHER DR. OR MY PRE
TESTS WOULD BE TOO OLD. THANK GOD! I REALLY WANTED HIM TO DO IT.
THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER DR.'S OUT THERE, WHO WOULD NOT PERSERVERE TO
DO THE LAP PROCEEDURE LIKE HE DOES. HE IS SO CONCERNED THAT HIS
PATIENTS HAVE THE EASIEST TIME OF IT WITH THE LEAST DAMAGE. ANYWAY,
GOD BLESS HIM, AND ALL OF YOU. THANKS FOR YOUR ADVICE AND SUPPORT,
TALK TO YA LATER.
LOVE MARY :)

Hello, I am back

2007-02-05 04:08:25

Well I have been offline for almost a month now, due to computer problems
but am back. My surgery is not until Oct. 13th, but it is coming... so I
am glad to be able to get info from you all. Dawn B.

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Smoothie Makers

2007-02-04 22:21:17

What do u put in your smoothie??

Open or Lap?

2007-02-04 21:48:56

Just wondering who all had what. I've heard so many different
opinions about both. Most think that whatever type they had is the
best. I want the one that will help me loose the most
weight.....lol.
~Tanja

Louisiana

2007-02-04 14:48:44

Not too far from Baton Rouge....it is amazing that there are more people out
there like me....
Carol Matar

Appointment

2007-02-04 06:29:06

I called today and set up my appointment to see the surgeon for my
initial consultation. Earliest they can get me in in Sept 30. It
seems like a long wait, but it could be worse. My PCP is behind me
on this 100% and said he'd do all he could to expediate things. I'm
excited but nervous.
~Tanja

Louisiana

2007-02-04 03:56:05

hi, i live in mandeville and if all goes well and insurance approves me i'm
set to go - i'm having dr lavin in covington do it -- i've worked with his
patients and he is a pro at any kind of laproscopic surgery.
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html

Ready for Round 2!

2007-02-03 23:45:08

No....Dr. Carlos Ferarri in Houston, TX....anyone us my doc?
Carol Matar

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] post op 7days

2007-02-03 10:07:47

hi, congratulations.....i can't wait and hope i get my turn. i've not been a
member for a long time and before i give an opinion i always recommend
calling the dr about things but i would THINK (as a RN) that pulling feeling
would be normal - they attatched 2 pieces togeather - i would think it would
feel like an internal version of an external incision - you know that
pulling feeling.....just my guess though.
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html

Ready for Round 2!

2007-02-03 09:45:11

Who is your surgeon? Could it by chance be Dr. Voravit Wongsa? He is my
doctor and is a very blunt, straight to the point, no-nonsense kind of guy.
Does anyone out there have him as their doctor?
Charlotte
Pre-op (tomistic anyway)

PAINS)

2007-02-03 08:10:02

hey danielle,
i was wondering about a nurse point of view on the surgery - i'm a RN also -
i'm thinking it might be comparable to my c-section -- what do you think?
what i'm worried about is not getting adequate nutrition since i hear some
ppl can't keep water down - however - if you lost that much in that short
amount of time i can manage to keep myself alive and well for that long even
if it means going the medical route - TPN or PEG tube - KWIM -- i have to
call friday to see if they approve me - this is attempt # 2 but the first
info they got from the dr definitely wasn't enough info and very vague so
you know the nurse in me had to do it my way and faxed them 52 pieces of
paper (LMAO) i'm going to drown them in papers until they say yes.
my dr too is out of network and i have to pay 3,000 and i know there are
some out there that cover it 100% but as a nurse i worked with this surgeon
and he was the top man for doing the lap nissan - i forget how they do it
but its to correct GERD and they wrap something around the esophagus to
basically keep things (acid) from coming back - nobody was doing this
surgery - so he is experienced with lap procedures and the lap nissan sounds
about like the same sort of maneuver except for the staples seperating the
stomach.
Tanya
visit our website
www.geocities.com/tanyarn96/countryside.html

Ready for Round 2!

2007-02-02 19:30:18

Congrats! I am going to have my WLS in October, my mother wishes I would have
it done in Baton Rouge where she can mother me instead of in Houston. Let me
know how it goes....always interested in supporting fellow Louisianians...LOL.
Carol
390/?/135
Pre-op
October 30, 2003
Carol Matar

post op 7days

2007-02-02 13:04:29

Hi all just wanted to post a few comments and ask a couple
questions, I am 7 days out and have lost 18 pounds, I drink 64 oz of
water a day, drink my 3 protein drinks a day, and by the way the
only way to drink these is by freezing them and eating them like
taht, cant stand the tatse otherwise, and i have my creamy soup(1oz)
like 2 times a day as well, sugar free popcycles are a life saver
too, what im wondering everyday i feel better and better, inm fact
today is my best so far and i have been getting out about 1 times a
day as well even tho my wife says im doing to much , i usally stop
when i start getting tierd, but all of the sudden, all I want to do
is eat, not that im hungry or is hunger that is causing this, could
have i already stretched out my pouch, god i hope not, i havent had
any foods but creams and water, nothing whole and every thing i have
tried so far i have no problems at all, I dont feel sick and have
yet to have a "dumping syndrome" it just seems to be to goo to be
true, although my stomach lets me know bc i can still feel the
healing going on inside, also I can feel some sort of pulling like a
muscle pull when I amd doing something to cause it , like standing
up when sitting on couch or twist a strange way, is this normal or
have I done something to my pouch, I go in for another visit today
at 1:30pm pst and get to see just how much weight i have lost,
everyone is starting to notice and I am starting to feel pretty good
bout myself.well time is running out and i have to go so untill next
time see you all for now.... your friensd on the losing side william
377/163/180
post op 7days
p.s. my surgeon and tean are the best, every dr's visit i see
surgeon and diettrician, they have full support care for post and
pre op patients, his name is dr,ninh nyguen, he is professor at uci
medical center in orange,ca. if your on the west coastande are
loooking for the best, call him. if you need more info email me and
i will get the info...............................Peace Out!

Re: [Gastric_Bypass_Family] Please sign

2007-02-02 11:47:13

Signing this petition and sending it on does nothing but waste time.
http://www.snopes.com/inboxer/petition/amina.asp
A revised petition circulated in mid-2003 claimed Amina was due to be
executed by stoning on 3 June 2003. This information is wrong: 3 June is the
date Amina is next scheduled to appear before the state Sharia court of
appeal. For now, her death sentence remains suspended until January 2004 to
give her time to raise her child until it is old enough to be weaned.
Would sending letters to the Sharia appeals court in Katsina (the one which
has already heard her appeal and rejected it) help? This is even more
unlikely: Muslim fundamentalists deeply resent Western interference of any
sort at any time, so telling them the world will be angry with them unless
they reverse themselves isn't going to be the carrot that will inspire this
particular donkey. They believe the teachings of the Koran and their
interpretations and applications of them are entirely above matters of world
opinion -- to them, they are answering to God, and nothing may be placed
ahead of that.

RE: Ready for Round 2!

2007-02-02 00:31:01

O.K... This time is for real...I hope!
Going in for WLS tomorrow at 1:30pm! Unless they find something else at the
last minute. Wish me well y'all!
Thank you,
Ross Karpelman
New Orleans, La
440/????

Please sign

2007-02-02 00:29:31

Please sign this and send; also copy to new email and send to friends.
Thanx,
Amina Lawal Execution Hearing on AMINA LAWAL SET TO BE STONED ON - 27
AUGUST 2003
The Nigerian Supreme Court has upheld the death sentence for Amina
Lawal, condemned for the crime of adultery on August 19th 2002, to be buried
up to her neck and stoned to death. Her death was postponed so that she could
continue to nurse her baby. Hearing on her Execution is now set for 27
AUGUST 2003.
If you haven't been following this case, you might like to know that
Amina's baby is regarded as the 'evidence' of her adultery. Amina's
case is being handled by the Spanish branch of Amnesty International, which is
attempting to put together enough signatures to make the Nigerian
government rescind the death sentence.
A similar campaign saved another Nigerian woman, Safiya, condemned in similar
circumstances. By March 4th the petition had amassed over 2,600,000 signatures.
It will only take you a few seconds to sign Amnesty's online petition. Please
sign the
petition now, then copy this message into a new email and send it to everyone in
your address book.
http://www.amnesty.org.au/e-card/petition.asp
LIVE SIMPLY THAT OTHERS MAY
SIMPLY LIVE!

Re: Today is the day

2007-02-01 21:05:16

awesome cindy!!! @ a week out, i was feeling like a couple of
quarters, hehe.
way to go on the 20 lbs & on chucking the meds.
lori h.

Today is the day

2007-02-01 06:33:57

Well today is the day that I become unleashed and I feel like a millon bucks.
I get those pesky staples and that awful drain out....HORAY.....My curiosity
got the best of me and since yesterday I was one week post op I had to peek on
the scales and see how much weight I have lost and I have lost 20 lbs already
I just cant believe how great I feel I have very little pain and I can feel
my energy is increasing day by day not to mention the fact that I am off both
of my blood pressure pills. I am so happy. Hope all of you are doing as well
too and I am enjoying all the shares and strength that I am gaining from this
group. Thank you all.
Cindy B. in N.Y.
228/208/120

Smoothie Makers

2007-02-01 03:03:35

You can get them at Wal-mart and I don't know why a blender wouldn't do the same
thing. My smoothie maker just has a spout on it...only difference as far as I
can see.
Debby in WI
8/6/03 Open RNY
244/225/130